Girls, how long is your "great" sex session????

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  1. pichulon

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    Girls, how long, time wise, is your perfect sex session. How many positions you like to go through, just an aproximation.....would like to know how is my own standard working against yours.
     
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    I dont know if i would have a perfect time frame for sex, some times a quickie is nice but then a few hours of foreplay is amazing too.

    But i do know that i really dont like to many positions, maybe 2 or 3. It seems alot of guy like or want to try amlost every position every time, Sometimes it is nice just to find a comfortable one and stay with it rather than trying to be a gymnist and contort to strange positions in the name of 'pleasure' and great sex.
     
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    Well first off I'll completely agree with the 2-3 positions idea. Sometimes I'll like to do more, but usually thats all I need to be fully satisfied. I generally like to start with the man on top, then after we're going good I'll switch to the top, and end up finishing with him back in control. As for time frame, it depends on if we're talking about including foreplay or not. With foreplay, 45 minutes to an hour is generally a good time for me, and is usually enough for me to have a good orgasm. As for the actual intercourse, 20-25 is about all I can stand, and a way above average amount of time for a guy to last. It also depends on how big he is. 20 minutes of having a 10 inch cock ramming inside of you is a bit much, but with a more modest penis I can go a lot longer before it gets uncomfortable. A lot of people have mentioned 2-6 hours of straight sex around here, and I think thats just a tad exaggerated. Some study listed the average amount of time it takes a man to cum at arond 7-8 minutes. So unless you're using some desensitizing cream or the guy has incredible control, even 20 minutes is a LONG time. If I haven't gotten off by then, chances are I'm not going to lol!
     
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    Pichlon,

    Why do you insist on starting such Ridiculous threads? I am so sick of reading " GIRLS.... WHAT IS...or HOW IS..." Come up with some new questions and PM them to the women... Your questions have all been answer in posts before.

    Why bother to waste peoples time?
     
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    I think the reason most guys get off in 7 minutes is that they're not focused on anything other than achieving orgasm themselves. I can last pretty much indefinitely if I wanted to. When I lost my virginity my gf and I were having sex for hours and I never even came..
     
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    http://www.sexualrecords.com/WSRaverages.html
    Average Time to Achieve Erection
    3-8 seconds.

    Average Erection Duration
    Anywhere from 0 min (age 71+) - 54.43 min (age 21-25)

    Average Time to Orgasm (male)
    Kinsey found that 75% of all males reach orgasm within 2 minutes of penetration, and felt that it was normal, though he does note that it "may be most unsatisfactory to a wife who is inhibited or natively low in response." Way to state the obvious, doc.

    Average Duration of Orgasm (male)
    3-5 seconds.

    Average Time to Orgasm (female)
    Females in Kinsey's studies averaged a little less than 4 minutes to reach orgasm during masturbation, though for coitus it took anywhere from 10 to 20 minutes.

    Average Duration of Orgasm (female)
    5-8 seconds. Orgasmic contractions in both sexes occur at intervals of 0.8 seconds.


    Do any of you girls find this to be true?

    Thanks for replying in advance! :smile:
     
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    Ridiculous threads???
    Who do you think you are to tell me what I should post??
    I ask girls, because, this is a girls forum, and, being heterosexual, I value women's responses, as well as any guys experience. I am here to get new insights on several areas.
    It is not me posting topics that you do not like, if you read my topic, I asked girls. Are you a woman???
    Wasting peoples time???
    You are a sad unhappy guy.......why waste more time responding to you.....
     
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    I agree. Most guys are focused on self gratification. By taking your woman as priority, we not only prolong her joy and her orgasms , but we prolong ours too.
    Takes that special point of view.
     
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    I agree. Every man has to control his get off. It is law for guy if you want to give plesure to women
     
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    Editing.
     
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    I think you should spend less time making rash comments about me being a sad, unhappy guy, and spend more time thinking of insightful things to add to this group.
    I never said I was the most enlightened poster, but some of your threads and questions have been silly, and answered in the past, yet you insist on creating new ones with similar questions.

