LAS, what reason do you have to be shy? In my experience confidence (not arrogance) is one of the biggest turn ons for women. Confidence includes: not being needy for her attention, initiating sex in an assertive manner, being physically forceful during sex.
I don't mean raping her, I mean spanking/holding wrists/pushing/moving her head with her hair/grabbing her neck/slamming her against the wall.
I used to be shy too, but then I found out that I got better results by not being shy. Shyness is a bit of a catch 22. If you're shy you're gonna do something wrong and get bad results, you'll get bad results because you are being shy.
I think any woman will tell you that a nice/shy guy is "cute." I personally don't want to be "cute." I want to be dead schmexy.![]()
LAS, what reason do you have to be shy? In my experience confidence (not arrogance) is one of the biggest turn ons for women. Confidence includes: not being needy for her attention, initiating sex in an assertive manner, being physically forceful during sex.
I don't mean raping her, I mean spanking/holding wrists/pushing/moving her head with her hair/grabbing her neck/slamming her against the wall.
I used to be shy too, but then I found out that I got better results by not being shy. Shyness is a bit of a catch 22. If you're shy you're gonna do something wrong and get bad results, you'll get bad results because you are being shy.
I think any woman will tell you that a nice/shy guy is "cute." I personally don't want to be "cute." I want to be dead schmexy.![]()
I am a shy guy and I was wondering what your opinion is on this matter? Some girls really seem to like it and others no.
very well said.....down right dead schmexy![]()
While I'm not saying you are necessarily wrong or right, but your suggestions seem to be targeted to an existing sexual relationship. I'm just wondering if that is what OP is asking, or if he is asking about picking up women.
I'm not sure if we are talking about shyness with regard to relationships or sex or both??
Although confidence is sexy...too much is hideous in my opinion.
Arrogance can be soooo bloody aggrovating.
LAS, what reason do you have to be shy? In my experience confidence (not arrogance) is one of the biggest turn ons for women. Confidence includes: not being needy for her attention, initiating sex in an assertive manner, being physically forceful during sex.
I don't mean raping her, I mean spanking/holding wrists/pushing/moving her head with her hair/grabbing her neck/slamming her against the wall.
I used to be shy too, but then I found out that I got better results by not being shy. Shyness is a bit of a catch 22. If you're shy you're gonna do something wrong and get bad results, you'll get bad results because you are being shy.
I think any woman will tell you that a nice/shy guy is "cute." I personally don't want to be "cute." I want to be dead schmexy.![]()
I'm just wondering if that is what OP is asking, or if he is asking about picking up women.
I'm not sure if we are talking about shyness with regard to relationships or sex or both??
I actually really like it when a guy is shy, quiet, reserved, cautious. Makes it all the hotter when he crazy and wild in the bedroom.
I actually really like it when a guy is shy, quiet, reserved, cautious. Makes it all the hotter when he crazy and wild in the bedroom.