1. Welcome To LPSG
    Welcome to LPSG.com. If you are here because you are looking for the most amazing open-minded fun-spirited sexy adult community then you have found the right place. We also happen to have some of the sexiest members you'll ever meet. Signup below and come join us.


GFs mom disapproves of birth control.

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by fak_et, Nov 3, 2008.

  1. fak_et

    fak_et Experimental Member

    Joined:
    Oct 17, 2006
    Posts:
    434
    Likes Received:
    7
    Gender:
    Male
    My gf's mom is giving her a lot of trouble about getting on birthcontrol. She brought it up once on her own and made a doctors appointment, then cancelled it. My girl brought it up to her a month later and she scheduled and appointment and cancelled it once again saying she is too young.

    Weve been seeing each other for about 4 months. I just don't trust condoms enough to rely solely on them.

    We've been using spermicidal jely with condoms so far, but that method is very messy and inconvenient.
     
  2. Industrialsize

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Dec 23, 2006
    Posts:
    22,180
    Albums:
    2
    Likes Received:
    28,411
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Kathmandu (NP)
    How old is your GF?
     
  3. Gl3nn

    Gl3nn Experimental Member

    Joined:
    Jul 24, 2008
    Posts:
    1,411
    Likes Received:
    5
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Somewhere in the universe
    Yes, what industrialsize said.


    But your gf can make an appointment herself. The doctor doesn't need the mom's approval...unless the system is different in America.
     
  4. fak_et

    fak_et Experimental Member

    Joined:
    Oct 17, 2006
    Posts:
    434
    Likes Received:
    7
    Gender:
    Male
    She's a couple months away from 18
     
  5. B_Sativa

    B_Sativa Banned

    Joined:
    Nov 1, 2007
    Posts:
    176
    Likes Received:
    1
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    In a dry flat land out west! Las Vegas, NV
    If your old enough for sex...your old enoughto be on BCP.
     
  6. got_lost

    got_lost Experimental Member

    Joined:
    May 13, 2007
    Posts:
    2,006
    Likes Received:
    17
    Is her Mum's problem just cos of her age or is it religious or something else?

    IMO it's your girlfriends decision and not her Mum's.
    She should just get on with it.
     
  7. shaftman800

    shaftman800 Experimental Member

    Joined:
    Aug 19, 2006
    Posts:
    36
    Likes Received:
    3
    Look up planned parenthood. It's there for guys like us. my gf's family is the same way. she has been on the pill for months now with out her parents knowing.
     
  8. nicenycdick

    nicenycdick Sexy Member

    Joined:
    Oct 17, 2007
    Posts:
    1,785
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    42
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    New York, NY
    Just be certain that the decision to use other birth control is your girlfriend's...not yours. It is her body that will ingest those drugs and it should be her choice...and her's alone.
     
  9. Tristessa

    Tristessa Experimental Member

    Joined:
    Dec 9, 2007
    Posts:
    213
    Likes Received:
    6
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    Norway
  10. fak_et

    fak_et Experimental Member

    Joined:
    Oct 17, 2006
    Posts:
    434
    Likes Received:
    7
    Gender:
    Male
    It doesnt seem to be a religious objection from her mom, she told her to wait a few months to consider it.

    My girlfriend wants to be on it, she is pretty frustrated her mom won't let her go.
     
  11. Gl3nn

    Gl3nn Experimental Member

    Joined:
    Jul 24, 2008
    Posts:
    1,411
    Likes Received:
    5
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Somewhere in the universe
    Can't she go alone? Do the doctors in the US need approval of the parents before they can give the pill?


    It'll also make her period easier (according to my sisters) so it's better for her.
    Tell her mom this: look, we're having sex anyway, do you want her to get pregnant or not?

    PS: that last one was a joke
     
  12. Jovial

    Jovial Expert Member

    Joined:
    Apr 11, 2006
    Posts:
    2,333
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    116
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    CA
    Why don't you trust condoms? The main reason they say they are not 100% effective is based on couples that rely solely on condoms and sometimes have sex without them because they don't have one.

    They usually rate any birth control method based on perfect use and typical use. With perfect use, condoms have a 2% pregnancy rate. With typical use it's 15%. But typical use would include people that use the condoms improperly or inconsistently.
     
    #12 Jovial, Nov 3, 2008
    Last edited: Nov 3, 2008
  13. SpeedoMike

    SpeedoMike Sexy Member

    Joined:
    Nov 19, 2007
    Posts:
    2,794
    Likes Received:
    28
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    San Francisco Bay Area
    tell her that's OK if she wants to be called Grandma...
     
  14. The Dragon

    The Dragon Banned

    Joined:
    Sep 11, 2007
    Posts:
    5,768
    Likes Received:
    36
    Get her to make the appointment with the doctor, driver her there and help her pay for the 3 monthly injection with the bonus of no tablets to hide and remember to take.
     
  15. B_ScaredLittleBoy

    Joined:
    Feb 24, 2007
    Posts:
    3,244
    Likes Received:
    12
    Does she approve of having a granddaughter?
     
  16. The Dragon

    The Dragon Banned

    Joined:
    Sep 11, 2007
    Posts:
    5,768
    Likes Received:
    36
    Fuck that SLB, his girlfriend is a child.
    17 year old child does not need a baby.
    She is having sex and she should be on birth control.
    End of story.
     
  17. Principessa

    Principessa Expert Member

    Joined:
    Nov 22, 2006
    Posts:
    18,673
    Likes Received:
    108
    Gender:
    Female
    Then don't fuck your gf's mom! :tongue: Sorry I couldn't resist a smart aleck remark. :redface:

     
  18. sdbg

    Gold Member Verified

    Joined:
    Apr 9, 2007
    Posts:
    4,071
    Albums:
    3
    Likes Received:
    2,063
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    San Diego
    Verified:
    Photo
    Yet another example of why I love your humor!

    As far as the failure rate of condoms, even 1% would be too risky for me. The last thing a 17 year old needs is an unwanted pregnancy. Raising a child is such a serious responsibility, yet so many people treat it like getting a new puppy or kitten. Perhaps that's part of the reason that our society is such a mess.

    My suggestion: vary your sex life so it's not always intercourse until birth control becomes available.
     
  19. Principessa

    Principessa Expert Member

    Joined:
    Nov 22, 2006
    Posts:
    18,673
    Likes Received:
    108
    Gender:
    Female
    WHOA!

    As long as you "Feel The Need to Cheat" you have no choice but to use condoms with all the women you fuck. :12: Anything less is not just dangerous and stupid; but life threatening. You have no right to risk the life of your girlfriend or any other woman. Then again that may just be the kind of guy you are. :irked: :angryfire2:

    And men have the nerve to wonder why so many women have built up huge walls around themselves and distrust men so much. It's because of guys like fak_et. :mad:
     
  20. craig_uk

    craig_uk Experimental Member

    Joined:
    Oct 18, 2006
    Posts:
    201
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    19
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Reading (GB)
    She is obviously telling her mother about her appointments with the Doctor so she is able to discuss matters wth her. This is a good sign.

    Is her mother under the mistaken impression that she is not having sex and will not be having sex untill she is on birth control? Maybe your gf needs to tell her that this is not the case and that she doesn't feel that it is safe or responsible to rely only on condoms.

    In any event it seems that she does not need to talk to her own Doctor but can go elswhere for advise and a precription.
     
  1. This site uses cookies to help personalise content, tailor your experience and to keep you logged in if you register.
    By continuing to use this site, you are consenting to our use of cookies.
    Dismiss Notice