Girl size and penis size

Discussion in 'Women's Issues' started by Randll86, Aug 14, 2006.

  1. Randll86

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    Here is the question/problem that led me to this site. I am 8.5" x 6.25" when erect about 5.5" x 5.5" flaccid. I have read all over the web and this site most women, if had a choice would prefer a penis around 8" x 6" However of the approx. 12 to 15 women I have had sex with only a few could comfortably Handel my size and some not at all. I had one girl Friend whom I liked very much, give me nothing but oral and hand jobs for almost 9 mos until the relationship ended (by her). We tried on several occasions with little success. However she was a tiny girl no more than 60" tall and less than 100 lbs. I thought this could be the reason, as most of the women I have been with are petite,but after seeing some of the vids on the web with these tiny girls, taking dicks larger than mine with out a any trouble, I am not sure. Maybe they are in pure pain and some how hide for the camera? I had one girl friend years ago who really liked my size, after things got really going she would basically fuck the shit out of ME. She was the only one who could take it all with no problem once very wet. At 1 or 2 inches taller than me and not at all fat but quite curvey if you no what I mean, not peittie. I am only 67" tall and weigh around 135 lbs.
    Also, I am not sure most girls know how big a 8 X 6 penis is, I had one girl say that she thought I was like 12" long, she was off by over 3"

    I have another question for the women, I hide my size with tight underware and loose pants. I was thinking of advertising my size with a warebrobe change. Is this a good Idea, I am affraid I will be preceved as some weirdo perfert who stuffs his pants. Because I am short and skinny, let and me tell
    ya, me with a semi erect penis in thight jeans is quite a sight. But at least women would know ahead of time. Or think I am a werdo.


    signed Hung & Frustrated
     
  2. sykray

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    The vagina is very elastic, especially in taking something thick. It is not the length of the vagina that is a problem for some women but the fact that a long penis can bang against other internal organs and cause discomfort.

    Many women cannot estimate the actual size of a penis so surveys about what women prefer can be misleading.

    Some women when they see a large penis feel concerned that it might hurt. This anxiety can tense up the muscles in the vagina and reduce the amount of natural lubrication and this results in uncomfortable or painful penetration.

    Use extra lubrication and take greater and longer care in foreplay to get a partner relaxed and comfortable but turned on sexually before trying to penetrate.

    I don't know that I can advise about whether you should "advertise" by wearing more revealing clothes. Some people will be offended by the outline of a large penis - especially an erect penis outline. Women are not generally turned on by bulging crotches. It is more likely to draw the attention of other men to your bulge.
     
  3. D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah

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    It is hard to tell the size of a cock just by looking because they differ in length and girth so much there is no standard size to compaire it to. So getting a actually hand on it is the only real way of estimating.

    And i have had a real 8x6 and i must admit it was intimidating at first and did take me 1 or 2 goes to take comfortably, however im not a small woman so that could have made a difference. With that size oral was more difficult thatother guys id been with, also anal was a scary thought for a long time before i got the courage to let him try.

    As for 'advertising' your size, maybe forget about the tight underwear but i wouldnt suggest trying to make it noticed..There is nothing more uncomfortable and unsettling that a guy trying to make you notice he is big, if a woman wants to know she will look in her own time
     
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    I'm a little smaller (max 8" x 6", usually just a little less in each). I have been with over 100 women, with a wide range of backgrounds.

    I like vigorous sex. Here is my experience (and there are always exceptions) with different types of women:

    White women who have not given vaginal birth have to be 5'10" to comfortably accomodate me (half a dozen notable exceptions, but all taller than 5'5", as I recall).

    White women who have given vaginal birth usually have to be 5'6" to comfortably accomodate me (more exceptions than above).

    Black women who have not given vaginal birth have to be 5'0" to comfortably accomodate me (only one thought I was too big and she was barely 5' and only 95 lbs).

    Asian woman have to have given vaginal birth to enjoy an encounter with me (although one seemed to enjoy the pain and kept pleading, "Hurt me" - never dated her again).

    Keep in mind what I said above... there are always exceptions. Also, you may not want to be as vigorous as I prefer to be.
     
