so i've finally found the girl of my dreams and we've been dating for a good while now. we're both 21 and we're both virgins. we love each other and we're both glad that we've waited this long to find each other. we really want to have sex but there's one slight problem, shes really tight down there and her hymen is still intact. I can put one finger in her no problem but when i try to put in a second finger she finds it very painful. I cant even put in the tip of my second finger. i'm 7 inches long and my girth is a uniform 6 inchs all around. how should i begin to have sex with her??? she still hasnt made up her mind wheather i'm going to just thrust it in there at once or put it in very slowly. So my question is which way of penetration will cause her the least amount of pain????