Girlfriend Wants to Watch Me with Another Straight Guy

[Mushroom Maniac]

I have to say that I'm in a similar situation as my girlfriend wants me to have a MM experience too. She's not up to telling me much about the person she has in mind so I'm thinking that I know him and would balk at the idea, so I'm not sure what to do myself. In your case Robby, I guess you need to stay open minded and trust her. For me, I'd love nothing more than to please her but I'm just not sure I'm wired to get it up for another guy, if you are great! Best of luck to you and if I decide to have man fun I'll let you know what happens!

But... if it's such a big fantasy of hers, wouldn't she be primarily responsible for "getting you up" for the other guy? If anyone were contemplating doing something this sweet/wonderful/exciting for me, I would do everything I could to make sure that he had fun too... she is planning to participate, isn't she?

(If you don't like her choice, maybe you know someone who is enough of a friend to help you out with this?)

 

[BIGBULL29]

You never know what you may enjoy with an open mind.

Sucking dick bores me. I wouldn't even want to suck my own peter. LOL. I'm just not an oral man. I will get blow jobs, however, but I don't love them.:biggrin1:

Sharing a woman with another dude is hot as fuck.

 

[D_Walt_Whipman]

I am confused. You say you are straight, yet claim you are 20% gay in your profile. What really confuses me is the requirement in this scenario that the other man be straight. Won't this make this very unlikely to happen? Contrary to so many other posts on this site, straight men usually don't get involved with any situation where they will have to have sex with another man...despite the unbounded hopes and desires of so many posters. And why all the trepidation if you are, in fact, 20% gay?

Why do I get the feeling that this is merely another hopeful "turn-the-straight-guy" post? I may be wrong...but there is some common thread here, I think.

Well...good luck, anyway...whatever this is.

About the 80/20: homophobia is not well-tolerated where I live and among my circle of friends. So trying to be very honest, I added up the following to calculate my 20%.

1) As a member of LPSG, I look at, discuss, and learn about penises;
2) I like a little anal stimulation
3) When I was a teen, I could just barely suck my own dick
4) I have been discussing my girlfriend's fantasy with her for years now

At the very least, these four things add up to 20%... don't you think?

 

[D_Walt_Whipman]

I would say go for it.

The best sex I ever had was in a MMF 3 some.

But then again, I like sucking cock.


Tips- first off, THINK about it... watch some bisexual porn or gay porn and try and feel out which position you seem to identify with or get most aroused over. Top or Bottom.

If you are gonna top, then you will find it is not that different... getting sucked and ass fucking is gonna feel familiar- even if the scenery looks different.

If you are gonna bottom, do some prep work- practice a few times cleaning yourself out- I recommend an enema.
And buy a dildo and or butt plug and play with it some...


If you already like a little butt play... work up to it with your woman using more fingers, then a small dildo, and eventually a man sized dildo on you.

IF you can get yourself comfortable with penetration, and even better, get to the point where you appreciate how it feels... then when it comes time to get assfucked you will be far more relaxed and far more excited.

I suspect you will find cocksucking fun. Face it, you know you would suck your own if you could reach it more comfortably... and I have never met a straight guy who tried it who didn't enjoy it.

But the best parts of MMF sex is the many different ways two men and one woman can plug into each other.

Taking it in the ass while you're fucking her.... Her getting it it from both ends... you eating her while he's fucking her... you in her pussy and he in her ass.... she riding on top of you while sucking the other guy's cock with his balls in your mouth... Fucking her while sucking him... her sucking you while he's fucking you....

And all the vice versa's where you and he trade positions.

Hell, it'll take a week of 3 way sex just to try all the different variations.

but if you can relax, focus on the sensual pleasure and abandon your preconceptions... you will find that sex with a man and a woman at the same time is amazing.

It sounds like you've had quite a few MMF's... I'd love to hear how your very first one went and all the details that went into putting it together. These are some very practical, well thought out ideas. Thanks man!

