Girlfriends Ex Had Bigger Penis

[D_Suckleberry Hound]

There's alwasy someone bigger. When I was younger I'd get jealous and insecure. These days I find it a turn on and like to here my wife tell stories of her lovers.

 

[B_jibjub]

... There’s more to a relationship, there’s more to life, than a big dick.

Not really.

 

[D_Landrocke DeLonguepiece III]

She says the difference was minimal and she doesnt feel any difference. She also said both of us hurt her...Does anyone get bothered by the thought of picturing a bigger dick in an ex's mouth/vag?

thoughts?

some people are going to be bigger than you, and some smaller. I'm not trying to be trite, but you need to forget about it and grow up.

 

[lpsg17]

Dude,

I would say after you she had to go black
LPSG17

i found out one of my really close ex's is bangin a black dude now. it was kind of upsetting at first but then i reminded myself that chances are, hes not bigger than me

 

[lucky8]

I'm not sure I understand why the fact that he's a "black dude" would possibly upset you?

dont even try to turn this into a racist remark douchebag. everyone has heard that blacks guys are usually hung. the fact that the only girl i have ever been in love with is possibly now with a guy that is bigger than me was kind of upsetting, considering i was her first. get a life and stop trying to stir up trouble. if you're retarded, i apologize.

 

[HyperHulk]

dont even try to turn this into a racist remark douchebag. everyone has heard that blacks guys are usually hung. the fact that the only girl i have ever been in love with is possibly now with a guy that is bigger than me was kind of upsetting, considering i was her first. get a life and stop trying to stir up trouble. if you're retarded, i apologize.

You insinuated the possible racist aspect by how you wrote the sentence, I was merely seeking clarification if that was your intent. Considering your response to me, I guess I'm rather glad that you allowed a stereotype, a myth to cause you such distress. Even if he was bigger, what would that mean? That having a bigger dick makes someone better or that she would forget you? It would seem to me that it would matter more if he was a better lover than you and treated her with more kindness and respect and his priorities weren't wrapped up in his cock?

Oh and because I'm a retarded douchebag, I should let you know, the myth is true. All black guys are much, much bigger than you. The only way to prove me wrong is to go on a quest to put your cock next to as many black cocks as you can find. Is your ex still with that guy? Start with him. Report back with your findings.

 

[NightFish]

I could care less what she did, only on what she is doing

 

[lucky8]

you were merely trying to stir up conflict, and you know this. any reasonable person who has read this thread and what it is about would have seen that my statement was OBVIOUSLY directed towards the possibility of my ex being with a bigger man, and not that i was disturbed by the fact that my ex is doing a black guy. why does someone always make a big deal about it when someone else says "black guy?" there was no racial tone to my statement whatsoever. i am sorry you have no logic.

 

[HyperHulk]

you were merely trying to stir up conflict, and you know this. any reasonable person who has read this thread and what it is about would have seen that my statement was OBVIOUSLY directed towards the possibility of my ex being with a bigger man, and not that i was disturbed by the fact that my ex is doing a black guy. why does someone always make a big deal about it when someone else says "black guy?" there was no racial tone to my statement whatsoever. i am sorry you have no logic.

You missed my point. You wrote the "black guy" part. You could have written, I was upset cause she went out with a guy I was afraid or thought might be better. But you mentioned black guy because you wanted us to know that you were believing the myth, the stereotype. You let a false belief upset you. If I had written that I was upset my ex was going out with a White guy or Italian guy or whatever, people would have questioned me on why I needed to bring ethnicity in it. You opened up that can of worms. Maybe if you stopped fixating on the ethnicity of someone else, people would ask you why you're fixating on someone else's ethnicity?

 

[lucky8]

no, i didn't let a false belief upset me. if you would read my post, you would have seen that i wrote, "But then i reminded myself, chances are, he's not bigger then me," implying that i did not believe that all black men have bigger cocks than me. i was implying that there is a larger possibilty for a black guy to have a bigger cock than me than there is for a white guy to. have you ever watched porn? there are a ton of white guys with big dicks. and a ton of blak guys with big ones as well. but the biggest black men are bigger than the biggest white man. im yet to see any white guy even begin to compare with Lex and Mandingo. i am done here.

 

[D_Harry_S_Taint]

Can you continue your so open-minded and interesting discussion by PM please ?

 

[lucky8]

you're a little late, man.

 

[152385]

Guys who hate picturing their girlfriend with a bigger cock, do it with the assumption that because he was bigger he was better. When in reality she could have been with a guy in the past who's cock was "just right" and was the best sex she ever had.

So really, get over the disappointment that she may have touched bigger and worry more about how you make her feel.

 

[lucky8]

not necessarily, the sex was great between us. i hardly ever had to make a move, she did all the work, which makes me think that she enjoyed it as much as i did, if not more. shit, i wasn't even THAT bothered about it when i heard about it. just a little somethin that crossed my mind and made me say "Hmm"

 

[MattBrick]

Hey Lucky,
I wouldn't worry about it too much.
You're going to have plenty more chances for love.
I think your name is appropriate here.

Do you want her back or something though?
Or is it more that she has somebody now, and you don't right now?
(this is not an atypical feeling)

Uh, hey, and by the way, I looked at your gallery.
You are bigger than most black guys buddy.

 

[lucky8]

im not stressin about it in the slightest bit. it's in the passed. i wish her the best and hope she is happy, but i would never get back with her again. she fucked with my head way too much. the only problem is i see her at bars sometimes, and well, she is drop dead gorgeous, and my dick tends to wander when its drunk. lol

 

[HyperHulk]

Hey Lucky,
You are bigger than most black guys buddy.

I don't get what the point is of these statements. First, how would you know this and second, why would it matter?

Why do non-black guys feel like they need to be in some type of competition with black guys about their cocks? I've never heard a black guy talk about being bigger than or competing with non-black guys. You're either hung and you know it or you're not hung. You don't need to rank yourself against stereotypes or ethnicities to qualify just how hung you are. That just continues to build division and animosity between ethnicities when there doesn't need to be any.

 

[MattBrick]

Relax Hyperhulk.
What I said was true, wasn't is? lol
Give the kid a break.

 

[HyperHulk]

Relax Hyperhulk.
What I said was true, wasn't is? lol
Give the kid a break.

I get that you don't get it, that's ok. Yes Lucky is hung with a great looking cock. That's enough isn't it? It doesn't have to be ranked against anything else to be what it is. Give black guys a break and stop bringing them into your insecurities, they've got enough crap to deal with.

 

[lucky8]

honestly, if black guys were going around saying that white guys are really hung, i would not care. besides, haven't you ever heard girls talk about how big some dude they had sex with was? i don't know about you, but i like being that guy what guy doesn't?