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    slut :rolleyes:
     
  6. sares

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    just as an anecdata point, Mr.Powers learned to dom from a tiny little girl of 5'2". she wanted to be thrown up, thrown down, and fucked silly. He's 6'6" tall and about 8x6.25" in the pants, more when he's really excited. I think it's a crap shoot, but I bet the mental belief of a girl that she's "too small" definitely makes it harder for her.
     
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    :biggrin1: .


    Oh, you weren't talking to me. LOL.
     
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    Sares, are you talking about Max Hardcore (I thought he was quite small) or someone else? Jim Powers? Name rings a bell but I'm not too clued up on that sort of forced porn/abuse...

    Anyway, Girl's body size doesn't really have any bearing on it. If you take your time, slowly stretching, then it can work. I'm 8x6 and after I think it was a month or so of stretching my ex, and slow penetration with me just holding it in certain positions for a long time, she could accomodate me.

    The problem then though was when we hadn't had sex for a while and her vagina had retracted and it was painful for us to have sex...

    Now if you have a girlfriend,time and care can be taken to stretch etc. As for one night stands and the like, I guess the woman would have to have given birth or be the kind who gets around a lot, or has big toys...

    But body size doesn't really have much to do with it...just state of arousal and relaxation of the receiver.
     
  9. Gisella

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    If I understood right You r asking if a petit woman can take your size...well, yes depending of she wanting to, lub enough to tke you and etc...like most women petit or average or tall. I'm a petit and I know i can take a 8X6.

    You ask if many women have no ideia about sizes and may exagerate in her mind a big penis being a huge monster...yes. In my first experience with a big just by blind touching it in my mind i tought: OMG...its an anaconda. He is a 9X6...huge but not an anaconda...:biggrin1: but my experiences mostly was with averages penis (14cm/15cm) and 'thin' girths.

    To me the factor big is mostly the huge appeal of a girth to my eyes ( and later the sensations it causes inside). A huge lenght is impressive but if its 'thin' is not 'scary'..but what would impress me is a fatter girth..and of course if the penis is huge in both ways is a monster all over and if its the first time you see a big one your mind can play tricks...mine did..i could not compare and i'm terrible with messuraments too..:rolleyes:

    Well, be yourself and use the clothes you like dont sufocate your manhood...let it breath naturaly...you are a male that have your sex all outside hanging out like all man - not a pervert. Be pround of your unique body as a human person first of all...and by the way a 8x6 is delicious size learn how to use it and enjoy yourself ....

    Best wishes to you, Rand.
     
  10. sares

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    yikes!! oops. I used Mr.Sares pseudonym, that I use on another board. really sorry. Mr.Powers=Mr.Sares=my husband.
     
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    I love lil petite girls! Smallest has beed 4'-10 90 lbs....white, no kids. I had to be careful when I rammed really hard, but other than that, all systems were go. My gf now is 5'-4 100lbs. Other than being slow and careful at the start, its all good.....oh...well....nothing but missionary for me. Doggy tears um up, anal is outta the question.......I need ta try a tall girl out....any volunteers?
     
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    A true 8"+ dick is huge and very rare. Now I'm not talking about guys who measure 8" by cramming the ruler 3" into the stomach, but real ones. Women are perfectly horrible at estimating size- I've read those studies too, but any guy I've known in that size range has found out it's far from true. Women want to be TOLD they're getting an 8" dick, but the truth is they're probably thinking it's more like what a 6 or 6.5 dick (which is still above average, which is about 5.5) looks like.

    While most women could take one that size, intimidation will stop many of them, and even if they do do it, it might not be very comfortable for them. I think it's best to find one who really likes your size, among your other gifts.

    As for underwear, I don't think very tight underwear are good for you from a health perspective. Let that guy breathe!
     
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    Well i can't honestly say i agree with much of anything Madame Zora say's however i do think she's right on point with her last post.
     
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    I'm 5'3 115, and I stick to 6" and still encounter pain.
     
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    Correction: Man-slut. :cool:
     
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    so you visit lpsg just because you're a masochist? :biggrin1:
     
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    Haha, maybe, maybe not.
     
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    not very kind of you here. are you mad because you wasnt one of the 100? lol
     
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    8x6 is perfect. anything larger is a thrill, but for me, too big and painful.
     
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    My ex was at least 8" and was thicker than I could circle with fingers and thumb. I had no problems accommodating him.
     
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