I think about that much time of thrusting is probably ideal, if not on the long side most of the time. I get sore. We are pretty intense and trying to fit it into our busy schedule. Foreplay is much longer than the actual intercourse though.
I'd agree on the foreplay part, only in that I consider eating her out as foreplay. My wife considers that sex, oral sex. So, as far as she's concerned, I spend about 10 minutes on foreplay, I think I spend about 30 to 40 minutes.
Last night, because of her soreness from the last time we had sex, we spent about 2 hours on foreplay, no sex.
how fucking offencive!
i think she might be entitled to an opinion on that.
it being her body. her being more than a blow up doll.
I meant that as in an, "Open up the lines of communication as far as investigating alternatives to condoms whilst having a loving, safe, trustworthy environment where both consenting adults can come to an understanding of fidelity and openness so that you can spill your semen inside her without the fear and stress of pregnancy or STDs."
Better?
I'm not a promiscuous guy (been happily married to the same woman for 4 years) and can't have kids, so I don't think twice about birth control or STDs.
oh, and i'd try a silicone based lube.
water evaporates & soaks into the skin.
silicone doesn't do that as much.
Woohoo! We agree on something!
