I really think you took what he said out of context, or at least added an assumption that I don't believe he gave. Either way, I stand by my comment that I don't believe most guys on this site think like you suggest. You only had a few handfuls of posts when I last looked. Either you've been lurking a very long time, or really haven't read enough messages. I've heard "huge" guys give way too many cautious and even painful stories on here to believe like you do. Seems like your trying win an argument that doesn't exist, or maybe I just missed it. I would also suggest that if you don't want guys getting false information about female anatomy, it might be best to stop giving false information about male anatomy. No two penises are the same, sex doesn't feel the exact same for all of us, and we most certainly do not all ejaculate the same.
Discussion, debate, argument - call it by any name forums are open for all opinions. I am not trying to win anything, just joining in the discussion with some information with regards to how womens vaginas are not bottomless pits. I have in previous postings said I am new here (certainly not lurking?) and have not gotten around to reading all of the threads but in this thread alone there are countless references of men saying girls cannot accommodate them and the feeling they give me is that it is because of the way girls are built and that they are somehow physically lacking by being unable to have intercourse with a man with a big penis.
Of course no two individuals are the same and my ongoing theme has been dont dismiss the bad experience out of hand and if the person is willing - merely adapt and experiment in other ways. I also pointed out that lookin for a bottomless vagina was indeed looking for a type of holy grail.
I think that when a guy says he does not want to hurt anyone physically with his big dick, then says in the next sentence that he likes the power his large dick exudes then he needs to be reminded that the illusion of powerfulness of a man over a woman is in itself threatening and hurtful, whether it be his height, his biceps or whatever gives him this feeling of power. I did not misunderstand anything. IOf you look up the word power in the dictionary you will find that all the many definitions point to the ability of being able to control.
He demonstrated that 'power' by suggesting I had something wrong with me, that I hated men and had been hurt by a large penis merely for writing about the feelings and workings of a woman. He is allowed an opinion and I respond to the points, He attacks me personally assuming I am mentally scarred. Makes the word hysterectomy come to mind because all women who have a uterus are hysterical. That seems like a desire to be overpowering - don't you think?
As for false information about the anatomy of men that you suggest I have given, there is not one example of me even discussing the workings of the male genitalia and I have only referred to men being either sizeable or small and how they could increase their feelings of full penetration using their hands or their partners hands. I would not be so pretentious as to think I know a mans body better than he does, but as this particular main thread also invites you to give examples of your experiences I thought I would pass the oily hands one on. I would rather try to help then cite a long list of examples of how difficult it is for men to have deep penetration with a large dick. There are plenty men already doing that and giving graphic examples.The problem exists, as is shown from the number of men saying it does, nobody has to take the advice but its nice to add to your sexual repertoire because that is a win win situation. The webiste is called Large penis support group and the name itself shows that men need positive examples of how to live with it and not just lurid sex tales of mens one night stand failures.
Just for the record, I am a very feminine, curvy girl, 5ft 3 and adore sex. My husband is well endowed, I did not know his penis was larger than average, because I had nothing to compare it with as we have been together since high school. We enjoy a fabulous sex life, because we have learned together. There are times when I have gotten sore through intercourse, there are times when he has gotten frustrated because he cannot get deeper inside of me, but he has never once complained it is because of my incapable vagina, but we both KNOW its his large penis that makes me sore at times. And its no big deal when we know how to get round it because of the mutual desire to make it work for us.
I will of course get around to read other threads - but this particular one was interesting for me to participate in, so if you will allow me to finish absorbing this one I will move to the next one in time. After all its not a competition to see how much you can cram in at one session now, is it?