Girls: Bisexual Vs Heterosexual partner

Discussion in 'Women's Issues' started by Joseph, May 18, 2009.

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So, come on girls. Would you prefer a bisexual partner over a heterosexual one?

  1. I would only take a REAL homosexual (good luck there girls…. Sigh)

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  2. I would only take a bisexual partner

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  3. I would prefer a bisexual partner

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  4. I wouldn’t mind one

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  5. I would prefer a heterosexual partner

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  6. I would only take a heterosexual partner

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  7. Not even in my worst nightmares! NO NO NO!

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  8. I wouldn’t care really/ I don’t know/ Depends…

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  1. Joseph

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    Hello there ladies. I came here to ask a little question: What do you think of a bisexual boyfriend/husband? I ask this cause it happened to me (on this website even) that girls/women were awfully turned off by it. There was even a few of them that claimed that I would NEVER get ANY women, because NO woman in the WORLD would like to have a bisexual husband…. And this „encouraging speach” truly made me a bit worried.

    Ok. I was aware that not all women would like it. Also I knew that some women only like gay guys so much because they know fashion… which is totally not my thing… being emotional and sensetive sometimes ok., but neither shoes nor clothes! BUT, never would I think this could possibly be a big no-no impossible! What sense does that make? If your Bi you end up being gay anyways cause no girl would want you? COME ON! GET REAL!

    I do get sexually attracted to both genders, but I do prefer women!

    I made this thread to ask around what you girls have to say about this subject. I really think it’s impossible for women to hate bisexuals! I’m pretty sure there’s a group of gals that might even prefer them!!! I know so many straight guys who had girls, that wanted to see them have some gay sex…. They refused….. Pffff pussies! :p
     
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    Would totally want a bisexual boyfriend or husband, think of the possibilities!
     
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    I answered "I wouldn't really care". As long as the guy was into monogamy (as I am) it's all cool with me. A bisexual partner might even be a slight bit more fun, actually, 'cause we could watch gay porn together. That's appealing. My current partner is not, though (bisexual).
     
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    Heh well I really am into monogamy. I mean, I would never have sex with another girl behind her back, cause I would feel real bad if she did it with a guy behind my back.
    I'm not sure about me doing it with guys though (same goes for her doing it with other women if she was bi as well) ... for me it's friendly not emotional, but surely if my girl had problems with that, then I'd pass.

    And and watching gay porn together is a must :rolleyes:
     
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    Do you know the meaning of monogomy? It means being with 1 person and 1 person only no matter their gender or sexual preference. It doesn't simply mean that if you are with a woman you won't sleep with any other women but men might be fair game. If you and your potential partner are ok with same sex affairs that is not monogamy.


    As for the answer to your poll I too chose "wouldn't mind/doesn't matter/depends". I would expect monogamy from the person just as I would from a heterosexual boyfriend unless it is a situation that is pre-arranged and even then I'm pretty sure I would have to be involved in any sexual acts involving a 3rd, 4th, etc. person. I would never discount the potential for a relationship with a man based on his sexual preference/classification. I would however base it on his ability to be in a monogamous relationship with me.
     
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    ehhh ok sorry I guess what i really meant was that I was willing to go for monogamy heh sorry, i'm kinda stupid!
     
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    I don't really care either way. I had an issue with it for a while, where I thought I just really couldn't see myself dating a guy who had been with another guy before...I thought of bisexual males as being on the "bi" plan..."bi now...gay later". It wasn't until someone made a comment towards bisexual males that pissed me off and then called me nasty for being bi that I looked at myself and was like "what the fuck are you trying to pull?" It was an eye opener. Yea...I had the whole double standard thing going on...but now I could care less...as long as it is a monogamous relationship...or we both were involved with the fun that comes from being bixsexual. I'm actually dating a bisexual...and oh the fun that we will have :).
     
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    I really don't care. I've dated strictly straight guys, and bisexual men. Not really any difference between them, except that bisexual guys and I can talk about cute boys together. :tongue: I'm not into open relationships or sharing my significant other, so sexually, it wouldn't even matter.
     
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    i find it a turn off.
    though i'm bi myself.
    i prefer date a straight.
     
  10. Principessa

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    I have, :yikes: that's what scares me.


    THANK YOU!!!! See, that is exactly why I changed my profile a while ago to not being interested in bi-guys. I have no problem being friends with a bi-guy, but way too many on this site seem to think it's not cheating if they are with a man while being allegedly exclusive with a woman. Sorry, but homey don't play that.



    [Quote ]As for the answer to your poll I too chose "wouldn't mind/doesn't matter/depends". I would expect monogamy from the person just as I would from a heterosexual boyfriend unless it is a situation that is pre-arranged and even then I'm pretty sure I would have to be involved in any sexual acts involving a 3rd, 4th, etc. person. I would never discount the potential for a relationship with a man based on his sexual preference/classification. I would however base it on his ability to be in a monogamous relationship with me. [/QUOTE] :261: Uhmmm, you just contradicted yourself big time. :confused:


     
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    My boyfriend is bi lol, it's great he sucks dick while I watch him, he gets his ass fucked while I watch, it's great fun.



    Watching gay porn is a must weather the guy is straight or not.
     
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    :261: Uhmmm, you just contradicted yourself big time. :confused:


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    I'm not quite sure why you feel I contradicted myself. Perhaps not explaining it very well.... I would and do want a monogamous relationship. However, I am not opposed to a one time threesome in which my partner and myself are both involved. To me there is no contradiction there. I didn't know that by considering yourself a person who prefers monogamy that it limited your sexual exploits with your partner. I'm not talking about being swingers or anything of the such....just leaving room for sexual exploration within our relationship in a situation in which both of us consent to adding a 3rd party to our bedroom on a one time basis.
     
  13. Principessa

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    I should have stated that you were the obvious anomaly. :smile: I'm glad it works for you; that's just not my bag. :no:
     
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    Haha, I'm quite the anomaly, putting together all that you know about me, nothing is really that normal about me.
     
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    I have had much better sexual experiences with bisexual men than with straight men.
     
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    Well, there is a boner killer, if he really is straight. :rolleyes:
    You might as well say, "I hate giving blow jobs".
     
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    He wont be in my bed if he really is straight. Just sayin' ;)

    I require more out of men, straight just wont cut it.
     
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