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my girlfriend loves sucking cock . since 3 yrs into the relationship .she started talking agrresively when sucking my small cock . she all of a sudden started expressing how she enjoyed a thick long cock and how she misses the size of a big cock..she says that my small cock gets hard to fast .and that she likes how she had to work the big cock to get that cock hard..and how it grows and fills her hands..she says when I come I go soft and small quickly..she says when a big dick comes its still big and still a lot to enjoy ..so I now know after all these yrs of giving me bj.shes has always thought of a larger cock.or still has the desire to enjoy a big dick ...so now that she expressed these thoughts verbally .but was limited..so I made her comfortable and expressed that im not offended by her thoughts...I explained to her while shes sucking my cock.to tell me how she loves and misses a big one .its now fantastic and incredible bj..she gets so hot and horny that she can tell me about other wellendowed men she has had while sucking my dick. I love how she has that itch for the big one..but its hot to hear my women talk dirty to me about big cocks...she did say if I was big..she said she wouldn't want a small dick..but she loves me and not interested in chasing one ...
 

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my girlfriend loves sucking cock . since 3 yrs into the relationship .she started talking agrresively when sucking my small cock . she all of a sudden started expressing how she enjoyed a thick long cock and how she misses the size of a big cock..she says that my small cock gets hard to fast .and that she likes how she had to work the big cock to get that cock hard..and how it grows and fills her hands..she says when I come I go soft and small quickly..she says when a big dick comes its still big and still a lot to enjoy ..so I now know after all these yrs of giving me bj.shes has always thought of a larger cock.or still has the desire to enjoy a big dick ...so now that she expressed these thoughts verbally .but was limited..so I made her comfortable and expressed that im not offended by her thoughts...I explained to her while shes sucking my cock.to tell me how she loves and misses a big one .its now fantastic and incredible bj..she gets so hot and horny that she can tell me about other wellendowed men she has had while sucking my dick. I love how she has that itch for the big one..but its hot to hear my women talk dirty to me about big cocks...she did say if I was big..she said she wouldn't want a small dick..but she loves me and not interested in chasing one ...

That is super hot! I also have a small dick, at the bottom 2%. A GF I used to have finally admitted to me that she wished I had more, because......well.........she was used to more. A lot more actually. I said yes, I think you would like it if I was another inch or two. She immediatley said, About 4 more inches would be nice.

I also had her tell me about the larger cocks she had been with with she blew me and gave me a handjob. But, the real test, and I challenge you to try this, is I had her tell me how much different a large cock feels inside of her pussy.....and I had her tell me this while I was fucking her. It turned me on so much, and her too!!

Give it a shot and tell me how it turns out
 

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U guys need to help me understand sph! It just makes me feel so bad when smaller guys ask for that and i ensure u its not some weird reversal psychology to enjoy that im big. I just think every body is a luna park... different park, different attractions! And thats cool! Moreover I think small guys that wish to be bigger should be assisted in that, don’t know... I feel like there is a hint of judgment by the culture. How can it be possible that we still don’t have a healthy, known and safe way to get a bigger dick in 2021?
 
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SPH is on the verbal humiliation fetish spectrum, obviously. It could be emotional masochism.
A heterooriented article has some men explaining it, but enforced chastity/ forced feminization is in there,too.
What You Learn About Masculinity from Making Fun of Men's Small Dicks for a Living

Dan Savage dealt with the inverse, the larger guy wanting to humiliate the smaller guy who was just fine with his size, TYVM. (From a November, 2017 column)

I am a pretty handsome gay and I am dating a gorgeous man. I am bottom only, and he is top only — so it's a good match. He seems sincerely interested in me and we are talking about being together. But here is the thing: He noticed that I have a rather small penis. I am under the average, and his dick is quite big and long. Since he discovered this, he fancies about "humiliating" me about my "small pee-pee." He would even like me to show it to his friends. I am not ashamed of the size of my penis because it's how I am made and I can't change it. But I wonder what this idea means for him. Is it a common turn-on for some top guys to imagine that their partner is smaller than them? Does it hide something else maybe?


