@alteredego
Yes you are right, what he did was wrong and show insecurity in his character. We already understand that and we said he sorry, he apologized to his gf and admitted he was wrong.
But the girl's behaved like that because of their insecurity as well. I already confirmed with OP and he did tell me the girls didn't have killer bodies and had bad looking tits. But the OP and his friends didn't say anything to make the girls feel uncomfortable or ruin the atmosphere.
They were bunch of friends going out on a trip having fun on their holidays. To act like this and make others feel uncomfortable is just flat out inconsiderate and idiotic. Way to ruin holiday for others. With asshole friends like these who really needs an enemy?
OP also told me that their friendship is broken up and they don't talk much to the other thick headed bimbos. If you saying what girls did wasn't wrong, then why did their action ruin the holiday and the friendship??
Again, it's not about grabbing attention or any thing, OP said it OVER AND OVER AGAIN. He never wanted the girls' attention, but was just asking what the women think of the girls' behavior. Because if it was other way around I know what women will say. I heard it time and time again, women say that guys look at body parts and judge women by their looks only are shallow, assholes, jerks, sexist pigs, losers, douche bags, worthless piece of shits, etcetc. But when it's a woman, she is some sort of a "queen", or was just having fun and she was withing her rights to be inconsiderate knuckle head.
So what you saying is alteredego, next time I'm in party I should act like this? I mean trust me I can do this to women without even doing skinny dipping. You can see women tits size with their clothes on. So you reckon next time I'm in a party/social gathering, and I find my self attracted to a big chested woman with nice ass, you think I should just start commenting on how beautiful her big tits are compared to the small ones?? So is this your advice alteredego??
Not trying to pick an argument with you or anything, I just want to make things clear and I wanna know what you think is appropriate to say to others and how one should treat their "friends".