Girls are more hung up on you getting off than themselves?

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  1. D_Clem Clodhopper

    D_Clem Clodhopper New Member

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    I was talking with this girl and all she was talking about is how she wanted me to cum inside her. She said that's the best feeling in the world and the most intimate thing you can do with a girl. I was like, what about you, would you like me to go down on you and make you come, and she said sure, but she would prefer to go down on me.

    Also the first time I had sex, I didn't get off and the girl was very apologetic and upset. It wasn't even her fault. I was just really tired and the condom killed it for me. I naively asked if she got off and she said no but it wasn't a big deal to her.

    If it wasn't clear, my point was I wanted to please to and they didn't really seem to even be bothered.

    What do you think?
     
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    People want to please their lovers? On the next Heraldo
     
  3. D_Clem Clodhopper

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    i'm saying i wanted to please to and they don't seem to care... at least not in my experience
     
  4. Principessa

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    Media conditioning? Or maybe sex has just become so routine and mechanical that some people forget the special connectedness and mutual pleasure that should occur? :confused: Hmm, sorry, that's not really an answer is it. :redface:
     
  5. dolfette

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    i don't want to orgasm during sex.
    i like the feeling of his orgasm during sex.
    but i feel not one iota of guilt if he can't orgasm.
     
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    Ajkyo,

    I've had many women say this to me, especially about cumming inside of her, it makes them feel good, they love to please. We are getting more and more selfish women to go along with the already plentiful selfish men in the USA, I say you found a keeper, make her your wifey and enjoy son!
     
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    I'll say the opposite. If she doesn't need to get off, she will be frigid in a year. Keep her as a temp, but find someone with a real sex drive.
     
  8. dolfette

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    *vomit*
    nonsense. i'm selfish as hell in bed!
    i just like the power trip and the physical sensation.
    ^^^true that!
     
  9. Drifterwood

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    I increasingly find the opposite. The women that I encounter, aren't looking for a partner, they are looking for sexual pleasure, their sexual pleasure. I am happy to do my best to oblige, but you would be surprised perhaps how many women behave in the same way as the stereotypical man who comes and then rolls over and snores.
     
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    I love it when they roll over and snore.
     
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    I don't care, about climaxing inside me, as much as he's intimate with me period. When a guy is not interested in sex but wants head all the time - then it's all about his pleasure.

    That's my line. I think sex is intimate enough and sometimes an orgasm isn't what I'm after.
     
  12. Drifterwood

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    Even when you are still fucking them? :tongue:
     
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    It's like this, she gets off, I spend 0-5 minutes getting off, and we both snore.
     
  14. D_Fiona_Farvel

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    Hahahah, I do this!
    Not because I care about his orgasm, per se, but because I have this thing about my man ejaculating inside of me (always with a condom, sadly). If she is like me, the feeling of the guy's cock getting rigid, the change in his stoke, pushing in deeper, balls tightening, and the pulsing as he releases could drive her to orgasm. It always does for me!

    But you should be taking care of her initial orgasms before you fuck her. Unless we're talking quickie, your first move should be licking and kissing all over her body, with the final act being your face and fingers in her pussy until she cums - hard.

    Then you can fuck her.

    Maybe.

    Sometimes you just have to kick a guy out while his face is still wet with your juice - makes them cum back for more. She'll learn. ;)
     
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    That works both ways, ya know... :wink:
     
  16. dolfette

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    yuck! speak for yourself.
    lots of us aren't into getting head and would rather just fuck.
     
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    It better.
    If he wants to keep me interested. :wink:
     
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