Girlfriends ex's penis sizes

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hi all

Bit of a strange one really, and certainly bothering me a little.

I'm a modest 7x5 but I'm constantly quizzing my GF about her ex's size. She's admitted that my size is perfect and I've given her more orgasms in the last year with my cock than she's ever had in her whole life. So has no complaints at that.

However, I get insanely jealous when I her if one of her ex partners is larger than me. She has slept with about 15 guys and said she only had 2 bigger than me. One absolutely huge, longer and girthier and one shorter but really really fat.

When she tells me I feel totally sick with jealousy, but then it starts to turn me on, thinking about her with them. I have a great relationship with her and she assures me constantly. We've started using this cock jealousy in role play as well, last week when she revealed to me about the short but really fat cock (after I'd pressed and pressed her) I immediately wanted her to give me head and make derogatory comments about my cock in comparison. She admits to enjoying doing this but only as she knows it turns me on.

Please help me understand this, I know I'm not small but I know I'm not huge either. I'm not looking for reassurance on my size. Just to understand this state of mind :)
 

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Honestly, I don't get you at all. From what you've said, you have this beautiful relationship with a very understanding woman, and lots of fun. From your gallery we see she is hot, open-minded; you are gorgeous, and with a beautiful dick.
Now you look all grown up and I would have expected people to understand by certain age that penis size is only important to those who are not important to you (or shouldn't be).
I'm not really sure what are you trying to accomplish by talking with her about other dicks she's had before, especially when you know there were biggers before (of course there are bigger penises, you know that through these 4 years on this forum at the least), when clearly it upsets you. They were a bit bigger but not good enough a company, so you definitelly came out as a winner.

I'm sorry but I also can't understand this state of mind of yours, i'd say give it a rest and enjoy the great relationship you have, stop wondering and just forget about it. Pursuing this can only lower your moral in the long run, for no reason when you look so stunning.
Good luck.
 
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Absolutely, but only in straight porn where the woman is loving it

I somewhat relate. It's a jealousy/turn-on thing. I don't go for the shaming, but I have a love hate feeling thinking about my partner taking a bigger cock.
 
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There is definitely an insecurity issue going on here. Understandable, and it can drive you crazy. It may not even be about penis size. You need to look at various aspects of what you're really insecure about. The insecurity, more than likely, comes from sex, not love. Love is not jealous. Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends.
 

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Have been down this road , many years ago ,and it ended in tears ,mostly mine . Insecurity and jealousy are sure fire relationship killers , so i hope you get over this soon . My episode , cost me a relationship with a lovely woman ( her nature matched her looks ) , something i regret to this day . Hope this does not happen to you .
 

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hi all

Bit of a strange one really, and certainly bothering me a little.

I'm a modest 7x5 but I'm constantly quizzing my GF about her ex's size. She's admitted that my size is perfect and I've given her more orgasms in the last year with my cock than she's ever had in her whole life. So has no complaints at that.

However, I get insanely jealous when I her if one of her ex partners is larger than me. She has slept with about 15 guys and said she only had 2 bigger than me. One absolutely huge, longer and girthier and one shorter but really really fat.

When she tells me I feel totally sick with jealousy, but then it starts to turn me on, thinking about her with them. I have a great relationship with her and she assures me constantly. We've started using this cock jealousy in role play as well, last week when she revealed to me about the short but really fat cock (after I'd pressed and pressed her) I immediately wanted her to give me head and make derogatory comments about my cock in comparison. She admits to enjoying doing this but only as she knows it turns me on.

Please help me understand this, I know I'm not small but I know I'm not huge either. I'm not looking for reassurance on my size. Just to understand this state of mind :)

If I can tell you ONE thing that I have learned from having a cucked husband (who turns me on immensely!!!)

