My gf's mom is giving her a lot of trouble about getting on birthcontrol. She brought it up once on her own and made a doctors appointment, then cancelled it. My girl brought it up to her a month later and she scheduled and appointment and cancelled it once again saying she is too young. Weve been seeing each other for about 4 months. I just don't trust condoms enough to rely solely on them. We've been using spermicidal jely with condoms so far, but that method is very messy and inconvenient.