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Thanks it helps to get a female point of view .. cause I don't feel like she is teasing me/ I've been teased before.. this seems like shes hung up on something and hasn't made up her mind yet.
 

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And if it goes bad, and she turns out psycho, please keep us posted on your lawsuit. It will serve as a warning to all men about messing with girls at the workplace. It will be a public sevice annoucement.

You see, even if she does or doesnt, she will always have the option. You are gambling with your future. You sex offender, is what they will call you. And the law usually always takes the female's side, whether its true or not. Just keep giving her evidence.
 
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^What he said! and don't shit where you eat!

This man speaks the absolute truth.
You can find a fuck anywhere.
if needs be pay 1/2 your salary for a fantasy fuck.
can you find a job anywhere?
 

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Man, I have been in several office relationships and flings and they never end well. Could be just my luck, but it could be the law of averages. The main thing to remember is, regardless of what she told you, she dumped her boyfriend and was with you almost right away. The next time that happens, you could be the boyfriend. Enjoy the flirting and teasing, but don't get in over your head.

Oh, and if the chance comes along, fuck her, just don't get hooked.
 

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I could be wrong, but as long as he is not her superior, I don't think he is open to a law suit if things go bad. Sure she could certainly make life miserable at work for him and maybe even get him fired, but I don't think he would face a sexual harassment suit.
 

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I could be wrong, but as long as he is not her superior, I don't think he is open to a law suit if things go bad. Sure she could certainly make life miserable at work for him and maybe even get him fired, but I don't think he would face a sexual harassment suit.

Oh no? Then read this:
Sexual Harassment in the Workplace
 

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So I'm not sure what to do here...she calls me to tell me she broke up with her BF. So i pick her up Saturday from a friends house and we go to the mall...SO we ended up in the call talking...and we kinda said we should stay friends and take it slow. Right after we said that ...she was rubbing my dick...i'm playing with her tits...we part and kind cool down again. she says that the likes me but we work together and she doesn't want people to start talking. That i can respect,...but I also just wanna bend her over. IDK what to do.. Help

nychild she's a shook up, mixed-up girl on the rebound who is reluctant to have sex with you. Tell her you respect her too and won't fool around with her anymore.
 

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Wish, thanks for the link. Seems as if the employer could be liable. But that is assuming that he actually does "harass" her. I don't think having consensual sex with the girl can be classified as harassing her.
What we are talking about is that she could turn on him. If the situation goes south, as most tend to do, she can claim she was being harrassed. All the emails and phone calls could be used as evidence.

Even if she is lying, he could still get into trouble. Even if he gets off, he still has to deal with the fact that he was involved, which is still againt company policy. Is it worth it? Cant he keep a job AND get pussy elsewhere?

Its a lose, lose. But, as posted by other members above, it might go well. But those situations are far and few in between. Either way, its a gamble and the odds are bad. But its his life. He could do what he wants.
 

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Still not sold on the tease part.. but chick doesn't know what she wants so I'll keep marching on. When/If it happens then it happens... for now whatever.
 

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Why is she teasing you if you are flirting as heavy with her? And some work relationships work...I mean, come on. It's not so black and white. It sounds to me like she likes you, likes you, as in, she wants more than sex. She's being cautious, maybe, just like you? If you are such good friends with her, just simply talk to her. It's amazing what that will do. It don't see how she is a tease for wanting sex, but knowing you should both be careful? Maybe I am missing something in your post.

good luck.
 

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That could ne it but I don't know. As far as talking goes it always leads to sexual talk anf then we have to leave. The only thing missing from the post is that she text me all the time. She text me everyday to say good morning and good night. When we walk she always reachs for my hand of puts her head on my shoulder. i would think these are signs that she wants more but as soon as we start down that road she hits me with that line about us working together. Which in itself is werid because we work for the government which has employees throughout NYC. And as per her working together no longer means the same office (which is only temp for her), but the same agency.
My friends kinda think along the lines of billijean, and think that she likes me for more then sez and is scared. IDK
 

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The constant texting and the way she casually touches you for affection means she is wanting relationship, not sex. Can you deal with THAT?

Like many women, she is playing hardball and wants the whole package, not just office fun.
 

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I can deal with that.....but her mouth says one thing and her actions something completely different.
 

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Well, how old are you both? Maybe she is just scared you don't want her for more than sex. Have you, uh, cough, cough, I am going to get grilled here for this, but....sent her flowers? Or something sweet like that? Called her just to say hi? Try being more up front. Explain all this to her, the same work thingy, and if you are still into her, and you sound like you are, go for it. Just tell her, she sounds too scared to try for it on her own. And maybe you always talk sex because you two are like steaming for each other!!!

Good luck! And, don't believe a word anyone else says, women LOVE flowers. I've seen them go nuts getting them at work, but if you can't do that, send them to her home. It's very sweet. Even I get a thrill when my co-workers get flowers and the four times (yes, I remember each time!) I got them? Oh, my! It was wonderful!

But, just mho