I talked to my buddy tonight and we talked about all sorts of things--size came up. Recently this girl I was somewhat "seeing" told me that the guy she lost her virginity to was very big, the second guy was extremely small, etc. Basically kiss-and-telling. Around the same time she was telling me all of this (well, not directly me, a small group of our friends), I was going through a very intense time where I felt uncomfortable with my average size and her in-depth criticism towards the guys she's been with (only three) wasn't helping. She talked about how she liked big dicks, like the guy she lost her virginity to. A thing I don't understand though is that because of this recent religious epiphany she had, she claims that she does not want to have sex until marriage (yet she still lusts for huge cocks? I don't get it...)
I'm getting a little off track here. Anyways, I told him about all of that and he said "That's funny, she told us (the guy she lost her virginity to) that he was small" a couple of years ago, after they broke up.
Why do girls lie about this?
Another example is my ex girlfriend in high school. It's kind of a strange situation, but we started dating when she was temporarily living in another state--it was a long-distance relationship. At this point we have only kissed, after getting a bit sexual on the phone, she bashfully asked me the size question--"Um I dunno...like 6? 6 1/2?" I answered honestly. She accepted it and we moved on to another topic, days later she told me that she looked at that size on a ruler and thought it was a pretty good size. Around this time of my life I didn't give a shit about my size (hopefully I can change it back to that) so I was like alright cool. She finally moved back to my town, we had sex and after dating for a bit, a couple of girls approached me implying or flat out telling me that they heard I was "kinda big". Obviously my girlfriend told her friends that, more than once too because the girls that brought it up were from different cliques/sects. At first I was flattered but after I realized that because of this I might have to live up to a false reputation. I was living a lie! Well, my penis was at least. By the way, girth had nothing to do with it either because I'm average in that department as well.
Why do girls lie about this? Is it just a status thing? Do heartbroken girls really continue the "oh he has a small dick" thing after high school? I really hope to not have to deal with such shallow, gossiping savages ever again...
I'm getting a little off track here. Anyways, I told him about all of that and he said "That's funny, she told us (the guy she lost her virginity to) that he was small" a couple of years ago, after they broke up.
Why do girls lie about this?
Another example is my ex girlfriend in high school. It's kind of a strange situation, but we started dating when she was temporarily living in another state--it was a long-distance relationship. At this point we have only kissed, after getting a bit sexual on the phone, she bashfully asked me the size question--"Um I dunno...like 6? 6 1/2?" I answered honestly. She accepted it and we moved on to another topic, days later she told me that she looked at that size on a ruler and thought it was a pretty good size. Around this time of my life I didn't give a shit about my size (hopefully I can change it back to that) so I was like alright cool. She finally moved back to my town, we had sex and after dating for a bit, a couple of girls approached me implying or flat out telling me that they heard I was "kinda big". Obviously my girlfriend told her friends that, more than once too because the girls that brought it up were from different cliques/sects. At first I was flattered but after I realized that because of this I might have to live up to a false reputation. I was living a lie! Well, my penis was at least. By the way, girth had nothing to do with it either because I'm average in that department as well.
Why do girls lie about this? Is it just a status thing? Do heartbroken girls really continue the "oh he has a small dick" thing after high school? I really hope to not have to deal with such shallow, gossiping savages ever again...