girlfriend blabbed about size

[naughty]

DMW,

I think what you did was just right! I do not believe there should be a double standard for uncouth behavior. Giving her a taste of her own medicine was quite appropos. There is a reason private parts are call just that private parts. Unless you chose to share and then that is a whole other animal...

Naughty

Originally posted by DoubleMeatWhopper+Jul 15 2005, 02:03 AM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(DoubleMeatWhopper &#064; Jul 15 2005, 02:03 AM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-SomeGuyOverThere@Jul 13 2005, 12:34 PM
Next thing I know, for the next 2 weeks solid, every conversation she held with anyone started out by mentioning how large my penis was.... giveing the same comparison I had given her and the length in inches.

What I am about to relate is not nice, and I wouldn&#39;t exactly recommend it, but it worked in my case.

There was a girl who was a friend of a friend. You know the type: the loud, slightly overweight party girl. She kept saying how she heard that my cock was huge. "Is it true? Can you really not fit your hand around it?" This went on in front of friends, for Pete&#39;s sake. I tried politely to change the subject, but she she wouldn&#39;t be deterred. If anything, she got louder. Well, I had had enough. One last time she said, "Well, I heard that your dick is enormous. Everyone says so." I responded, "What a coincidence&#33; I heard the same thing about your vagina&#33; Everyone says so&#33;" She gave me a look like I just took a dump on her grandmother, but she got the point and never mentioned my penis again. In fact, she has never spoken a word to me since. I got the result I sought.

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[SomeGuyOverThere]

Originally posted by DoubleMeatWhopper+Jul 15 2005, 02:03 AM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(DoubleMeatWhopper &#064; Jul 15 2005, 02:03 AM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-SomeGuyOverThere@Jul 13 2005, 12:34 PM
Next thing I know, for the next 2 weeks solid, every conversation she held with anyone started out by mentioning how large my penis was.... giveing the same comparison I had given her and the length in inches.

What I am about to relate is not nice, and I wouldn&#39;t exactly recommend it, but it worked in my case.

There was a girl who was a friend of a friend. You know the type: the loud, slightly overweight party girl. She kept saying how she heard that my cock was huge. "Is it true? Can you really not fit your hand around it?" This went on in front of friends, for Pete&#39;s sake. I tried politely to change the subject, but she she wouldn&#39;t be deterred. If anything, she got louder. Well, I had had enough. One last time she said, "Well, I heard that your dick is enormous. Everyone says so." I responded, "What a coincidence&#33; I heard the same thing about your vagina&#33; Everyone says so&#33;" She gave me a look like I just took a dump on her grandmother, but she got the point and never mentioned my penis again. In fact, she has never spoken a word to me since. I got the result I sought.

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Thats so cruel but so funny at the same time&#33;

But I think she deserved it.

 

[jay_too]

I think that it is weird that girls have no problem talking about a guy&#39;s schlong, particularly if it is above average. On the otherhand, female body parts are not for mixed company discussion. Yea, I do tell another guy, "She has a nice ass." or "Boobs? Oh yea." But if overheard by another woman, I am in trouble becasue it always gets back.

jay

 

[13788]

Krueger: I have a lot of friends who are girls, and they all know, but as far as I know, they&#39;ve all never said a thing to anyone else. God bless them. It doesn&#39;t really come up often, and it&#39;s no big deal. Breasts come up more often, because my friend has huge ones. She complains that they get in the way and that it hurts to run.

 

[SomeGuyOverThere]

Originally posted by jay_too@Jul 15 2005, 04:50 PM
I think that it is weird that girls have no problem talking about a guy&#39;s schlong, particularly if it is above average. On the otherhand, female body parts are not for mixed company discussion. Yea, I do tell another guy, "She has a nice ass." or "Boobs? Oh yea." But if overheard by another woman, I am in trouble becasue it always gets back.

jay

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Yes thats because women are allowed to express sexist views and remarks, but men arent.

Doesnt really make sense but thats how society is

 

[Knight]

Originally posted by jonb@Jul 12 2005, 02:39 AM
People tell their friends what sex is like. Which means that her really evil friends will try to get with me. I don&#39;t mind as long as they realize I won&#39;t do that to her.

