This is a recent situation I want to get off my chest. I know I said I was gay once before, but I started to think about it and I couldn't picture myself getting off with a guy. I think about girls a bit. So I hooked up with this girl like 3 nights ago. I went down on her and enjoyed it, but my dick stayed soft. It was my first time going down on a girl. She reaches down and feels my limp dick and says "something's missing" Which was a follow up to her asking "what isn't gay about you?" after she had been grinding on me for a bit and I had "passed up like 10000 oppurtunities to just fuck her" There were various reasons I didn't. I had been aroused at first, but didn't know what to do next. Also I had some performance anxiety. And then she was really aggressive. She started grinding on me. I was caught off guard by how hard she bit my lip. I felt strange that I wasn't the one making the moves. Well anyway, I'm just wondering if she would have made insinuations about my sexuality had I not told her I was a virgin and that I was unsure of my sexuality. Could her accusations be because she is insecure about herself? She is really hot, and I still want to have sex with her, I was just not as ready as I thought. That said, I can't stop thinking about the things she said, and am worried that if I see her again this could be a vicious cycle.