First, I am female & I thought a female repsonse would help you here, too.
I agree with & I'll add to hungrick's post: mY SO was in a similar situation for about 6 long months, and while he is employed now, he went through a divorce a couple years ago that completely wiped him out. (I know how that is, as that is my situation, too). I have always been fairly easy to please.
A man with a plan, esp. something so sweet as a planned picnic, whisking me away for a drive or a walk after or during a hectic day,etc. will win me every time! And a planned hike, with a simple packed meal & a quick cup 'o joe in a local coffee shoppe at the end of the hike, is the absolute best! Lawn seats at a concert are fine with me, too! Walking downtown on a warm summer's night, & maybe stopping in for one quick drink somewhere, also, works for me.
While gifts are nice, occasionally, or in conjuction with time spent together, I'd much rather spend quality time w/ my SO. Because he knows that planned time spent together (without a TV anywhere for miles & miles) means so much to me, when he does give me a gift, I really appreciate that to. I definitely want to show appreciation for it all!
To many women, too, help with something like grocery shopping or shopping for something she may know nothing about, i.e. tires, or help with housecleaing, cleaning her car,etc. means so much. It sure does to me! I get overwhelmed often with all that is on my plate & many other women do to.