Girl power(s)

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  1. londonhanger

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    Ok lets be honest, women have all the power, and can for the most part wrap men around their little fingers. I am involved with a lady that managed to get her failed driving test decision reversed into a pass by batting her eye lids and flirting a little with the examiner. Have you ever used your feminine charms to your own advantage with a more impressive result?
     
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    you mean other than getting men to pay for almost whatever i want?
     
  3. psidom

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    my milkshake brings all the boys to the yard.:wink:
     
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    -15 girl points.
     
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    don't hate the player hate the game
     
  6. mariamluvsEMbig

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    LOL exactly...
     
  7. psidom

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    lol...i was joking,mickey lee gets it.:wink:
     
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    If you hate the game, then why play games with other people?

    Anybody who plays games with me gets a one way ticket out the door.
     
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    My girl powers can leap tall buildings in a single bound.
     
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    Hahah only if youre a puss. Once you figure out how to manipulate women, it's actually pretty easy.

    Honestly, instead of placating to women, be yourself...a pig, and that's actually what women want.

    Women like men because we are men. They like that we get dirty, are dicks sometimes, and can fix things. Take that away...and you have nice guys....which always lose.

    Same thing vice versa. Men...in general...don't like manly girls. I like girls to be soft and helpless.

    I know I am abrasive in the way I say...but I typed this fast and whatever.
     
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    I can't fix all things, & you never have to fix things unless you're in a relationship. I know a lot of nice guys who do this who are basically their woman's bitch! They even get these guy's around like puppies after they've been dumped to fix & mend, who don't get anything in return!

    It's easy to manipulate women too, but why bother unless you're on a neurotic power trip. It also f*cks up their future relationships, & their future partner's, & a domino affect of mistrust follows.

    Yes, be yourself, but treat others how you want to be treated too. Screw games.
     
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    I find being a redhead translates to hypersexual to some men- but i dont know if i've managed to get anything because someone found my feminine whiles to be irresistable. I don't wear mascara or fake eyelashes so i dont think that would work. Having tits can sometimes be enough for some men i suppose.

    In real life i really have no reason to use it since i'm married and have no interest in dating anyone or getting anything paid for by someone else. I think acting like that can sometimes make you look like an idiot.

    I picture how hard strippers work to get a lap dance and i would lose respect for myself.
     
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    Amen! If you want me to be the weaker sex I'll certainly comply. But my Mum always called it my "pocketbook!" LOL! Seriously, that was her euphemism for my hootchie pouch (what my Texas aunt called it!). When I was around 14 I asked her why she called it a pocketbook. She told me it could pay for anything! I remember us laughing for over a half hour, and when Dad came in and asked what was going on we simply lost control! We finally had to leave with tears in our eyes and never even responded to Dad. Poor thing, I wonder if he ever thinks about what happened or if Mum told him?
     
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    There are theories that say that all human interactions are essentially a form of "game play." It includes how you respond to "How are you doing today?" If you say, "I'm fine" and the other person responds with "I'm not" and explains exactly why, it's a form of one-downsmanship, even if it's true, or if you mirror their response, it's a form of "I'm okay, you're okay," etc. These moves may be harmful, beneficial, or completely innocuous. Everything you say and every facial expression during a conversation is a move in a game, as well as every interaction during any relationship. That makes this discussion a bit semantically complicated.

    Dating is definitely a game, there's no way around it, and the moves may be constructive and build a mutual trust that improves both your lives, which is healthy. Crackoff is referring specifically to harmful and abusive game playing, and he's correct, it's not the way healthy adults conduct their relationships with anyone.
     
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    Though I will graciously accept a drink or something else of that nature, and though I date someone for whom money is absolutely no issue whatsoever (doesn't need to work but does anyway), I find the idea of manipulating someone into providing financial benefits absolutely abhorrent. It is beyond tacky.
     
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    Spend 20mins in chat and you'll see that men clearly have all the power... the number of them who can not only convince other guys they're women, but get them to hand over credit card details, paypal accounts and sign up for paid porn sites is amazing!!
     
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    Game playing transcends one's sex. Manipulators are common in both genders. I just hope that the OP is certain his lady is willing to use her skill to his advantage and not just her own.

    Moi I may have a higher degree but I am rather dumb about string-pulling. It shows in how I have swum the big swim.
     
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    By batting my eyelashes-no.
     
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    I think this is why certain people really take an instant disliking to me. Because I'm intensely aware of when somebody is trying to manipulate me and really, that shit doesn't fly with me. Bat your eyelids all you fucking want, but I'm pretty immune to some pretty bloody obvious tactics.

    Saying that though, I'm just an overly cynical bastard.
     
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    Yeah, women have the power...











    ...The power to give me boners. They also have the power to make me sammiches!
     
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