Ive been seeing a girl for the past week. All she really wants to do is hand jobs, getting fingered through clothes, play with boobs, make out. I keep trying to escalate to fingering her and get pushed away. But she likes it through clothes. Honestly im still not an expert at this stuff, any help appreciated. Tried setting her up for a bj and she refused, said "not yet' After all this, starts asking me for be her bf. what should i do? I dont want to tell her to get lost because she won't escalate as fast as i like. But at the same time, I can't take this anymore, i want some real action if im gonna be her bf. She has been reliably giving me action, daily, but dry sex gets old fast.