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I agree. This is why I say don&#39;t tell your friends about my todge lol. But she still does. Must be a girl thing. Then there&#39;s always one friend who wants a look or whatever, or just wants to check that I have what she&#39;s heard I have...Then I stop talking to those kinds of girls...

 

[jonb]

I think it&#39;s a girl thing too. Girls seem to have this strange phobia of stability, so they always set themselves up in self-destructive situations and then carry a grudge against everyone involved when things go down. At least that&#39;s my theory.

Guys, OTOH . . . A girl might come between us, and then we&#39;ll be friends again within an hour. And we&#39;ll respect another guy&#39;s relationships. We just don&#39;t let girls come between us. Maybe we&#39;re all partially gay, I don&#39;t know.

Whatever the case is, glad we&#39;re guys. Manic-depressive friendships ain&#39;t worth it.

 

[madame_zora]

Originally posted by jonb@Jul 17 2005, 08:11 AM
I think it&#39;s a girl thing too. Girls seem to have this strange phobia of stability, so they always set themselves up in self-destructive situations and then carry a grudge against everyone involved when things go down. At least that&#39;s my theory.

Guys, OTOH . . . A girl might come between us, and then we&#39;ll be friends again within an hour. And we&#39;ll respect another guy&#39;s relationships. We just don&#39;t let girls come between us. Maybe we&#39;re all partially gay, I don&#39;t know.

Whatever the case is, glad we&#39;re guys. Manic-depressive friendships ain&#39;t worth it.

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Jon, you nailed it on the problem with a lot of girls (especially girls, some women do grow out if it but not many).

But on guys, naw. You might respect another guy&#39;s relationships, but a lot of guys don&#39;t. Their friends girlfriends get hit on just as much as any random girl.

 

[jonb]

But we don&#39;t get as jealous and possessive. If most guys got all jealous and possessive, there would be a lot more women with bruises because men who are all possessive tend to get abusive.

 

[summertime01]

I have never mentioned his size to friends his or mine or mutual friends. I know a couple of his longtime friends are aware of his size due their years of puberty/comparing when hard etc. in their younger years. He has told me of situation with a past ex of his who blabbed to a much younger woman/actually to a teenager who chased him endlessly for a couple years. He was angry & mortified.
I expect him to not mention anything about me or my various sizes & I say nothing about him.
I know one his sisters is aware of his size due to a couple of past partners telling her. That situation is particularly embarrassing as she was visiting here from out of state for several nights early in the intimacy phase of our relationship & she over heard my noises in the middle of the night. She did let me know the next morning, as it seems that I awoke her. Oh well, as red as I turned, at least it was his sister & not someone else or some other family member.

 

[smallman]

There&#39;s an old song entitled "Don&#39;t Advertise your man". I think you should bang a couple of her friends. She&#39;ll dump you, but at least she&#39;ll have learned a lesson. Take one for the team.

 

[marteaux]

Just when I thought only my wife was indiscreet for talking about my &#39;privates&#39; ... I had lunch with a long-time platonic girlfriend, who had run into an ex-girlfriend of mine ... to make a long story shorter I asked her how "Pam" was and my friend&#39;s reply was "She says you have a nice cock" ... I was flaggergasted. These two only know each other casually ... why not just talk about the weather?

 

[naughty]

Hi,

I am sorry ,I cant believe this. Why are these women discussing your body parts? It reminds me of the game little children play, "My dog is bigger than your dog". The most incredible part of it all is that the body part doesnt even belong to them&#33; Summertime you are a wise woman. That really is something between the two people it concerns most. IF you have a good thing keep it to yourself.


Naughty

 

[james9692000]

My now wife and several exes have spread the word. Usually, there are just a few rare references. One friend was rather adamant about wanting to see it. My wife shared a lot of details and even a photo. That only made things worse. She even hounded me to whip it out at a gathering where her friend was present. Finally, my wife decided to put an end to it and asked me to reveal when it just the three of us. I did. She just stared. She told my wife Iwasn't the biggest but still damn huge.

