roman25: Hey guys and gals-I asked this question several months ago and got a few good responses.However none were from women.I would like to encourage any women on here to give their input as well as the guys.Anyway onto the situation: I was dating/room-mating with a girl in college a few years ago.We had sex the first night we met.I remember being quite embarrased because after a few minutes of intercourse, I went soft due to the fact that I could feel no friction at all.I chalked it up to the condom taking away some of the feeling because my last relationship over a year before was monogomous and therefore I didn't use protection.Anyway she was understanding and we dated without sex for a few months.We both got tested and began a relationship.Once we both passed our tests,we engaged in sex again that night.And once again, after a few minutes I went soft because I felt little friction.I remember looking at her and she had this"I don't know what to say" look.So the next few times we just had foreplay and oral sex.It was at this time that I discovered the cause of my anguish;this girl had a HUGE pussy.I literally could stuff my big hand in there and not even touch her vaginal walls.Moving on,it took a few weeks of sex to adjust to her size.But the only way I could really satisfy her was orally, because it seemed I was too small for her.Anyway, we moved in after 5 months.She often would reach into my pants and play with my limp penis.You see,I'm a classic "grower".My dick is on average 2-3 inches flaccid,but gets to 7+ when fully erect.So though I'm a decent erect size,my flaccid penis is nothing to write home about.She very often would say comments like "hello,anyone home" and "where did he go".At first I started to get embarrassed when she fondled me because I thought she was insinuating that my dick was small.Then one day while cuddling in bed,she asked the most peculiar question."What do you think of your dick size"? I didn't know what to think about that.My reply was "I don't know,average I guess.Why?"Then she said,"Oh I was wondering that's all."So I asked her,"what do you think about it" and she said "I think it's nice".?????? I never brought it up again,but I always wondered what was the deal with that?Eventually we adapted to each other sexually(we were in love) and I was able to give her orgasms through oral.She seemed to get a few from intercourse,although she could have been faking.Certain positions we refrained from doing simply because i couldn't satisfy her in these positions.And I don't recall her ever really giving me the impression that she was having a grand time during sex"Tell me about I broke up with her,but we are still close friends.I have always wanted to ask her about that,but have never worked up the nerve,as I live far away from her now and can only talk by phone.Do you guys and gals think I'm making too much of it,or was my ex hinting that my penis was small?I have never considered 7 to be small, yet having sex with this girl humbled me to an extent. it could have been that she was used to big dicks before she met me.Or maybe it could have been that she was too "endowed".I did tell her once that her pussy was big,to which she acknowledged"Tell me about it". What do you guys think based on what I've told you?Should I,for peace of mind, ask her about it,or am I making a mountain out of a molehill.I eagerly await your opinions.