 

[D_Walt_Whipman]

I have to say that I'm in a similar situation as my girlfriend wants me to have a MM experience too. She's not up to telling me much about the person she has in mind so I'm thinking that I know him and would balk at the idea, so I'm not sure what to do myself. In your case Robby, I guess you need to stay open minded and trust her. For me, I'd love nothing more than to please her but I'm just not sure I'm wired to get it up for another guy, if you are great! Best of luck to you and if I decide to have man fun I'll let you know what happens!

I totally trust her -it's me I am actually worried about. I am afraid I will disappoint her and our "guest" if I can't find a way to at least seem like I'm enjoying myself. The host in me is worried about showing everyone a good time, I guess.

You would think that the totally taboo nature of it all will help with arousal. I am just having trouble picturing the whole thing in my mind and frankly gay porn just makes me fear for my/his bowels...

Sounds like your girlfriend is a big freak too! Hopefully like mine she is worth the trouble. I sure hope you & your gf have your "party" first so you can tell me how everything went so I will know what to expect.

 

[D_Tintagel_Demondong]

The more she gets off on it, the more you'll get off on it (and probably the other fellow too).

If she really wants it, she might coach you and talk and really get you into it. It can be a very hot scene. I've been in a scene like this before--with a verbal wife. It's very hot for everyone.

When it's over, he can leave you two to make sweet mad love for the rest of the night. :wink:

 

[MalakingTiti]

The very premise of this is fundamentally flawed, since if you and another guy are aroused and fucking each other, both of you have ceased to be straight.

 

[schwulboy1989]

Wait, she wants you to do things with another straight guy because she did a FFM threesome with you for you? There is equivalent exchange, and she deserves something, but my complete honest opinion is that THIS IS NOT FAIR TO YOU.

Okay, well, maybe that was a bit abrupt. Basically, more detail is needed here. How much girl-on-girl happened in the aforementioned threesome? An equivalent action to the FFM would me an MMF threesome. There was a guy a couple (maybe several... I am horrible at remembering how long ago things happened) months ago who was with a girl who surprised him with an awesome FFM threesome. He came here worried about and asking about a MMF threesome, and in the end, he surprised her with said threesome, and it turned out to be a blast for everyone involved.

As for your situation, you need to consider how hard it was for her to do the things she did for you, and weigh them against how hard it would be for you to do the things for her that she wants.

I, personally, think that it's okay to decline. It's a lot harder for a straight guy to do stuff with another guy than it is for a straight girl to do stuff with another girl. You would still be at fault, in a way, since she did do stuff for you and you wouldn't be returning the pleasure she has given you, but if she cares for you, she'll respect your boundaries, although you should try to offer alternative things you could try to do for her.

Really though, it's ultimately up to you, as I don't know nearly enough about the situation as you do.

it depends on if you are exchanging action equally, or if you are exchanging fantasy equally...you two will have to discuss this...


Physiologically, yes....even if the girl isn't sexually attracted to the other girl, the vag still functions. If a guy can't get it up, it's game over. Studies show, however, that arousal does not have to stem from attraction...any kind of sexual situation can arouse someone, and that is completely normal...

if this is meant to imply that it's easier for a woman to do something for her man's pleasure than a man to do something for his woman's pleasure, that is completely subjective and depends on the people involved, their relationship dynamic, and their personal beliefs. the solution can only be achieved by talking with your partner I'm sure she'll be understanding. Just don't pull any double-standards

I am confused. You say you are straight, yet claim you are 20% gay in your profile. What really confuses me is the requirement in this scenario that the other man be straight. Won't this make this very unlikely to happen? Contrary to so many other posts on this site, straight men usually don't get involved with any situation where they will have to have sex with another man...despite the unbounded hopes and desires of so many posters. And why all the trepidation if you are, in fact, 20% gay?

Why do I get the feeling that this is merely another hopeful "turn-the-straight-guy" post? I may be wrong...but there is some common thread here, I think.

Well...good luck, anyway...whatever this is.

