Hello everyone. I haven't stopped by in awhile but I've got something here. I don't know whether to be excited, freaked out or laughing! My 21st b-day is 2 days after New Years. I just talked to my bf and he told me that as a present on my 21st birthday he wants to give me 21 orgasms! He says no that is not THE present he's going to give me but it is kind of like candles on a cake (you know - 21 candles for 21 years, 21 orgasms for 21 years?:smile: ). I told him I think he's nuts but he said we can start right at midnight and we have all day. I told him I still think he's nuts but he's welcome to try! :biggrin1: (I admit I'm very excited now). So I don't know exactly why I'm bringing this up. I guess I'm worried about his dick falling off because I still can only orgasm from intercourse because I need deep penetration (clit doesn't work right ). I got my 1st dildo recently and I told him we can use that too. Geez what have I gotten into. OK, well I guess one point I have and maybe a question, is my bf pays a lot of attention to how many orgasms I have. Like sometimes he says we should try to break my "record" and I don't get why that's such a big deal. My best friend says it's because he wants to think he's "the man" and all, and I guess I understand, but he already knows the 2 guys I was with before him never made me orgasm, not once, and he makes me orgasm all the time, so I'm wondering is that not enough "being the man" for him? I'm just curious. I'm not actually upset about this :biggrin1: . I'm just slightly tipsy right now so I hope I'm making sense!