Girlfriend's request...should I go along with it?

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by Mandingo Wannabe, Apr 15, 2009.

  1. Mandingo Wannabe

    Mandingo Wannabe New Member

    Joined:
    Nov 10, 2008
    Messages:
    27
    Likes Received:
    0
    Recently my girlfriend of three years and I had a 3way with an ex-boyfriend of hers who was extremely well hung. The sex between them was incredible and I stayed in the background and watched. All three of us walked away satisfied by the experience, which I'm fairly certain will remain a one-time adventure.

    Last night she told me of her desire to see me suck a guy's cock, preferably a very large cock. I am straight, and while a voyeur, I've never imagined having sex with a guy. She talked of teaching me how to give a blowjob and seeing his cum drip out of my mouth. This surprised me some, although I know of her vivid imagination sexually.

    This morning before work she talked of finding a total stranger for this experience, a very well hung straight guy. She told me that if I suck his cock for her, she would provide me with quite a show while fucking him.

    Questions: Is this a fair trade? Anyone else out there have a similiar experience? For the women out there, is it common for women to want to see their mate have sex with a guy?
     
  2. B_ytcorp

    B_ytcorp New Member

    Joined:
    Apr 12, 2009
    Messages:
    461
    Likes Received:
    0
    honestly I cannot say as I would but then again I'm not even sure I'd ever share my partner... the choice is ultimately up to you. "the real question you have to ask yourself, was the juice worth the squeeze"
     
  3. Mr_Cumalot

    Mr_Cumalot New Member

    Joined:
    Oct 13, 2008
    Messages:
    926
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    It's a simple answer really. If you suck a man's cock to get her to fuck him (what kind of twisted logic is that!) then you aren't straight. So make a decision on your sexuality.

    I would think a fairer trade for a straight man would be "Let me fuck your female friend and you can fuck that big dick guy"
     
  4. cuck4you

    cuck4you Member

    Joined:
    Jan 24, 2009
    Messages:
    175
    Likes Received:
    3
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Bismarck (ND, US)
    go for it. as someone who is in a cuck relationship as it is - it is worth it!
     
  5. purplewhitemajor

    Joined:
    Dec 5, 2008
    Messages:
    232
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Long Beach, CA
    I was presented with the same offer by an ex years ago and turned it down. You never know what you could be missing. Takes things to a whole new level!
     
  6. IrishWank

    IrishWank Member

    Joined:
    Jun 17, 2008
    Messages:
    160
    Likes Received:
    1
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Northern Ireland
    i dont think its a fair trade. 2 things. u are straight, you dont suck cock. and why is it a reward to see him ride your woman?

    i think your woman wins both ways, you dont.
     
  7. Darpon

    Darpon New Member

    Joined:
    Mar 31, 2008
    Messages:
    377
    Likes Received:
    3
    Gender:
    Male
    I don't understand you at all. I can't begin to comprehend how you could think, even for a second, that watching your girlfriend fuck another man would be any kind of reward for you. I mean, fuck, just go watch porn if that's what you want, instead of watching your girl fuck a guy that's bigger than you. It seems to me like you're giving her all the power in everything, especially if you go with this. She wants you to suck a total stranger, making you cross lines, while she just goes and fucks him?

    Personally, my respect for a woman would drop considerably if she ever expected me to come anywhere close to agreeing with such a request. I mean, does she let you fuck prettier girls than her while she watches? I'm getting the feeling she doesn't.
     
  8. OffTLeash

    OffTLeash Member

    Joined:
    Dec 23, 2008
    Messages:
    119
    Likes Received:
    1
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    US
    I agree with Darpon, tht sounds really messed up. take some action, demand something outta her. I'ts not like shed be getting the raw end of the deal or anything
     
  9. D_Seymour_Dix

    D_Seymour_Dix New Member

    Joined:
    Apr 19, 2008
    Messages:
    721
    Likes Received:
    1
    Based on what you've told us, I agree with IrishWank.
     
  10. MrToolhung

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Nov 20, 2008
    Messages:
    1,079
    Likes Received:
    7
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Canada
    Dude if I were a friend of yours I would think you were crazy for even entertaining the idea. And that is coming from a guy who is gay! If you were getting something out of the deal like screwing some hot chick then I would agree. You said that you are str8 but you are actually thinking about sucking some dudes cock to turn her on? Does not sound like a deal to me at all. Demand something from her or tell her to take a hike.
     
  11. Mr. Hoops

    Mr. Hoops New Member

    Joined:
    Jun 22, 2008
    Messages:
    5
    Likes Received:
    1
    Gender:
    Male
    Hell no, i think u should stick up for yourself. If she wants more tell her to go find it without you. Find a girl whos happy with what she has. I dunno, im all about monogamous relationships when im involved with someone so i guess im bias but i say drop her or at the very least lay down some rules. If shes not okay with that drop her.
     
  12. EnTaro

    Verified Gold Member

    Joined:
    Apr 9, 2009
    Messages:
    64
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Perth, WA
    Verified:
    Photo
    If you take it up the ass, she might even let you fuck her yourself!
     
  13. cockneedy

    cockneedy New Member

    Joined:
    Apr 26, 2009
    Messages:
    133
    Likes Received:
    1
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    nyc area
    listen to yourself on this, if it turns you on you might want to check out some cuckold sites. hard for some guys to understand but there are some of us who get off on our women being fucked by other men. if you would like to know more about this kind of lifestyle then PM me and i'll give you some direction. but first figure out what YOU want, not what other people want for you. in my book that's one hot girlfriend and i wish i was the one she was cuckolding. good luck!
     
  14. hud01

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jan 1, 2009
    Messages:
    5,262
    Likes Received:
    23
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    new york city
    Personally I would love it, but for you there has to be a quid pro quo. She should also have find a bi-sexual girl so you can watch them screw around and then you get to fuck the girl.
     
  15. B_625girth

    B_625girth New Member

    Joined:
    Jun 30, 2007
    Messages:
    2,372
    Likes Received:
    13
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    midwest
    I don't think a "very well hung, straight guy" is going to let a guy suck his cock.
     
  16. killerb

    Verified Gold Member

    Joined:
    Nov 13, 2007
    Messages:
    2,102
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    47
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    USA
    Verified:
    Photo

    u must not have read posts from all the "straight" guys on this board who would disagree with that statement...:rolleyes:
     
  17. cb1737

    cb1737 New Member

    Joined:
    Mar 3, 2009
    Messages:
    114
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    1
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Redwood city
    I'd do it on the condition that you get to fuck a hot girl and than your gf gives oral to the girl you just fucked,,,,,or if your into guys suddenly, do it all
     
  18. D_Lortius Waxwillow Piddlepoop

    D_Lortius Waxwillow Piddlepoop <img border="0" src="/images/badges/member.gif" wi

    Joined:
    Oct 9, 2007
    Messages:
    134
    Likes Received:
    0
    i wouldn't say that's a common practice between couples. if it's something that you don't feel comfortable with then don't do it.
     
    #18 D_Lortius Waxwillow Piddlepoop, Apr 30, 2009
    Last edited: Apr 30, 2009
  19. B_Bonky

    B_Bonky New Member

    Joined:
    Oct 16, 2007
    Messages:
    921
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    LA
    why don't you watch GIRLS have sex with your girlfriend?

    I think that guys who like to watch other guys have sex with their wives/girlfriends are secretly gay. Maybe she's trying to get you to "embrace the inner flamer." But that's just a theory.
     
Draft saved Draft deleted