Mkymkus said:
Clearly there is only one reason. Men are weaker. Guys who freak about this have to be a little bit hysterical. But really going on about a kiss or somebody looking at your dick seems like the male equivalent of a bunch shrieking girls--just in a lower key. Maybe weak guys think being gay could be contagious, and even the sight of a gay kiss could contaminate their sexual orientations.
Women have more confidence or more brains. They know a kiss is not going to change a damn thing. Not even an orgasm with another girl. Nothing is strong enough to change a real orientation, and most of them know it by instinct.
I can't imagine some confident straight guy with solid sexual experiences getting very bothered about how other people kiss or who they kiss and why. I can't imagine he would be interested enough to care. There is something bogus about going on and on about what you don't like, instead of simply doing what you do.
Wow, what a load of shit. The reason I don't like watching two guys kissing, is the same reason I don't like watching people eat that weird crap they have them eat on Fear Factor, it's fucking disgusting...to me, at least. Whatever some women, and or other guys, find to be a turn on doesn't mean a thing to me.
Now before at least a few of few start on me with that same, tired and old, crap about being homophobic and "scared it'll change my orientation"...consider this. Last weekend, I was woken up from being passed-out-drunk at a party (I'm in college) by a seriously confused gay guy pulling out my undershirt and trying to get his hand underneath my belt and at my cock. Are you fucking kidding me? He deserved to have had his face broken by me at that point. What did I do? After making a vain attempt to push him away and mutter some incoherent babble I went home from the party. Now, unfortunately, he happened to be a visiting friend of one of my female roommates. So he followed me back to my apartment, of course. Finally I strung together a coherent sentence and told him "Look, I don't know what kind of impression I gave you, but I ain't gay. So whatever you want to happen...it ain't gonna happen." This didn't even register in the psychotic fag's mind, and he continued to pursue me. (Ok, this is diverting me from my point, so I can write up the entire story of that night if any of you are interested in hearing the whole thing.)
Did I absolutely freak out about it? No. Do I absolutely hate seeing, or the thought of being involved in, anything gay? Yes. No matter if the two guys kissing are "straight", they are still involved in a gay, sexual act. To me it's the same thing as seeing your parents involved in some kind of sexual act (And how the original poster described the two girls "searching for lost treasure in each others throats", is something sexual). You don't really wanna see that, it's two people you don't think of in anyway as sexual, involved in something sexual. And the sight of it is disgusting. A kiss on the cheek between two close male friends? Whatever, I don't do it, but that's how you wanna show your friendship, go for it.
Women have more confidence or brains because they're comfortable kissing each other? HA. Lets get real here, the situation the original poster is talking about is two young girls making out with each other in front of a group of guys. The vast majority of these 'women' kissing each other, are young and insecure
girls doing it for the attention. Maybe guys don't feel the need to resort to making out with one another to get attention from girls. I guess that would then make us the 'smarter and more confident" group right?
No, I don't even think that. Just goes to show how ridiculous your statement is. Both men and women are smart and confident in their own way. These girls are smart enough to know it'll bring attention to them, and confident enough to know it doesn't mean they're lesbians. Guys on the other hand, are smart enough to know resorting to a gay act for attention is absolutely pitiful, and are confident that there are a hell of a lot better ways to get attention.
Well that was my first post. Glad I could introduce myself on such a good note lol. Let me know if you wanna hear about my night of being terrorized by a gay guy. I still can't believe that shit actually happened, but looking back on it, it was pretty funny.