Seize the day tomorrow. But seizing the day tomorrow can mean one small step. Put your hand on her shoulder. If the opportunity presents itself, put your hand on hers. But do something.Jesus. I was all amped up to seize the day tomorrow until you said that 36DD.
You can do this with style and class, and if you start getting signals that that is not the direction that she has in mind, you haven't gone so over the top that you've destroyed the relationship. You may wind up in a perfectly good friendship with a woman who may have friends that she can recommend you to in good conscience.