All my gf's had guys with much bigger penises than mine. I never ask but it eventually comes out. I’m not insecure, embarrassed or apologetic about my size, 5x4.5. If I come across a size queen I simply tell her that I’m not the guy for her. If they don’t like me pass me by. I’ve lots to offer in a relationship, but size isn’t one of them.
My current gf's, of three years and a bit, has had three ex's with huge penises, the last one having had a thick 11 inches, which she loved - she finds huge dicks a big turn on. But she's chosen me.
Although she loves big dicks she says that her previous big dicked bf's cheated on her like crazy and slept with every girl in town. Moreover, none of them were suitable "partner" material having good education, good job and financially established. There’s more to a relationship, there’s more to life, than a big dick.