He is welcome to identify as whatever he chooses. Two straight men can and have had sex before, because, as I said, a sexual situation can be enough to turn someone on. It doesn't mean they're attracted to the other. Homosexuality means one has an active desire to have sex with someone of the same gender. Being willing to have gay-sex to make your girlfriend happy, however, does not make you gay. It makes you a good boyfriend

FWIW: IMHO 100% straight guys do not catch or pitch with other men.


Why does it matter if you're 100% anything. Sex is sex...if you enjoy it and the other person is enjoying it, then it's all good. Only participate in this experience if YOU really want to have that experience. Otherwise, you won't enjoy it anyway.

Just my 2cents.
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exactly.

About the 80/20: homophobia is not well-tolerated where I live and among my circle of friends. So trying to be very honest, I added up the following to calculate my 20%.
1) As a member of LPSG, I look at, discuss, and learn about penises;
2) I like a little anal stimulation
3) When I was a teen, I could just barely suck my own dick
4) I have been discussing my girlfriend's fantasy with her for years now

At the very least, these four things add up to 20%... don't you think?

You can be gay, straigh, bi, transgenderd, gender-confused, or asexual....and still look at a penis and discuss having one...learning about and discussing your anatomy does not make you gay. you either are or you aren't (or you're somewhere in between).......but nothing MAKES you gay.

Enjoying anal stimulation means that you are male. It's a sensitive area, and you're most likely going to enjoy it. You don't have to like penis to enjoy being fingered or receiving a rim job, or even having a dildo of Godzilla's Cock up your ass....you're allowed to enjoy anal stimulation without losing any of your "straightness"

You are not the first person to try it, and you will not be the last. You gave it a try. Go you! You like the feeling of oral stimulation. Go you! Even if you did it because you wanted to know what sucking a cock was like, it still doesn't mean you're gay. Curiosity means nothing.

So? That just means that you're willing to go outside of the box to make your girlfriend happy, which makes you a fantastic boyfriend and you should be proud of that.

Nothing can ever make you gay. If you identify as bisexual/gay, that is your prerogative. If you enjoy looking at the female form and everything about it turns you on and you can't wait to have sex with a woman, you're not 100% gay. If you are turned on by the male form, and you *desire* to suck a penis or you *desire* a man (not stimulation....a MAN) then you are probably not 100% straight.

Let me sum this up in one short sentence.
Sexuality is determined by desire/lack thereof, and nothing else.

The very premise of this is fundamentally flawed, since if you and another guy are aroused and fucking each other, both of you have ceased to be straight.

Read everything I just wrote.

 

[Phil Ayesho]

It sounds like you've had quite a few MMF's... I'd love to hear how your very first one went and all the details that went into putting it together. These are some very practical, well thought out ideas. Thanks man!

Spent a 3 day weekend on a business trip way back when I was between relationships.
A lovely and well proportioned businesswoman I met and had dinner with showed a strong interest in me and I was certainly interested in her...
She asked me what she called her 5 questions. Afterward, she told me any no answer and the guy's a no go...
these questions, she said, narrowed her focus on what guys were worth while.
1 have you ever tried to suck your own cock? Any guy saying no is a liar... step off.
2 were you able to? any guy saying no is not well enough hung for her, step off
3 did you come in your mouth? answer no and she loses interest...
4 did you suck yourself off more than a few times?

And if you got that far, one last question was the acid test
5 You suck cock, eat cum and did so regularly... what's the difference between you and a gay guy?
To which I answered.... the gay guy probably doesn't get a kink in his neck...
She already knew from our prior discussions that I had just come out of a long term marriage.
That's when she told me that she and her boyfriend of many years were looking to find a "straight" guy for an MMF. And she had come up with her questions to try and find a guy who might be honest and open enough to take part.
When I asked how many guys she had managed to find with this technique, she told me I was the first one who answered all the question correctly.