What she is telling you during sex is what she KNOWS YOU WANT TO HEAR! Do not hold it against her outside of the bedroom. This is role play and her comments should not be taken seriously. She is only saying what she knows will turn you on. It is highly doubtful that she would ever want to have anyone other than you again, especially if she has already told you such before. Don't listen to other guys. PLEASE, for the sake of your relationship, keep the cucking only in the bedroom and don't let it interfere with the rest of your relationship.

I don't know her, but I know where we have been and I've said many things that were not completely true because I knew it turned him on. I also told him in the bedroom and out of the bedroom that this was only role play. I only want one person in my bed.. HIM.
 

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You know what? We are all different. Some of us have huge cocks, just as some of us are hairier than others, or have green eyes, as opposed to blue. But we can't change who we are.

You mentioned that she has slept with 15 other guys. What you to need to understand is - she is now sleeping with you. She wants to be with you for who you are. No one's perfect. I understand that you get aroused by thinking about her riding someone with a porn star- sized cock, who is bigger than you, but let it go. Right now.

You have probably been with other women who have had nicer hair, whiter teeth, a tighter snatch, but those relationships did not work out. Appreciate what you have right now, or she is going to move on to someone who is not stuck in the past.
 

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It's a normal human impulse, it's just jealousy, nothing else. The good news is as we grow up, we can discard these negative impulses and learn to be happy with what we have. As to how to do that, well, I don't have a recipe for that, but you seem to have realised it's an irrational reaction, so that's a start.
 
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Have been down this road , many years ago ,and it ended in tears ,mostly mine . Insecurity and jealousy are sure fire relationship killers , so i hope you get over this soon . My episode , cost me a relationship with a lovely woman ( her nature matched her looks ) , something i regret to this day . Hope this does not happen to you .

Do you care to share how this happened? Was it similar to what the OP is doing now?
 
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hi all

Bit of a strange one really, and certainly bothering me a little.

I'm a modest 7x5 but I'm constantly quizzing my GF about her ex's size. She's admitted that my size is perfect and I've given her more orgasms in the last year with my cock than she's ever had in her whole life. So has no complaints at that.

However, I get insanely jealous when I her if one of her ex partners is larger than me. She has slept with about 15 guys and said she only had 2 bigger than me. One absolutely huge, longer and girthier and one shorter but really really fat.

When she tells me I feel totally sick with jealousy, but then it starts to turn me on, thinking about her with them. I have a great relationship with her and she assures me constantly. We've started using this cock jealousy in role play as well, last week when she revealed to me about the short but really fat cock (after I'd pressed and pressed her) I immediately wanted her to give me head and make derogatory comments about my cock in comparison. She admits to enjoying doing this but only as she knows it turns me on.

Please help me understand this, I know I'm not small but I know I'm not huge either. I'm not looking for reassurance on my size. Just to understand this state of mind :)


If it's part of your fantasy game, which I totally don't get, and it works for you and your wife then it seems ok to me.
 
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Please help me understand this, I know I'm not small but I know I'm not huge either. I'm not looking for reassurance on my size. Just to understand this state of mind :)

This is really common. Being jealous, angry, frightened, humiliated all make people's hearts beat faster and get the blood pumping. This is pretty close to what happens to your body when you're directly stimulated sexually. Now, if you're in a scenario where you're likely to get turned on (eg being naked with your GF), feeling jealous and/or humiliated in the way you are quite often translates into becoming sexually aroused because of the fact that your emotions have put your body in a state that's close to being aroused. In other words, the emotions you're experiencing are making your mind and body highly susceptible to sexual arousal.

As long as you have good communication with your GF, and your GF isn't bothered (or is even turned on herself) by this kind of thing, it doesn't have to be a problem.
 
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Sorry for the length of my story, but I feel details are important and I love to re-live these experiences! I'll post the condensed version below for the TLDR guys.

One time, a few years back, I dated this smoking hot chick, "Heather" for a couple months.

