Girls.....masturbation

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awellhungboi: I agree with Geo, mutual masturbation is great. Nice appetizer or dessert--great compliment to the main dish. I find the site of women masturbating very erotic anyway, but there's something just so intimate about sharing that with a partner, maybe since it's something that a lot of people do alone. My girlfriends have watched me a lot, especially if they're sore and I'm still horny. But watching her and letting her know how sexy and beautiful she is while getting herself off is a turn on for both of us.

 

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Valkyrie: [quote author=ORCABOMBER link=board=women;num=1065159262;start=0#15 date=10/06/03 at 08:48:18]
Just one thing, for the ladies, when did you start? Was it a natural progression, or something you read about? Excuse the ignorance, it just biases my decision to cuss a local paper or not.  :

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I've been doing it more or less regularly since 12-13 years of age. More when single, less when in a relationship - but never without it. For me it's been a natural progression you might say. I've always known it was something natural (i.e. nothing wrong with doing it), something that I could do, something that should be enjoyable and a good way to explore myself.

In a way you might say I'm blessed - having a mom who's been a midwife for 35+ years and who's worked with sexual education/sexual advice to both teens and adults for the better part of 20 years. Makes it easier to discuss these issues...

/Val

 

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Tender: [quote author=Monstro link=board=women;num=1065159262;start=20#20 date=10/06/03 at 20:52:40]I agree with Geo, mutual masturbation is great.  Nice appetizer or dessert--great compliment to the main dish.  I find the site of women masturbating very erotic anyway, but there's something just so intimate about sharing that with a partner, maybe since it's something that a lot of people do alone.  My girlfriends have watched me a lot, especially if they're sore and I'm still horny.  But watching her and letting her know how sexy and beautiful she is while getting herself off is a turn on for both of us.   [/quote]

ah i get it now.
oh yes... i like to watch him.
but ive never did it in front of him?!
hm.
anyway, as to the other Q of how long or when you first started doing it...
i never remember a time i *didnt* do it, even when i was small.
does that make sense??

 

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ORCABOMBER: LTL, erm, good point about "Sex and Da City" about vibrators and that, altough I'm thinking more "hands on" really.

Very good point actually, I mean, this probably goes to everyone, but would you use a toy, or actually already do? I'm too chicken really, and personally I don't feel I need that sort of thing.

Valkrie, good for you, I'm wondering how lucky some women are in that respect, oh well..

Tender, you're kinda like me in that respect, I KNOW that I've been playing ever since I can remember and I feel great about it.

On point a little, I'm wondering then, is there a need for 'self help' sections in magazines and in newspapers (like my local one), where you can phone a helpline on how to masturbate if you're female? Because you LPSGFem's don't need help in that regard!

Oh yeah, Monstro, you lucky, lucky "insert expletive here". ;D

 

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wvalady1968: I also remember fondling or playing with myself when I was young enough to be put down for naps. When I was eleven or so I fond an excellent way to achieve orgasm. Of course, then I had to deal with fears that I'd somehow impregnated myself.

I mean, anything that feels that good has to be dangerous for some reason, eh?

 

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LDSixx: At least once a week.

I was taking medication that totally dissipated any interest in sex. Sometimes my porno tapes don't interest me. Hmmm....

 

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Nasty_girl: I am sure that it is different with each women - but for me I do it everyday, sometimes 3 or 4 times a day. I wake up every morning horny and go to be horny.

 

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shortchanged: Nasty-girl.........you are going to make some lucky guy VERY happy one day! ;D

......youth is wasted on the young. :-/

[quote author=Nasty_girl link=board=women;num=1065159262;start=20#26 date=02/29/04 at 15:10:01] I am sure that it is different with each women - but for me I do it everyday, sometimes 3 or 4 times a day.  I wake up every morning horny and go to be horny.  [/quote]

 

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ORCABOMBER: That's a bit like saying "wisdom is wasted on the old".

 

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shortchanged: Bit of truth in that for sure.........otherwise the young women would go for experience.......

........instead of young and hung.....and in some cases......Rich!

[quote author=ORCABOMBER link=board=women;num=1065159262;start=20#28 date=03/02/04 at 00:30:42]That's a bit like saying "wisdom is wasted on the old".  [/quote]

 

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ORCABOMBER: I suppose you havent found the right person?

Personally, there are a lot of older women I think are very hot, it's probably a matter of getting them to realise you are too. ;D

I mean, I'm 21, but I'm no studmonkey, maybe because I'm hung, young, but not rich!

 

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roedhunt: I know all these answers from us women come as a shock to you guys, but its the truth. We werent raised like you men were. We dont joke about, talk about it, or for some, don't even know much about ourselves. Its not something mom sat down and told us about it. Or our girlfriends for that matter. Come on ladies, can you invision your mom talking to you about it? "Honey, this is your clit..".. eeeew.

In fact some women are so uneducated about it, there are so many sites for the ladies about our bodies and our sexuality. Sad, but true. In fact, how many women know that we get smegma under the clit hood? *sigh*

As for me, I did rub, touch myself when I was in complete isolation starting at such a young age. I never felt compelled to do it frequently, so I have gone for months without it. Now that I live alone for the first time in my life, that is one thing I do want to try to do more of. But its not really a priority....

 

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gicast: ok gig, I have NO reason to lie, I mean this place is pretty anonymous, right?

I never masterbated until I was about...15, and I only did it then out of curiousity. I must say I was pretty ingnorant as to what was what. But my mom actually did say stuff like, "this is your clit, ureatha, etc." but I had no idea that I could get real pleasure from it, until much later. To regress, I probably only masterbated maybe once a month, because I felt incredibly guilty.
Move on to dating years, I thought all men were preverts and so I stopped completely myself. Then when I was engaged to be married I didn't want to go into it totally naive (I was a virgin) My future husband suggested I read a book about it, so I read books on the "g spot" it was elusive, I never figured it out. Got extremely frustrated and stopped again.

Now, I rarely EVER, because I have a ready and willing real live man, which I take advantage of (if possible) several times a day! So like chicago_girl self-pleasuring is not necessary.

Plus we like to use toys in sex, It's fun. I believe that answers all.

 

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curiousboutdicks: Once a month now...i don't feel the need to masturbate anymore because i usually want something inside me when i am coming and i don't have any toys...so i only masturbate when my boyfriend can watch me...

 

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blar: lol nice thread

I was pretty surprised that 2 of my female friends admitted to me that they do it…..the funny thing was that both of those times that I was told this, was while we were stuck in a traffic jam on the hwy (I wonder what they will tell me next time we on stuck on the hwy )

in my opinon i find that older women are more open to saying that they do it compared to younger ones. me and my friends are "young" but the only reason they told me they do it is because we are very close.

I used to think they were wierd because i thought women don't really do this but then after seeing alot of older women on some Mbs say they do it kind of shocked me lol!

also remember fondling or playing with myself when I was young enough to be put down for naps. When I was eleven or so I fond an excellent way to achieve orgasm. Of course, then I had to deal with fears that I'd somehow impregnated myself.

yea i have read that many start at a very young age....heck my friend told me she started at like the age of 13 by riding the arm rest of her parents couch in the basement hahaha. the odd thing is she told me she using a pillow to do it, anyone else use this method?