Hey, my girlfriend has recently told me she wants to try Anal with me. Which ive been pestering her to do for ages, but got a few questions..im 9inches in length and 7inches in girth, anyone got any tips for our first anal experience?
Whatever you do, don't use lube.
In fact, pretend it was an accident. Best way to get in the back door and find out if she really likes it or not. If she doesn't like it say, "oops, guess I missed. Sorry about that". :biggrin1:
Excellent advice...listen to this man. With the exception of 'playing with her clit', it's the same if you're fucking a guy. Be patient and both of you will more than likely what you want.well there are two muscles of the anus you have to deal with. The external is controlled by your mind, the internal is a smooth muscle that is not controlled conciously. So what you are going to have to do is let her have most of the control, she has to relax and let the dick in. So here are some tips
1. Lube, when you think you have enough lube, put a bit more to be safe, and keep it close by.
2. Don't ram, you want to gain her confidence
3. Reach around, finger that clit so she gets pleasure with the pain.
4. Position, find the right for her, if I am going to fuck a girl in the ass, I don't throw her doggy and ram in, its usually spooning with me just doing what i do best, staying hard while she holds my dick and pushes back to work it in at her pace.
5. And ya having a bit of booze could only help, it lowers inhibitions and could dull the pain.
6. Patience, see 2.
7. Last but not least, when your done you better be kissing major ass cause for a girl to let you do that takes a lot of balls. Look at your dick and think of putting that up there
The first time I ass fucked my booty call it took me around 15-20 mins to get in and going, now after a year and a half she wants it every time and it only takes a good 30 seconds to get going. See muscles are designed to stretch and contract, so its just going to take time patience and confidence.