Girlfriends Ex Had Bigger Penis

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  1. makisupa16

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    She says the difference was minimal and she doesnt feel any difference. She also said both of us hurt her...Does anyone get bothered by the thought of picturing a bigger dick in an ex's mouth/vag?

    thoughts?
     
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    From what I've read and heard, most guys are aroused by this "view" or thoughts
     
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    wouldnt most guys be aroused by the idea that they are stretching their girlfriend out more than anyone else in the past?

    its just a weird thought to look down and picture her being fucked by a bigger dick i guess
     
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    I can imagine that you don't like your gf's ex having a bigger one. It's a male thing, we all want to be the bigger one!
     
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    I don't care if its way bigger or way smaller than mine, I don't ever like to picture someone elses dick in my gfs or ex gfs.
     
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    I don't care about my gf's ex-lover's penis, whether it's bigger or smaller. She's having sex with me now!

    I feel especially good if she left her previous lover for me because his cock was too big or too small. 'Cause that means, not only that I took her away from him, but that mine is just right.
     
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    Its something that has always bothered me, I don't like to picture a cock bigger than mine going into my girl. For some reason whether I know I'm the biggest she has had or not the thought usually pops into my head at the beginning of the relationship.
     
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    Maybe just stick with Virgins? I mean I lost my virginity to my boyfriend (I'm still with him) and thought his 7xwhatever was the biggest of the biggest..now after watching porn, I barely get wet LOL.

    So as long as the virgin girlfriend is kept away from porn and gossiping friends you'll be her first and her biggest.

    ***Now the hard part..Try finding the virgin, hah.*****
     
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    i found out one of my really close ex's is bangin a black dude now. it was kind of upsetting at first but then i reminded myself that chances are, hes not bigger than me
     
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    Some guys are obsessed with this. :cool:
     
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    I think that's a safe bet. :wink:
     
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    i wont lie, i find it gratifying when i hear im the biggest a girl has had. usually works out in my favor
     
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    lol! yes and no. she's never mentioned it but i suspect there is one guy that was bigger than me. however, she said he was the worst sex ever when we first started dating and dissed him after a night with me (i fucked the shit out of her and now we're engaged lol) and i make her come more than any of her exes. the moral of the story, it would be really bad if you could tell that she missed his cock (and as a man, you can tell when your woman doesn't worship your cock and you know when your hittin that shit right). if you know your the man then who gives a shit, even if he was an inch bigger.

    did that make sense?
     
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    not really
     
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    yea me too. my girl has mentioned things to me before and thats how you know you-da-man and that pussy is yours. haha
     
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    i think thats the dumbest fucking question a guy can ask a girl that he's truly into. why the fuck would you want to open up that can of worms knowing its gonna bug you if she says yes? unless your actually into that? and thats a horse of a different color. no pun intended.
     
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    There's always someone bigger than you no matter who you are. The sooner guys get to grips with that (and it seems impossible for most) the better. I don't even get why it bothers men. I'm sure it's some sort of primal competitiveness, but if it's your cock in her now, then you've won, you are her choice. That means you're the alpha male in her eyes and that should be more than enough.
     
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    amen brotha
     
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    If you don't want to know - then don't ask...

    Why? - I couldn't care less if my BFs ex had larger breasts than me.

    My thoughts exactly - I don't care about if he has been with girls with bigger tits or tighter pussies.

    The OP talks about BF/GF - so we are talking love not one night stands...
     
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    All my gf's had guys with much bigger penises than mine. I never ask but it eventually comes out. I’m not insecure, embarrassed or apologetic about my size, 5x4.5. If I come across a size queen I simply tell her that I’m not the guy for her. If they don’t like me pass me by. I’ve lots to offer in a relationship, but size isn’t one of them.

    My current gf's, of three years and a bit, has had three ex's with huge penises, the last one having had a thick 11 inches, which she loved - she finds huge dicks a big turn on. But she's chosen me.

    Although she loves big dicks she says that her previous big dicked bf's cheated on her like crazy and slept with every girl in town. Moreover, none of them were suitable "partner" material having good education, good job and financially established. There’s more to a relationship, there’s more to life, than a big dick.