I explained to her that I was open to the idea, and that I had had some experience in the very distant past... and she explained that her husband was "straight" but willing to do this to satisfy her fantasy of seeing men have sex...as long as he could top and as long as the other guy was "straight"...
His fantasy in the thing was to sexually dominate another "straight" man and 'force' him to be his bitch.

She was uncomfortable with any kind of 'rape' thing... so she insisted it had to be a guy willing to PLAY that role.

Well... I was willing...
I went home with her and the two of us started in and she playfully tied me up, and then her boyfriend showed up and commenced to taking advantage of me being trussed up to "teach me a lesson about fucking another guy's girl".
I acted as if I was initially abhorred and resisting... but gradually I resisted less and less until by the evening's end he had turned me into a total cock worshiping slave.

I stayed two more days with them, and let me tell you, it was a fuckasuckapalooza.

It was an era for me when, although I had not had any homosexual contacts in over 15 years, I still regularly used a massive Jeff Stryker dildo from time to time... so I was comfortable and willing for the full on and rather hard pounding the guy meeted out in his ersatz rage.

We tried everything under the sun and all I can say is that if they had not lived on the other side of the country, I would probably still be tied over that bed railing.

I only ever had 1 other MMF, but that was with a strictly straight guy so it was just the two of us going at his wife...
Still a lot of fun, but not nearly as much nor as varied a fun as the Florida couple.

The MFF scenario I never really 'got'- What is ONE guy gonna do with TWO girls... but, like you, the Florida guy was doing the gay sex MMF because his wife had indulged his fantasy for two girls... several times... and she wanted HER fantasy fulfilled.


I heard from her thru business channels a year or two later... and she told me her boyfriend had given up the MFF fantasy entirely, having had so much fun with another guy that they had managed to wangle a kind of permanent second guy in their relationship... She had a business, her boyfriend had his own business... and the other guy is totally submissive to them both... he lives in and takes care of the house and cooking- and services the two of them however they please.



Here's another tip... if you are new to cocksucking, and you think the other guy might get a little forceful... you might want to take some seasickness pills, Dramamine before the fun starts. They suppress the gag reflex... not completely- but if he should jam it down your throat, it will keep you from puking... which, take it from me, really kills a mood.

I prepared for my adventure by going to my room and washing myself out as best as I could... and pre- lubricating deep in, the 'secondary" sphincter with a thick lube that has some staying power... ( i.e. not watery )

Another important tip... you will want to be protected unless all three of you have been tested prior.... do not use vaseline for lube- it melts condoms.

 

[Phil Ayesho]

PS- chances are, if you like a finger in your ass, you would like an even thicker finger in your ass. And what's a cock except a really thick finger?

Again, tell your wife to work up to it over a few weeks or months with progressively larger insertions.

If you want to do a trial run you can even get her to strap one on and peg you.

When I was young and first getting ass fucked... I sometimes wore a butt plug for hours a day, just to get 'warmed up"


Oh- and the first few times you take something sizable up your ass, there's a chance you will drizzle cum the whole time in a kind of diffuse orgasmic reaction... that's from the unaccustomed pressure on your prostate. As you get used to it that reaction should subside in favor of some of the most powerful orgasms you have ever had.

 

[curiousboyrom]

I had a g/f that asked me if i want to have sex with another guy ( a common straight men). After long discussions and negotiations i accepted. She had the power to convince people to accept her proposals and ideas. So, when we went to a pub to drink and talk she called our common friend to join us. We made jokes about her ideea and she challanged him telling him that is not able to kiss me ! He was a guy verry open minded and told her that will happen when he have the ocassion.
After a few days he came at our place and played remy and poker. when we played poker ( she is a very good poker player ) we had to undress as punishment. after a couple of games she dared him to kiss me. i was a little drunk, he accepted and we did it. Then she wanted to have sex! And yes we accepted and she was watching us how we kiss and touch. He had a nice thick cock, about 8" and every time we touched our cocks we moan and shiver. the momment was very intense. i think we made love, it was that kind of sex full of passion, full of kisses and caresses. in time to time we looked at her and she was fascinated to see us how to kiss and later suck each other. i came on his chest and he came by surprise in my mouth ( it was the first time when i had cum in my mouth and my first oral sex with a man ). i was so excited so i didn't mind about this accident and i swalled all. After that incident, she told me that it was great to see me sucking another man. a several of days after she wanted to see me fucked, i didn't accepted. I was frequently hanging out with my sex buddy to have sex in his apartment without telling our g/fs. after a few weeks we moved together like a gay - bi couple. i was 23 y/o and he 25. We are still together after 5 years. She is married with another friend of mine and we talk and remember those days.
P.S. im sorry about my grammar but english is not my best spoken foreign language.

