if you are not as physically attractive as others, but you still want to attract attention, you need to find other ways to do it.
If you understand this concept why did you have the problem with the girls behavior in the first place?
Were the girls wrong to focus on the guy with the big wang? No.
Were they right to do so? No.
They were drunk. Period.
Drunk people don't behave sensibly let alone with sensitivity.
Drunk people can become immersed in trying to hold a meaningful conversation with pets to the exclusion of other people at a party.
I was at a party once and drunkenly poured out a tale of emotional woe of having hurt my fiance when I told him I didn't love him enough to marry him to someone who had been very solicitous throughout the night. His response at the end of my tale?
"I really want to eat you out right now."
Alcohol does not enhance awareness or sensitivity to the emotional states of others. Give it up.
The girls were drunk and presented with a novelty and they behaved like drunks presented with a novelty. That's all it was. They'd have done the same thing had it been the newest phone or other gizmo.
In this case it was something sexual and I suspect that's why you're so bent out of shape by it.
Something else I want to address. You are complaining that you only wanted responses regarding the girl's behavior that night. That you're getting more than that is your own fault. Have another look at your original post.
Hi all, i would just like your opinion on this and if you believe i am just being silly.
I and quite a few friends, girls and boys, went on holiday. It was a typical lads and girls holiday and everything was going fine. After one night and quite a few beers, a few of us went back to our rented villa where we carried on the drinking. There were 5 lads 4 girls, sitting around the pool when the the topic of skinny dipping popped up. we all were up for it but the girls would only do it if they left there thongs on which as lads drunk didnt mind!!!! the girls went first and jumped in, and then told us to go for it. So we went for it and took all clothes off. The next thing i could hear then was the girls saying omg and laughs etc so i looked across to see my friend with his out. He is black and it was big but i just couldnt believe how the girls were just looking at it. To cut a long story short we jumped in and had a laugh but they did make a bee line for him which did pee me off a bit. Weeks after i got with one of the girls and started dating, and now we have been together just over a year. Last week again a group of us were round my mates when we decieded to play truth or dare. When it got to my gf turn she said truth and the question was have you ever had a bigger penis then mine and she answered yes!!!!! When we got home i asked about it and she said it was a black guy she dated from high school. I knew she had school pics etc, so when she went out i went snooping and found some private ones of him and my mrs. Yes he was very well endowed, and some of the pics showed them having sex which really hurt me (i know i shouldnt of looked) but something i saw confused me which hopefully the girls on here can answer
The man had loads of white creamy stuff on his penis, is this a cream for lubrication or just from his cum?
And were the girls wrong to single out my friend who was well endowed when we went skinny dipping, as i felt a right plonker !!!!!!!
The red is where you invite responses. In the first line you ask our opinion on "this". The readers assumption is that "this" means the entire post or you wouldn't have typed the whole fucking thing out. If you only wanted answers regarding the situation detailed in blue you should have stopped there. Instead you went on and added the portions in shades of green (chosen for envy) which are completely unrelated to the brief situation you now claim as the only thing you want feedback on.
I call bullshit.
Either you wanted feedback on the entire situation (your repeated insecurities) and you're backtracking now because you can't deal with the honesty or you're just too stupid to prevent your insecurities from leaking out all over the place unintentionally as evidenced by the inclusion of the green portions of your OP.
Hi all, i would just like your opinion on this and if you believe i am just being silly.
You said you wanted opinions then supplied the situation
s, plural, the blue and the greens. So the entirety is what you're getting feedback on. Suck it up.
These are
your insecurities. It is
your problem. You're getting feedback on the whole post because
you gave it, making it
your responsibility. Stop being a weasel and own up to it.
In answer to your other specific question in red, the cream you see in the photo could be either lube, sperm or both.
*edit*
Learn to use the quote button.