... or, to be honest, neither do I.
Hi guys and girls, I'm new here and I've got some questions/problems that keep bothering me the last few days/weeks. I hope you can enlighten me a bit.
Oh, and please excuse any mistakes, English is not my first language :biggrin1:
The thing is, I've been with my girlfriend for almost 5 years now, and both of us never had any sexual experience beforehand. So, she's still the only one who's seen me fully erect and I'm the only one she's ever seen (apart from one awkward experience in the local sauna with what seemed to be a micropenis, but let's better forget that
), and none of us had sex with anyone else either.
A few months ago i was still thinking my penis was rather small compared to others. I then once measured my penis and was surprised to find it larger than I had thougt (possibly because of perspective, but might also be because I'm really sh*tty at estimating...).
A few weeks ago I stumbled upon this site and began some researching. No, I'm nowhere as big as some of the other guys around here, but I came to the conclusion that I'm not small either and definitely on the better side concerning girth. OK, that certainly gave my ego a tremendous boost (not that it needed it :/) and everything was going great.
And that is where my problem kicks in.
One of the toys my girlfriend and I own is a Cock ring made out of a kind of rubber, from the german company Fun Factory. This little black thing is quite interesting, it makes my already rock-hard erection even harder and adds a little girth as well, maybe length too, but haven't noticed anything significant here. While I enjoy wearing the rubber thing for a short period of time (<15mins, I guess), it causes quite some pain after a while and especially after ejaculation, when my penis would not be that hard all on its own. No I thought that might be due to the fact that I seem to have more girth than most other guys and complained to my girlfriend about it being too tight.
And what does she say? "Honey, I think that's the way it's meant to be. I honestly don't believe you're that much thicker than the rest."
Yeah, here words. Coming from a woman that can't mean anything less than "Honey, i think you're best friend could even use a few more centimeters..."
Now, I think I could effectively hide my shock and surprise and didn't further pursue the topic.
But that leaves me with a few questions...
-Does she really think I'm (at most) average? Oh, by the way, I am between 7 and 7,5" on a good day, and at least 6" in girth. The hell, my penis is as thick as a frikkin kitchen towel roll! (are they the same size everywhere...?)
-I think she honestly does not appreciate what she's got in me... I mean, how common is it for the woman to have an orgasm from intercourse only almost everytime, and even squirt only from vaginal intercourse from time to time? Oh, and I sometimes hit her cervix when going at it a bit harder.
I almost think she needs to go sleep with someone other guys only so she can feel the difference. Lol.
Or else I need to fuck around so that other, more experienced girls just so I can get other opinions on my size and skills. :banghead2:
Anyway, I hope you can see my struggle?
I'm grateful for any thoughts and comments, i very much appreciate your help!
Yours,
Robert a.k.a Phobos
Hi guys and girls, I'm new here and I've got some questions/problems that keep bothering me the last few days/weeks. I hope you can enlighten me a bit.
Oh, and please excuse any mistakes, English is not my first language :biggrin1:
The thing is, I've been with my girlfriend for almost 5 years now, and both of us never had any sexual experience beforehand. So, she's still the only one who's seen me fully erect and I'm the only one she's ever seen (apart from one awkward experience in the local sauna with what seemed to be a micropenis, but let's better forget that
), and none of us had sex with anyone else either.A few months ago i was still thinking my penis was rather small compared to others. I then once measured my penis and was surprised to find it larger than I had thougt (possibly because of perspective, but might also be because I'm really sh*tty at estimating...).
A few weeks ago I stumbled upon this site and began some researching. No, I'm nowhere as big as some of the other guys around here, but I came to the conclusion that I'm not small either and definitely on the better side concerning girth. OK, that certainly gave my ego a tremendous boost (not that it needed it :/) and everything was going great.
And that is where my problem kicks in.
One of the toys my girlfriend and I own is a Cock ring made out of a kind of rubber, from the german company Fun Factory. This little black thing is quite interesting, it makes my already rock-hard erection even harder and adds a little girth as well, maybe length too, but haven't noticed anything significant here. While I enjoy wearing the rubber thing for a short period of time (<15mins, I guess), it causes quite some pain after a while and especially after ejaculation, when my penis would not be that hard all on its own. No I thought that might be due to the fact that I seem to have more girth than most other guys and complained to my girlfriend about it being too tight.
And what does she say? "Honey, I think that's the way it's meant to be. I honestly don't believe you're that much thicker than the rest."
Yeah, here words. Coming from a woman that can't mean anything less than "Honey, i think you're best friend could even use a few more centimeters..."
Now, I think I could effectively hide my shock and surprise and didn't further pursue the topic.
But that leaves me with a few questions...
-Does she really think I'm (at most) average? Oh, by the way, I am between 7 and 7,5" on a good day, and at least 6" in girth. The hell, my penis is as thick as a frikkin kitchen towel roll! (are they the same size everywhere...?)
-I think she honestly does not appreciate what she's got in me... I mean, how common is it for the woman to have an orgasm from intercourse only almost everytime, and even squirt only from vaginal intercourse from time to time? Oh, and I sometimes hit her cervix when going at it a bit harder.
I almost think she needs to go sleep with someone other guys only so she can feel the difference. Lol.
Or else I need to fuck around so that other, more experienced girls just so I can get other opinions on my size and skills. :banghead2:
Anyway, I hope you can see my struggle?
I'm grateful for any thoughts and comments, i very much appreciate your help!
Yours,
Robert a.k.a Phobos
