I've been with my girlfriend for about 6 months now (sex right from the start) and sometimes we have quite detailed discussions about sex. i measure an average (or maybe SLIGHTLY above average) 6.5", and although she never complains she has told me that sex with her ex was very good as he was 'pretty big'. she has always described him as 'that end of the scale' or 'a considerable size'. But despite being aware he was obviously bigger than me i never asked exactly how big cos i knew i wouldn't like the answer! I probably figured he was an inch or maybe a little more bigger. so the subject came up again the other night and i let curiosity get the better of me and asked just how big he was. She said they measured it together and it was 11 inches!!! now i feel inadequate to say the least and don't even feel like having sex to be honest because after 3 years of 11 inches inside of her, what is she gonna feel with what i have? just wondered if anyone has been in a similar position or could offer some advice because i don't feel too good about it.