girlfriend can't deepthroat

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  1. longjon6699

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    My girlfriend can only take me about half way into her mouth. Anyone got any advice?
     
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    Well if she is interested in learning to deep throat you could ask some women for input (or gay men). If she isn't then I'd say learn to live with what she can do. My girlfriend doesn't deep throat and doesn't seem to really want to, so I'm happy and have no wish to "make" her do it, its really not a big deal to me. I'm happy with the extra length being stroked while getting a bj.
     
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    Deal with it.
     
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    Yeah same here, depending on your size you may never be deep throated, I think its more of a girth thing than length though, tell her to keep at it, or date a pornstar:D
     
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    Either learn to accept it or find her a way to deepthroat if she wants. Mumbling and grumbling about it sure don't help.
     
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    And don't force her. Never never ever force a woman to do something she's uncomfortable with. NEVER. Ever.
    No bribes, no begging, no guilt, no manipulation. Never.
     
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    advice for what? okay, your girlfriend can "only take you about half way into her mouth", what's so horrible about that, that needs to be rectified.
     
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    doesnt that all depend how BIG you are? I mean half way on some of the claimed guys here might be a hell of a length...

    It's not all girls that can do this fully anyways even on ordinary size guys; I learned it pretty young and have kept it up and can do pretty well, but most of my mates can't do it beyond a mouthful so ur best to just be glad shes got that far and try help encourage in whatever style she is happy with, unless she's not interested to go more in which case you should be just happy she is suckin u off anyways and accept that's her limit...

    you don't say what She says about that being 'only' half way? I mean isn't that important?

    Personally I wish I could meet anyone BIG enough so that I could only get half way .. ha wow thatwould be a thrill, cos best I have met (still.. even after some time here on the size site) is 8 inches measured and I could orally base him right down to his belly without much of a problem..so if there's anyone here in the UK with enough to limit me to 'only' half way then he's gonna be a right shocker of a size !

    bring it on ha ha
     
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    It really depends on what she's interested in doing. If she wants to try to do more, she'll let you know. If you're not satisfied with her performance, I would bring that up very, very gently. I can only take about 6", 7" on a very good day and that takes a lot of effort. However, I love trying and it adds to the excitement for me if I can't get it all down. If that's not part of her mental wiring I don't think there's much you can (or should) do to change her. Have a converstion with her, but tread lightly.
     
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    Blow me, kthx.
     
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    Here's a little tip, bit off the wall but what the hey....
    Ex girl of mine was a deepthroat fiend ( ahhh the memories..............LOL ) anyway while disscussing her talent one day she told me that she had learned to suppress/control her gag reflex by brushing the back of her tongue with a toothbrush. Slowly sticking her tongue out and brushing further down towards her throat. Initially she would gag and retch but as she could control the stimulus she learnt how to control the sensation. Took a few days of practice. This gave her the confidence and skill needed to know that she could deepthroat to her hearts content........
    She did also say that the look on my face the first time she touched base was worth all the time learning how to, mind you, sure that she didn't just use that line on me.......
     
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    Thanks, she really wants to be able to, so much so that she tears up a little from trying to take me deeper. I can't stand to see that which is why I'm asking.
     
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    if she is crying over it, then it sounds like you may be giving her a little bit of a guilt trip. Deal with it dude. I am happy if a girl can blow my cock head and a couple inches down. If she knows what she is doing, she takes care of the rest in ways other than a deep throat.
     
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    here's something that works for me. have her put your dick in her mouth when it's soft, like when you're sleeping or when you're soft, and then get hard in her mouth. at least fora few seconds you have the sensation of having all your big dick in her mouth--and let me know how that works for you big man
     
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    Okay, if she really wants to do it, I can pass along some good advice I got here from DMW. Part of it is physical and can be increased only so much, but part of it is also psychological. I asked him why men were so much better at giving head than women and he said that men really love to just pig out on cock. For some reason, that resonated with me a lot. As much as I've always loved to give head, I was stopping myself from really just going for it without thinking about how I looked, or if I dribbled spit on him.
    Once I felt I had permission to just go on a suckfest, I was able to get a lot more in than before. I don't know what size you are, and she may never be able to take the whole thing down, but if she can hold the base and suck down all the rest, it feels pretty damned good, at least from the reports I've gotten.

    I really like the toothbrushing suggestion, I did that too for a while and it also helped quell the gag reflex. Best of luck to you both, let us know in days to come how it's going, okay?
     
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    practice makes perfect
     
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    Join the club, and live with it.
    There are worse things in the world than being too big for a girl's mouth.
     
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    For me, a good blowjob on the outer 3 inches is far better than any one that has been able to deep-throat me. If you need to feel the sensation on your entire penis, I suggest recruiting a 3rd participant (which I also highly recommend).:eek:
     
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    Perhaps a funnel will help.
     
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    I'm thinking you're not alone there buddy.
    I've had many try, but none have taken me all the way orally.
    It's a dream of mine as well.
    I think it's great that you have someone who tries.
     
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