— Humiliated Over Tackle (HOT in response)

Small penis humiliation (SPH) is a kink popular enough to have spawned a porn genre. There are more than 76,000 SPH-themed porn videos on XTube. Small penis humiliation is definitely a thing. And it can be a very good thing for guys whose erotic imaginations transformed their anxieties about having small dicks into a kink they enjoy.

But you are not one of those guys. You like your dick fine, and you've got the exact right attitude about your dick.

It's usually the guy with the small dick who initiates small penis humiliation games with his partner, HOT, not the boyfriend with the bigger dick.
But the issue here isn't stumbling over a rare small penis humiliation top in the wild, HOT, but whether or not you're into it. Are you into power play? Do you like being degraded? Does the thought of this dude ordering you to show your dick to his friends turn you on in any way? If the answer is no, no, and FUCK NO, then tell your potential new boyfriend to stop making fun of your cock. If the answer is maybe, maybe, and maybe under the right circumstances, then talk it over with him and work out when, where, and how you're willing to indulge his SPH kink.

It's worrisome that this guy didn't bother with obtaining your consent in advance, HOT, and if he doesn't recognize that he made a mistake and swear not to make a similar mistake in the future, well, then you'll have to DTMFA.
 

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I'm used to women talking about how much they like a long thick cock. Of course, they are talking about mine, but still ... I find it normal.
 

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Vast majority of women like big cocks. Girth is king but long n thick is even better. They will say size doesnt matter as an Anti-Slut defense. Plus only a small % of men have a big cock, so if they wanna find a mate they cant be out there saying "Oh I only fuck hung guys etc" lol that cancels out 90% of potential hubbies. plus guys will slut shame em "oh she must be loose etc". But most of my friends are female and trust me when they're alone they talk about their bf's n previous bf/fuck buddies cock size.
 
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Vast majority of women like big cocks. Girth is king but long n thick is even better. They will say size doesnt matter as an Anti-Slut defense. Plus only a small % of men have a big cock, so if they wanna find a mate they cant be out there saying "Oh I only fuck hung guys etc" lol that cancels out 90% of potential hubbies. plus guys will slut shame em "oh she must be loose etc". But most of my friends are female and trust me when they're alone they talk about their bf's n previous bf/fuck buddies cock size.

this is so wrong, I cannot see where to start unpacking it.

aside from, you hang out with people without discretion.
 

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this is so wrong, I cannot see where to start unpacking it.

aside from, you hang out with people without discretion.

Well we can agree to disagree

I've had enough experience to know. And you're listed as "asexual" so I mean, yeah.
 
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Or even just cams. You can shoot from the neck down, that dick is a moneymaker.

Guy i used to do 3somes with has a dick like urs and hes considering it.

Man, I'm not sure I need another job. I've always thought of my dick as something to use for recreation.
 
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Well we can agree to disagree

I've had enough experience to know. And you're listed as "asexual" so I mean, yeah.
Did you just say that I don’t have the right to voice an opinion on how women can think because of my sexual identity?
I’ve listened to girls and women speak about sexual topics for half a century.
I’ve heard the open, the thoughtful, the “trying to fit in with males,” sex workers, medical pros, journalists and so many others.
I’ve talked sex activity and gender politics with “rock stars” in various levels of intoxication.
I have written about women’s views on intimacy.
I’m confident my sources aren’t lying.
And that’s before my own views.
Your echo chamber isn’t a wide view.
 
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Did you just say that I don’t have the right to voice an opinion on how women can think because of my sexual identity?
I’ve listened to girls and women speak about sexual topics for half a century.
I’ve heard the open, the thoughtful, the “trying to fit in with males,” sex workers, medical pros, journalists and so many others.
I’ve talked sex activity and gender politics with “rock stars” in various levels of intoxication.
I have written about women’s views on intimacy.
I’m confident my sources aren’t lying.
And that’s before my own views.
Your echo chamber isn’t a wide view.

You have the right to speak your mind anytime, I'm an absolutist on free speech.

Just saying when you start tossing out PC catchphrases like "echo chamber" "Gender politics" and "your post etc is so bad I need to "unpack it" lol. I just tune out of that dumb shit
 
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I don't understand SPH and frankly can't do it when asked. Why tear someone down even when asked ?