B_DEATHbyCARROT
Experimental Member
Dude,
Unless she complained that she wasn't climaxing with you, and is still having sex with you, I wouldn't stress about what the ex was like or whether he was hung or not. If his huge member were enough she would still be with that guy. You opened a can of worms asking her and she gave you an honest answer, it doesn't mean she is still tied there. Just because there is chemistry and there is sex, unless there is real affection and love there, she may not climax right away and I wouldn't make it about size. She said he was hung - BUT SHE ALSO WAS WiTH HIM FOR 10 years.
That is long time to connect with someone and a lot of time to do the chore in a manner that she is accustomed to. I think with time, you'll figure out, but I would not be in a race or pressure her with your frustrations about your anxiety over it. Just relax and if she asks you do to do something, do it. If it makes you feel better to follow the suggestions from these other guys, you can try that. If she is still attached her ex emotionally, etc. she may not want to admit that to you or to herself.
You can have great sex with someone and they can be the wrong person for you. So I wouldn't register another guy being hung or not. You said she just started dating. You just started sleeping together, stop racing to figure out how to get her done and relax. When she wants to let go, she will.
According to his original post he had asked if there was anything he could do and if she has ever been able to orgasm and SHE responded with talking about dick size as the reason, not them being together for years or anything along those lines.
There is no way it will not hurt if a woman tells you she can't orgasm with you because your dick is too small to do the job. To suggest he not stress about her saying that is kinda insensitive or maybe you can't identify with the situation.
The man is asking his woman how he can pleasure her better. Since when is being concerned with you lover's pleasure "opening a can of worms"? She made it about size not him...
(By the way you say in the same post "If his huge member were enough she would still be with that guy" and "You can have great sex with someone and they can be the wrong person for you".)