Girlfriend and black guys interest?

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  1. belerefont

    belerefont New Member

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    Hello all! I'm following this forum for quite long time and finally decided to join. Primary because it is not yet another porn crazed community, but quite serious and realistic.

    I'm in relationship with one beautiful girl for 4 years now. We have quite nice and healthy relationship, we are faithful to each other (as far as I know) with decent sex life. When it comes to sex I'm quite curious, would like to experiment a lot, specially threesomes, but girlfriend is quite shy and conservative, not very comfortable about even chatting about sex-related topics or watching porn.

    Now on the topic - few days ago we had dinner with one of her female friends and her friend showed me some article about polyamory. We were joking of course, suddenly my girlfriend said something like - is that some black guy...mmm. Although article was in front of me, in a second she noticed cartoon with 5 couples and one of guys was black. Then her friend said something like - boyfriend and 2 black guys that would be right foursome and my Gf confirmed. In general, I got this as joke of course, but then again it is quite surprising when you take in count her attitude towards sex-related stuff. I remember also many of comments related to black guys, even one about dream vacation and BBC. I never made some deep thoughts about it, but this really surprised since it looks to me that the first thing she noticed was that black cartoon guy.

    Funny thing is that we are living in Southeastern Europe. Except few basketball and football player + tourists, number of black people is really minor. Personally I have nothing against black people, on contrary I really like to watch IR porn and few of my fantasies include black girls or guys, but I'm really curious what do you think. I am not jealous, but more surprised. I asked girlfriend, but she didn't even want to discuss about it. Her answer was that I'm asking stupid thing. So how to interpret her interest?

    Thank you!
     
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    HHmmm, I would say your g/f has a definate interest in black men and the general assumption that all have big cocks especially if she was familier with the letters BBC and what they mean...that on top of her being familier with what her friend was talking about when she was talking about the 4some she found the most attractive and that included 2 black cocks. She is either finding out and developing her interest about black men from her friends or she is more on the internet for porn then you know, i would say you were correct in your interpretation of her interest and you are not asking dumb questions she has a definate attraction and or curiosity about black men and their cocks, just my opinion as a black man.
     
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    i would say the interest is more yours, and youre interpreting a joke the way you want to.
     
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    Interesting. I was expecting at least one answer like this. However, as I already wrote, this is not first time she is mentioning black guys in this context and that is the main reason I opened this thread - how would *you* interpret her reaction/comment?

    Anyway, thank you both for your answers.
     
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    i would interpret it as a joke, without any hidden meaning in it.
     
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    Early explorers went from asexual Britain and Europe to other parts of the world by boat, and they discovered dark-skinned men and women who were openly sexual. They enjoyed good sex whenever the moment was right, which was far from the situation in Western society of the time, courtesy of Christian beliefs.

    So the stereotype is dark-skinned is sexual, both men and women, and white women do get turned on by dark-skinned men. As a white man married to a dark-skinned woman myself, there is truth in this stereotype, even today.

    I don't believe penis size enters into the fantasy that women have for dark-skinned men.
     
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