Thanks, maybe I'll post more. Yes she gained quite some weight since February. There's 40 to 50 lbs difference between now and then I think. She's 406 lbs now and when we went skiing she was 360ish. She feels very confident about her size and is actually gaining on purpose. When we started dating 7 years ago she was already chubby, I believe she was near 220 lbs or so, and it was about 5 years ago that she admitted to me that she's always had a secret desire to be fat. She started eating larger amounts of food and gained about 20 lbs per year. After she crossed 300 lbs last year she set a goal of at least 400lbs. She currently gains 8 to 9 lbs a month and is still gaining. She is very happy about her body but I hope and think she won't go beyond 450lbs.
At first I had to get used to it. But to see her confidence and love for her bigger body is absolutely great. She's experienced no side effects so far, except society and seats that have become too small i.e. planes, restaurants.