    Granted, even though some of your new threads are better than the "Will mommy care that her son has a 5 inch dong" thread, I think you are guilty of posting without reading other threads first. You are not the only one, dont' worry. I am just letting you know.
     
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    Guys like you make me laugh.....hidding behind a screen to play tough...
    I bet in person you are a chicken.....LOL

    This thread is directed at women, and at men that want to give advise, you do not want to participate in this thread, and, you are not a woman, you are gay , but not a woman, so....go and ruin someone elses day.....guys like you make me laugh.....screen tigers, , real life chickens....

    Where is a moderator when we need one.....people like this guy turn a good forum into a argument....
     
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    Starting an argument is no reason to get a mod. involved, if we needed a mod. to stop every argument on this site you would need to dump out about half the site. There are plenty of mods and plenty of them have probably passed through the thread, there is no rule to stop someone from arguing.

    If you want men to also give "advice" you may consider dropping the "Girls," in front of the title. Also this is a thread not a forum, Jeff is not going to turn the entire "Women's Issues" forum into an argument.

    Another thing, this is not a Women Issue, in fact this is definitely not an Issue unless your unable to pleasure a woman instead you asked for advice on how to do something and there is a better location for this. This would be an issue if say, you were with someone and she took a very short time to cum and you thought something may be wrong, or possibly it might be taking an extremely long time as well.

    Something Else, Jeff is not a "gay", Jeff may have an attraction to men (I think he does) but just so you know Jeff has never had an sexual relations with a Male. Don't start tossing out names like that just because someone made you mad.

    Also everyone acts different on the Internet, you don't know what he's like in real life, nor do I. I also don't know what your like in real life.
     
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    You love labeling people so that they fit into your blinkered little version of the world, don't you? It's been a common theme throughout your posts here. And the cheap schoolyard name-calling you consistently resort to makes you sound about 5.
     
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    LOL, I respond to your pathetic attempt to make me look dumb. I am hardly a chicken. My favorite part, is that I was attempting to be polite, and give you advice, and you still insult me.

    And just so you know.. maybe you can't read.... my stats actually say unsure. Which does not claim either sexuality. So before you go labeling people, you should consider reading about them a bit.

    Might I recommend you stop your endless blather, and realize that you are arguing for no reason. Read my post clearly.. I am attempting to help you out. I would also like to point out, that I have not ONCE insulted you, yet I am finding myself defending me.

    You should consider not being so defensive, and listening to what people say once in a while.

    Read what others have written. You might begin to understand my point.
     
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    LMAO....it is so amazing how the hen house reacts when one of their " undecided" ones gets in trouble.

    It is so obvious, I am not going to even respond to you, and your gay friends.

    LOL....make me laugh....what is up with these queer guys....I make a thread, and these hens decided my post is not of their liking.....

    go on.....keep bitchin.....bunch of weirdos....

    I would like to hear from a moderator...if there is one.....why do I have to put up with this kind of weirdos....
     
  17. D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah

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    I think the only one i dont completley agree with there is men reaching orgasm within 2 minutes of penetration, of course it happens but i just dont think it happens that fast especially when he says it takes anywhere from 10-20 minutes of sex for a woman to reach orgasm..the numbers just dont add up and if he's theory is right women would NEVER get to a point of reaching orgasm
     
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    Also here in the womens forum it is nice and peaceful so please dont come in arguing. If we dont like a topic then it just wont get replied to..simple :biggrin1:
     
  19. dong20

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    I disagree with just about all those stats, based on my own experience and what partners have told me over the years. Maybe I'm a freak...but I it was all over after two minutes and the fun bits at the end only lasted 3 seconds!! I'd not be the only one feeling shortchanged.:rolleyes:
     
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    2 minutes would be so fast! I certainly hope that's not true. Fortunately my boyfriend doesn't orgasm that fast! When we have sex it takes me like 5-10 mins. to orgasm, and a lot of times I can have more if he stays hard. I'd say our normal time is anywhere from 15-30 minutes of sex and obviously more if you count foreplay. He's very considerate like that :tongue: .
     
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