Gifting sex toy to a buddy

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Have you ever given or received a pocket pussy, artificial vagina, Fleshlight, sleeve, or male masturbatory device to a friend? The other day I texted a meme to some buddies. We all started commenting on it, and one thing led to another and eventually the topic of toys came up. Some already knew about mine, another stated he had one too. One of them stated he never had one but he may be curious to try. Jokingly I told him we were going to go shopping and get him one. He said he was down. So I proceeded to get together with him to go and pick one out. He then started to back down, and said he may be down to get one, but really did not anticipate having to go and be a participant of the actual purchasing. So I talk to him and he reluctantly agreed we would go one day after work and pick one up for him. So I really don’t know how committed he really is. His birthday is coming up shortly. Should we stick to going shopping and pick one up for him where he has some say in what he may like? Or should I let him off the hook buy one for him and surprise him with it? Would it be appropriate?
 
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It depends how well you know him but the safest option is to buy one for him. I've had friends with whom I've visited sex toy shops with, and even with really good comfy friends it can sometimes still be a little uncomfortable. If he's never had a fleshlight before he's probably going to be fine with the basic model (something in a clear or glow in the dark colour is always a safe bet.). As an added bonus you can gift wrap it and pop it to him the next time you're out for drinks as a prank birthday gift. That way the embarrassment is a fun drinking with friends kind of embarrassment instead of a potentially awkward one.
 
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Thank you for your responses and votes. Although few, I appreciate them. So we had agreed to go after work and together pick out a masturbator for him. Although he was reluctant in agreeing he was for it. I get out of the office 30 minutes before he does so right before the end of my shift would over to his cubicle and told him I’ll see him shortly. He tells me he will not be able to make it because today his sister had to work, and he had to go pick her up right after. I kind of suspected he would back out at the last minute. So the night before I stoppe by the porn shop, picked out an artificial pussy and lube,, and packed it with me just in case. I left his cubicle went down to my car, picked up the items, went back to his cubicle, I told him I already suspected that he would back down, and presented him with the items. He blushed shook my hand and just said: “That’s why I love you, bro. Thanks I appreciate it.” We texted back-and-forth with the text group a bit in tegards to the events, and left it at that. Apparently it all worked out.
 

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i think it's weird, honestly... unless your friend is a total introvert when it comes to sexual matters, he needs to grow up and go get his own "pussy". it's cool to help out a friend but to gift him a pussy is just weird to me... if it were me, i'd take him to an adult store and let him pick one and then be done with it. hell, i'd pay an escort to have her use it on him first. just my opinion.
 

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I think it depends on how tight or close the relationship is. As you mentioned, you guys have talked about it. So yea, getting him one would be a nice gift. You may start with a basic one, like a clear rough sleeve.

Giving a sex toy doesnt mean that the receiever needs to use in front of the giver.
 
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So things turned out great. I asked him what he thought of it. He took a while to tespind. Finally, he responded: “Sorry sir, its been a busy day. It was a great day and i even woke up at 3 to take it for another run.” LOL so I’m just glad he is enjoying it.
 

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So things turned out great. I asked him what he thought of it. He took a while to tespind. Finally, he responded: “Sorry sir, its been a busy day. It was a great day and i even woke up at 3 to take it for another run.” LOL so I’m just glad he is enjoying it.
Sounds like you made a good decision for your situation. A couple of friends and I bought one more as a joke gift for a newly divorced straight friend. It had been a bad marriage and we were quite glad when the divorce was final. She was toxic around anyone.
 
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Sounds like you made a good decision for your situation. A couple of friends and I bought one more as a joke gift for a newly divorced straight friend. It had been a bad marriage and we were quite glad when the divorce was final. She was toxic around anyone.

Did he have mentioned whether or not he used it? or did you guys making any type of comment when he opened the gift?
 

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I ended up purchasing a Fleshlight quickshot for a buddy of mine after he saw my regular Fleshlight on a shelf under my cabinet. I seriously thought my Fleshlight would be camouflaged as a flashlight with the tools and cleaning supplies but this friend of mine was snooping and immediately knew what it was. He started asking me to borrow it and I allowed him to use it for a week only if he took care of it and cleaned it after each use. He returned it in great condition but started asking to use it all the time so I purchased him the smaller more convenient Fleshlight Quickshot because he complained about the cleanup process of the larger one and also didn't want his family to come across the bulky Fleshlight in his room. He didn't know anything about the Quickshot until I surprised him with it and he said it was perfect for hiding away and cleaning was a lot easier since it was open ended.
 
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So a bit of sn update on mine. My buddy loved the pocket pussy, uses it quite often frim what he tells me. Apparently it has benefitted him all around. He is a bit on the heavier side. Two days ago we were on our break with some co-workers. A few mentioned they noticed he has been loosing weight lately ( I noticed it too). We just stated he has been strating som cardio lately. He and I looked at each other and laughed at our inside joke.
 
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So I think I ruined my buddy, he dumped his girl. Well actually he states his girl dumped him, apparently because she told him he was no longer soending as much time with her anymore.