Man, did she have a body! She was tall, tan, long, perfect, athletic legs leading up to this perfect, round, firm, big bubble butt like two big muffins fresh out of the oven that you just wanna squeeze. And she's the only girl I've fucked (thus far) with fake tits, they were perfect (I wish she'd went a little bigger. Still keep some photos of her, which I included minus the face.

We knew each other in high school, she had a crush on me then, but I was too shy to do anything about it, and also knew she was a bit of a freak, which intimidated me as a small dick virgin. Well, thank God for second chances!

We went our separate ways after the summer we graduated, and I hadn't spoken to her since, until one day, after about 7 years, completely outta the blue, she messaged me on FB and we started talking and texting.

One day, in a text, she revealed that she used to wonder how big my dick is, that she even used to masturbate thinking about me, and asked if I used to jack off thinking about her. Then, she asked me point blank "So, how big is your dick?" I told her my dick was much smaller then, but had developed into my 20's, sent her a couple photos, and she loved it, told me the next day that she had played with her pussy while lying in bed that night.

Off topic, but her mom, a younger good looking single lady, borrowed her phone and ran across my photo. That made it really awkward meeting her mom! She told me her mom got angry about it, but I wondered if it secretly turned her on.

So, that weekend, I made the four hour round trip drive to pick her up and take her to stay the weekend at my apartment. We had both gotten each other so hot over the phone for the past couple weeks, that she was riding my big dick within thirty minutes after we got in my apartment, her moaning, telling me how deep I was, me gripping her fat, firm ass, and watching her perfect, perky, enhanced titties bouncing up and down.

So, I personally knew two of the guys she had dated over the years.

One guy, "Nick", had been a close friend all through elementary til we had a bit of a falling out when I started smoking pot in 8th grade. He was a bit of a poindexter back then, small and skinny, big glasses, a bowl cut hair style.

One day, we got to talking size, and he admitted to me he thought he might have a small penis, and asked how big mine was. We weren't gonna show each other, but we agreed to separately take a ruler into the bathroom and measure ourselves hard.

He came out with a sheepish look on his face and said he was like 3 inches. I took the ruler into the bathroom, got my dick hard, and measured for the first time. It was around 3.5 inches.

I was really impressed with his honesty, because I couldn't do the same. "It's about 5 inches" I lied. He looked at me with this look of envy and admiration, called me "big guy".

UNRELATED DETOUR FROM THE STORY! SKIP DOWN TO GET BACK TO THE MAIN STORY.

I remember one night, after graduating, all of us 18, at a friend's house who had a swimming pool. It was me, Nick, a guy Adam and his cousin Brandon, Heather, this other tall hot chick, and two twins, who were cute but nothing special, really. We were drinking a little beer, the parents were gone for the night.

Brandon was trying to get some skinny dipping going on. Me and Nick both obviously got red in the face, tried to avoid the topic, so me and him and the girls all got in our underwear (I quickly got in the water before my hardon became visible.) Adam and Brandon decided to drop everything and go naked, which elicited some stares and giggles from the girls.

They were both soft, but not fully soft. Brandon, a really well built, muscular, curly haired guy, had a decent cock from what I could see. Adam had a bigger dick, probably around the size of my soft cock right now, and two big low hanging balls. He was more of an exhibitionist, and a jokester, he had this signature goofy giggle he always did, chuckled "Look it's a helicopter!" With his hands held up, rotating his hips, trying to twirl his cock around, eliciting more giggles.

I overheard one twin whisper to the hot girl "Adam's got a nice dick." Then turned toward me and Nick "Why aren't y'all getting naked? You afraid for us to see your little weenies?"

"Shit (My Name)'s got a Superdick!" I laughed, hoped the subject changed, me and Nick stood around awkwardly, Brandon and Adam showed off their dicks, Adam even got one of the twins to touch his. We swam for a bit.

I had a system of pulling my shorts from my thighs to prevent them from clinging to my body, revealing my little package (made smaller in cold water) as I got out of the water, but I noticed as I got out of the water, Heather's eyes transfixed on my package, not sure how much she could see.



