girl speaking up. i never have and would never talk about an ex lover skills, endowments or lack there of with my current partner. i am open about i have done, what i like, the relevant facts of sexual history and health. even if i have nothing but ill will toward an ex i still respect them as a person, and their right to privacy, so i wouldn't feel comfortable talking trash.
also if someone i'm with is so willing to talk out of hand i can't help but think what they'll say about me when i'm an ex. gossip is icky and just makes you seem bitter.
ML
the edit: just so i don't sound completely insane, i've dated women almost exclusively i have seen how catty/evil/snarky they get. i have also learned to fear the following questions:
so how many women have you been with, really?
am i hotter/better/prettier than so and so?
does this make me look fat?
what are you thinking about?
all questions other than "where's the ___________?" are treated as hostile entrapment.
girls are mean.