I'm a little older so, I use Viagra sometimes with my girl, but the problem is out of any of the girls I have dated in the past this one is the only partner I have yet to give an orgasm to. I tried both oral and vaginal without success. Maybe toys or lube will help. She says she doesn't always orgasm. I don't think its my size, not hung, just 6.5" x 5" here. Any suggestions?
Girlfriend no reaching orgasm
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Listen to her. Respect what she actually wants out of sex.
Has she expressed a dissatisfaction with the sex you're sharing?
Has she expressed a dissatisfaction with the sex you're sharing?
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Why don't you just talk with her - and listen to her body during sex?
A lot of women can not orgasm from vaginal or oral, and simple manual simulation is needed to help get to that point. Your dick size means absolutely nothing to her ability to orgasm or not. Lube doesn't magically make women (not girls) orgasm. If she's wet when you're fucking, extra slick won't change anything.
Talk to her, and ask her how she makes herself orgasm. Listen to her, watch her and do exactly as she says.
Talk to her, and ask her how she makes herself orgasm. Listen to her, watch her and do exactly as she says.
I had an ex-playfriend who kept her orgasms for herself. She loved sex, was an enthusiastic partner and got what she wanted from the sex she had.
Her orgasms were private, an act of self love and indulgence and playing a symphony across her own sexual response. She let me watch once. Baby girl shook the house foundations. It was crazy intimate and like watching the universe get made.
I was younger, so foolish was felt...talking to her, mostly listening to her, learned me heaps about heaps of things. She gets credit making me a better sex partner and person.
Her orgasms were private, an act of self love and indulgence and playing a symphony across her own sexual response. She let me watch once. Baby girl shook the house foundations. It was crazy intimate and like watching the universe get made.
I was younger, so foolish was felt...talking to her, mostly listening to her, learned me heaps about heaps of things. She gets credit making me a better sex partner and person.
A friend of mine told me a few years back that she'd never been able to cum during sex (including oral). She told me she was always just stuck thinking in her head and was never able to just be in the moment. This was quite a few years ago and maybe she's gotten over that distraction and now enjoys splattering balls with lady cream. She moved away and I haven't kept in touch being that I'm not on the Book of Face or any other mainstream social media app. I hope she's doing well.
Men aren't the only ones who feel pressure to "perform" when fucking. I think for some women the pressure to please their partner hinders their ability to let themselves be satisfied.
Men aren't the only ones who feel pressure to "perform" when fucking. I think for some women the pressure to please their partner hinders their ability to let themselves be satisfied.
Also, when talking about adults try to avoid the word "girls". Just a friendly suggestion.
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Yes. we are women, here. If the OP is “older” then use of girl is even creepier.
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You need to be patient and learn your lady's body, what stimulates her and what she likes.