 

[Osiris]

Pecker, I can totally agree with the sentiment there. Guys really need to find a way over the whole penis thing. I wouldlet her know that I dont want here talking about my size so openly (to men or women) and move on.

Everybody's got one--size isn't everything. Use is much more important.

Very true and as to friends treating you differently, it could be in your mind since you are uncomfortable with it.If it is your friends truly acting different and shunning you, the question is were they really friends to begin with.

I have never heard of penis size being a friendship killer.

 

[biggunlover]

Steve, I got a good chuckle out of "bra-size guesser"...............con't

As far as cock size is concerned, I'll cut the ladies a little slack because that can be construed as directly related to sexual pleasure. There's also good old human curiosity involved as well, and that's OK too. I think that on some level there's a certain competitiveness between women as well, just as there is with men. I mean, come on, we like to have a pretty girl on our arm & there's certainly an element of "Hey, lookie what I've got!" when we do, so why should women be expected to be any different? The trouble is, women have their assets on display & we don't (well, not usually), & there's no changing that. Add to that the fact that our "asset" changes it's size and appearance when we're turned on & you've got every reason to expect a certain amount of discussion. For me, it still comes down to :shrug:. I'm not thrilled by it, but I can live with it.

B-man

I agree with this entirely and will add that some women that are in competition will spill the beans also in reverse. My wife, a 34FF with a 24 inch waist(before two kids), has commented that going shopping with her sister isn't very safe either. Her husband told me while B-B-Qing two weekends ago that while the sisters were returning a defective bra to Fredrick's of Hollywood store her sister's bra size was 34FF. He said his wife is a 34D so that must be quite a handful. She has told me in the past that my wife has commented about my grown up size when excited. Sometimes I just wonder if they just can't keep their mouths shut except during sex.

 

[superslam]

this kind of happened to me over the summer. one of my friends (one of the only people who knows how large I am) blabbed to a group of close friends. one of these girls became a friend with benefits per say and we were at a party one night and her friend was like "hey, hes just like your ex, except with a huge member!" and it was right in front of everyone...would havebeen embarassing but i was too drunk to care. the friend with benefits could not take my penis. after our second time trying to have sex, she proclaimed "your penis is way too big" which at first was a turn on, but then was kind of depressing because i just wanted to share that with her.

 

[BigOneTodd]

Yea. When i was in highschoolone of my ex gf's friends was like there is no way it can be that big. She kept hounding me till i whiped it out for her. i went in the girls lockerroom with just her and pulled down my pants and she was like "DAMN" "THAT FUCKING THING WOULD NEVER FIT IN ME" just then in walks the Volleyball team and they got a peek too. I was never told that no one beleived me anymore. All the girls just stopped and stared and some said "HOLY SHIT" "DAMN" "NOWAY" lol
it was so hott.

 

[manhammer]

Had a girlfriend in University who talked about my penis ALL the time to her friends. She had told me I was her first big boyfriend and she talked almost as if she was proud she was finally dating a *big* guy.

Caught her once, at the campus pub when she didn't know I was walking up behind her, talking about me to her friends and she was totally exaggerating (not that she needed to, heh). I'm pretty big, but I seriously doubt she could "feel me in the back of her throat". I sat down, she was busted and we actually talked openly about it for a few minutes, which felt kind of cool. Her two best friends were hot, and one of them took a shine to me afterwards, but nothing happened, which I kind of regret now, not because I'm a cheater, but because the girlfriend turned out to be a psycho.

My current girlfriend has also told friends, and has told one of my guy friends as well (he was there as part of a group discussion). When playing video games one day and I was trash-talking him, he told me to go fuck myself. When I told him "I can" that shut him up completely.

Yeah, I don't think the girlfriend blabbing is neccessarily a bad thing.

 

[50%more]

This has happened a lot to me in my life. I caught one of my gf's in college bragging to all my female friends at a party. I walked around the corner while she was in the middle of telling them, the words I heard her say and the look on her face when she saw me left no room for doubt about what she was up to.

But be careful about being proud of this. I ended up being just another notch on her belt.