BACK TO THE MAIN STORY

So, a few years after graduation, I guess Nick came into his own, he and Heather hooked up a few times (before she got her new tits).

The other guy from high school that Heather had dated, was a guy named Gerard. He was an okay guy, we used to sneak behind the cafeteria and smoke bud, but I always felt he was kinda douchey, thought he was too cool, cocky, musician, long hair.

He dated this hot chick, Jessica, for a while. She was short, super thick, with big thighs, a huge ass, like two basketballs stuffed in her pants, dark skin, brown eyes, looked Latino, long brown curly hair.

One day I heard some of the girls talking, "I heard Gerard has a big dick." "Well, Jessica said she tried to give him head and she couldn't get her mouth around it, sooo..."

So, I was always curious about Gerard's endowment.



So, back to me and Heather at my apartment. The second night, we had just gotten out of the shower together, we were both completely naked on the couch, watching TV.

I was getting the Royal Treatment. I was smoking a cigarette, laying on my back across the couch, Heather was sitting up, I had one leg laid over her thighs, the other leg stretched out behind her ass. She was staring at, playing with, stroking my big, hard dick.

"You like my big dick?"

"Uh, yeah! It's perfect."

I didn't wanna come off too weird, but I'm always so damn curious about this kinda thing, so I just decided fuck it, I'll ask.

"What's the biggest dick you've been with?"

"Oh, I don't know, you don't wanna talk about that...."

"Ah, come on! I don't care, I'm comfortable with what I got, it's just a turn on to know. Was Gerard big?"

I could tell by the look in her eye, they widened just a little. "Yeah!"

"How big compared to mine? Be honest, it ain't gonna bother me, I'm just curious..."

"I don't know, probably like..." She held my dick up at the base of the shaft with one hand, and with the other she held her two fingers up, probably about an inch, maybe an inch and a half above the tip of my head. It was so hot, it took me back to the days of having a baby dick, comparing to this really hung guy in front of this hot chick, feeling embarrassed and envious, but also really turned on, wishing my cock would grow to be able to reach her fingers, knowing he had been deeper inside her than I could ever get.

"It was really thick, too."

"Did it turn you on when you first saw it?"

"Yeah, it was hot. I had heard he had a big dick before that so I wasn't surprised."

"Did it feel better than mine?"

"No, I think you're the perfect size, and you know how to use it a lot better." Don't know if that was true, or she was just being nice.

"What about Nick?"

"Haha no! What's funny is, he told me it was big, but he showed it to me, it was like..." She put her two fingers on the shaft of my dick, about 4.5 inches up from the base, around the area where the color of my dick changes from a darker shade to a lighter shade. "I was like, Aw poor guy! Haha!"

This was also really hot, especially because I used to feel so insecure about being small, knowing I had fucked her in places where he couldn't, that I made her feel full, made her cum, made me feel like a Big Dick Man, powerful, masculine.

I put my cigarette in the ash tray. Opened a Trojan, unrolled it down my big 7 inch dick, pushed her back down on the couch, lifted her thighs up in the air, she was wet and ready as I entered her, gasped as I slid the full, curved link all the way in, started fucking her, making her call me Superman while I jack hammered her until she came!
 
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For the TLDR guys,

I fucked this smoking hot chick from these pictures, I knew two guys she had fucked, had her show me on my dick where I stacked up to them.

One guy, she put her fingers 1 to 1.5 inches above the tip of my hard cock and told me he was thicker. I wasn't jealous at all, it was a turn on.

The second guy, she put her fingers about 4.5 inches up my dick, around where the shade of my skin changes colors, said she saw it and thought "Aw poor guy!" That made me feel hung, powerful, masculine, then I fucked her brains out.

This is her amazing body. She has incredible, perky fake tits, long, amazing legs, and a perfect round ass that makes you wanna cry. Wish I had a pic of that!
 

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