Good luck in life, dude. I wasn't talking about on the forum. The forum is meaningless, especially for you, who cannot accept an opposing view.
How does it help? Honesty is almost always the best policy. You asked if you were being silly. I used words that more accurately describe your behavior and character. If you don't like it, don't be mad at me for telling you the truth as I see it; sit down and reflect. And use my real words, not a hodgepodge that is actually way more incendiary that the phrases I actually used. Ask yourself: How can I be a small, insecure man? What behavior specifically sparked that observation? Is there anything about the situations I described which contradict this notion? Or, on the other hand, have I throughout this thread only reinforced the idea that I am of small character, and indeed quite insecure. Can I see how someone could possibly draw these conclusions about myself, or is it completely a groundless accusation, meant only to hurt my feelings? Have I expressed any remorse for my own wrong-doing, or have I only justified it by accusing others of doing me wrong first? Am I a crybaby? Do my complaints come across as unpleasant whining? Is there a childish aspect to the nature of my complaints, and the way I couch them? Is crybaby really one of the nicest terms that could be used to describe my behavior? Isolating only the invasion of privacy: If I was honest and loving with my girlfriend, and she went through my mementos without my permission, what descriptors would come to my mind? Are any of them nicer than "crybaby"? What would I think if someone treated my sister with this level of mistrust and disrespect?
For the record, I NEVER called you a "pathetic small man". I called you small and insecure. And you are. By small, I mean petty. Even your whole argument with me is petty. You just reinforce my opinion, and others are beginning to view you the same way. I called your reaction to your girlfriend's honesty pathetic. Your reaction was to be a secretive snoop. That's pathetic. It really is. I also called you a crybaby. That's how I see you. Your thread comes across as, "Waah, waah! They hurted my wittle fewlings! I need you strangers to validate my pain! Waahh, waaahh!"
Like I said. I wish you the best of luck. If you can't find a way to be honest with yourself about your shortcomings, and improve yourself, your whole life is going to feel like a string of hard luck, unfairness, and setbacks. Once you are ready to come to grips with yourself, you will see that most of your adversity is self-inflicted, or exists only in your mind, much of what seems unfair is simply you not getting the results you wanted, though some of it will simply be that you have to accept that life is unfair, and you will find that any setbacks are not really obstacles, but stepping stones and launchpads, opportunities for you to shine. I honestly wish you good luck. I really think you're going to need it.