Gifting a sex toy to friend

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Have you ever given or received a pocket pussy, artificial vagina, Fleshlight, sleeve, or male masturbatory device to a friend? The other day I texted a meme to some buddies. We all started commenting on it, and one thing led to another and eventually the topic of toys came up. Some already knew about mine, another stated he had one too. One of them stated he never had one but he may be curious to try. Jokingly I told him we were going to go shopping and get him one. He said he was down. So I proceeded to get together with him to go and pick one out. He then started to back down, and said he may be down to get one, but really did not anticipate having to go and be a participant of the actual purchasing. So I talk to him and he reluctantly agreed we would go one day after work and pick one up for him. So I really don’t know how committed he really is. His birthday is coming up shortly. Should we stick to going shopping and pick one up for him where he has some say in what he may like? Or should I let him off the hook buy one for him and surprise him with it? Would it be appropriate?
 
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Sounds like he may be nervous about going to a "sex shop" with another guy. He knows you're just buds, but who might he run into in there....

I'd get him one as a birthday present. You could go to an online shop together & you order it to your home to gift to him. Involves him in picking it out, but lets him stay off the hook until he realizes how great they can be & how "straight" toys can be too.

People seem to get nervous about perceptions, but once experienced in the pleasure tend to relax. IME.
 

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I have an older friend who moved to the City about two years ago from a very small town, as in 500 people small.
He lived there his entire life and is married for 50+ years but has also played the entire time. They moved to the city due to her health and we met at a full service car wash.
Anyway, we’re simply good friends and I’ve been helping him navigate the waters. He is very naive about everything, especially toys and cockrings which I have a lot.
He kept asking so many questions that eventually I sorted through my toy drawer and gathered up duplicates and extras I no longer wanted. He came to the house and we went through the items one by one as well as showing him the contents of my toy drawer. I showed him how to wear them, I got a semi out of it and he got rock hard. It wasn’t a sexual thing at all as we are just good friends.
I don’t know if this sort of thing would work for everyone but it worked in this situation and I’ve done it with others in the past.
 
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View attachment 1292273 Thank you for your responses and votes. Although few, I appreciate them. So we had agreed to go after work and together pick out a masturbator for him. Although he was reluctant in agreeing he was for it. I get out of the office 30 minutes before he does so right before the end of my shift would over to his cubicle and told him I’ll see him shortly. He tells me he will not be able to make it because today his sister had to work, and he had to go pick her up right after. I kind of suspected he would back out at the last minute. So the night before I stoppe by the porn shop, picked out an artificial pussy and lube,, and packed it with me just in case. I left his cubicle went down to my car, picked up the items, went back to his cubicle, I told him I already suspected that he would back down, and presented him with the items. He blushed shook my hand and just said: “That’s why I love you, bro. Thanks I appreciate it.” We texted back-and-forth with the text group a bit in tegards to the events, and left it at that. Apparently it all worked out.
 
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Late to the party. Have never exchanged sex toys with a bud. If it were a generic novelty item in the price range of a nice meal out, I'd probably be ok with it. If it were a more exotic, luxury, or fetish item, that would be odd.
 
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So things turned out great. I asked him what he thought of it. He took a while to tespind. Finally, he responded: “Sorry sir, its been a busy day. It was a great day and i even woke up at 3 to take it for another run.” LOL so I’m just glad he is enjoying it.
 
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So a bit of sn update on mine. My buddy loved the pocket pussy, uses it quite often frim what he tells me. Apparently it has benefitted him all around. He is a bit on the heavier side. Two days ago we were on our break with some co-workers. A few mentioned they noticed he has been loosing weight lately ( I noticed it too). We just stated he has been strating som cardio lately. He and I looked at each other and laughed at our inside joke.
 

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Years ago took a younger straight friend out for a birthday dinner. He was anxious about still being a Virgin. He felt he could trust me as I’m the gay guy so we have heard it all, right?! Lol. We went to an adult store. I bought him condoms so he could try taking them on and off and bought him a real nice pocket pussy. He told me later he about wore it out. He soon found a gal. I feel it helped him get comfortable with sex. Also had another friend move to NY. I bought him one and lube and sent it in the mail. It was abought getting off in a safe mode.
 
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So I think I ruined my buddy, he dumped his girl. Well actually he states his girl dumped him, apparently because she told him he was no longer soending as much time with her anymore.
 
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So I think I ruined my buddy, he dumped his girl. Well actually he states his girl dumped him, apparently because she told him he was no longer soending as much time with her anymore.
Get him a fleshlight. No one will see him again, lol.

I was going to reply to your OP, and suggest online shopping since he seemed to be nervous about the whole thing. Amazon has a surprisingly robust collection of sex toys and lube.

At any rate, at least he's happy now!
 
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