Yesterday, about 9am my phone rings. On the other end it's my girlfriend. First words out of her mouth were "Please sit down, I need to tell you something?" I'm like... 'ok' (Thinking someone died or something) She then goes on to tell me that she just found out that her ex-husband (they've been divorced 4 years and her and we had been seeing each other for the last 3) has transferred back (they used to work together) and now OUR relationship is over! I was like 'wtf'.... She basically kicked me to the curb (not even in person but over the phone). Like the three years we were together hadn't even existed. I told her I'd like a better reason than that. Her response was that Greg (the Ex) and her were 'more compatible'.... WTF is that supposed to mean? In all the time we'd been dating we only had one significant issue... That being that made me feel like a sex toy most of the time and I was just there to please her. She wanted to cum 3-4 times, but didn't want to reciprocate. She let me cum once and she'd be done for the night. (I can cum more than once on most occassions with very little refractory period inbetween). BJ's mad her feel like a slut, handjobs and even precum are gross.... Ugggghhh! All were flat out-of-the-question. I was getting frustraited but came to accept that that was just one of her hangups and that I had to deal with it one way or another. I dropped the subject entirely. A buddy of mine and I found a solution to that problem since he was having the same thing at home so it was pretty much not going to be an issue any longer. We rarely argued, had the same likes/dislikes, etc. I just can't figure out where things went so very wrong I feel like I was just in her life as a commercial until she could get back to the main program! I'm beginning to wonder if she was just bat shit crazy to begin with -- seemed sane -- and I either didn't see it or didn't want to see it. Needless to say I broke three picture frames, burned an entire photo album, changed my locks and downed about a half bottle of Jack and am finally starting to feel better -- sans the headache. Thoughts? Comments? I'm trying to figure out what went wrong and pickup the pieces and figure out where to go from here.