I was talking with this girl and all she was talking about is how she wanted me to cum inside her. She said that's the best feeling in the world and the most intimate thing you can do with a girl. I was like, what about you, would you like me to go down on you and make you come, and she said sure, but she would prefer to go down on me. Also the first time I had sex, I didn't get off and the girl was very apologetic and upset. It wasn't even her fault. I was just really tired and the condom killed it for me. I naively asked if she got off and she said no but it wasn't a big deal to her. If it wasn't clear, my point was I wanted to please to and they didn't really seem to even be bothered. What do you think?