...... to me. it seems i never realize when a girl wants something with me, they have to actually SAY me, plainly, what they want. it may sound weird, i'm a grown person, but i never developed the skill to "read" the signs for knowing when a girl wants to have a relationship. there are "paterns" ? i'm latin, living in a latin country where it's supossed the man takes the fist step. guys proposes and girls says yes or not. i never did that. worse, i had a little understanding of girls of my age (52) but thing have changed here, there was a couple of experiences i have had i was confused about. please ! someone tell me what are the signs, i never go bars, or dancing, please do not laugh on me, it's a sad thing to know by a third person i have lost an opportunity.