 

[Mushroom Maniac]

Nevermind about your grammer, Curiousboy! The important thing is that you provided enough detail and background information so that we could imagine how you ended up taking those steps. Thanks for sharing that with us! :smile:

 

[D_Walt_Whipman]

I for one find this totally hot. I am wishing that I could be a fly on the wall during this "party" when/if it happens. If she's a freak then I must be one too! :biggrin1:

Yep, I thought I recognized your special brand of freakishness! So why haven't you shared any stories about your mmf adventures?

 

[red97civic]

i guess alot of girls do love to see guy on guy because my gf of just about a year recently asked if I would ever be with another guy so she could watch. Im still alittle hesitant but want to make it come true for her

 

[badgirl22]

Can't help you out with any advice on how to proceed but....may I watch too?!:biggrin1:

 

[B_henry miller]

Madonna gets turned on by this too. It's very rare though. Men like to see women together, but the opposite seems so less common.

 

[B_henry miller]

i guess alot of girls do love to see guy on guy because my gf of just about a year recently asked if I would ever be with another guy so she could watch. Im still alittle hesitant but want to make it come true for her

or maybe guys who are bi are attracted to girls who like bi guys. maybe it all works out in the end. :wink: (oops. no pun intended)

 

[297498]

Do it when you're drunk That may help! :-D

Joking aside, do ask for more clarification.

 

[needtonut]

She LOVED the HBO series Oz because of the straight actors who had to kiss eachother from time to time. As good of a Googler as she is, my gf is unable to find porn of this type anywhere. Gay porn does nothing for her because the men are too "pretty" to be anything other than actors. "Straight Guy Seduction" sites are a little better but still feature too many obviously gay men and/or youngsters (which are a turnoff for her). This is what started her fantasies of me trying things out with another straight guy of average looks and closer to fifty. I tried to substitute a trans but just gave her ideas for later adventures. Man on man porn has kind of the opposite effect on me... maybe too intimidating because of the muscles and chiseled cocks.

Hey bro... Have her check out www.straightcollegemen.com There are plenty of preview vids you can watch without having to join. These guys are 100% straight. The owner is a gay man who pays straight men to jerk off together and even more. Also, it may interest you both to know that many of the guys in gay porn are actually straight. I know it's hard to believe but a college buddy of mine started a porn website that turned out to be very successful... He tells me that about half of the guys he hires are str8. (Gay porn pays a lot more than str8) Basically these guys are "gay for pay." Another site that maybe helpful is www.militaryclassified.com This is a gay man who pays straight military guys to let him jerk or suck them. Some of the guys even fuck him. All 100% straight. Only difference is these guys don't fool around with each other like the ones on str8collegemen. Hope this is helpful.

 

[B_casualtxt]

I was really hoping to hear from the female members here about how common this type of fantasy is. Is my gf as big a freak as we think she is or is this like us dudes getting off on watching chicks together?

She's not alone. I frankly love seeing two regular guys making out.... gay porn actors are usually freaks in some way... too bony & sissy or they look like rising bread dough.... yuck.....

More women like this than most men realize, but it's not nearly as common as guys liking to see two girls together. I think it would be very admirable for you to grant her the request, but only if you don't feel forced or coerced into it. I'm not reading to the end.... if you do it, I wanna know how it turns out... if you already did it, let me know! lol