Girls self value of giving a good BJ

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  1. tonster

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    Girls how much do u put into sucking dick? What does giving good head mean to you? What are the signs that your doing a good job?
     
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    Women that take pride in their oral prowess are rare and are a delight!
     
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    I know tons of women who think they give good head but only a few that LOVE giving head. There in lies the difference.
     
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    You have to LOVE it to give that BJ to be remembered.
     
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    You certainly do!
     
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    Hmmm.... are men more into oral than women? Is that fair?
     
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    Dude I love giving head... but I wish like hell I had your skills!!!
     
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    Hon, with that attitude, I wish I was closer-I'd like to let you hone your skills on me......!!!!!!!
     
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    I love it...so I put a lot into it if the guy qualifies. I love everything about it, and it fits my personality just perfect. Signs? That speaks for itself.
     
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    Making a man cum way sooner than either of us expected. Making a man cum multiple times in one sexual encounter with just my mouth alone.

    The sign that a woman truly loves sucking dick is that she will initiate if not beg for it. As much as I love penetration, there are days that I just want to suck cock with no penetration or (as anyone who has read my previous posts knows) oral reciprocation whatever.
    Sucking a dick dry can be a totally gratifying experience all on it's own.
     
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    I, personally, enjoy very much giving oral. It's a major turn on to me. I don't give head to just anyone, though. You actually have to mean something to me in order for me to preform, and also...whether it feels good to you or not. If I didn't give a shit about a person emotionally, then I'm not going to give a shit about whether you like what I'm doing or not. Why would I care if I'm just there to get off? That's just the type of person I am. Hence why it's hard for me to be physical with people I don't genuinely have feelings for.

    I think some women genuinely don't like giving oral to their partners, but I think there's a majority of women who just don't like admitting they like giving oral.
     
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    I enjoy giving my hubby a BJ. My problem is I am not good at it and have hurt him. So I find myself reluctant to do it out of fear of hurting him. I know he would love more of it, so I am fighting my fear to change things. The thing that gets me in trouble is when I give him a BJ I get so sexually stirred up I get rough and then he gets hurt.
     
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    I agree with christinab, I love giving oral but it depends on the person to what extend. And eventhough ''technique'' is important, it's more often about caring enough to put in that extra effort and make him go crazy. Making your bedpartner arroused or cum is just as rewarding for us, as it would be for a man. So yes, we care.

    Recieving oral on the other hand, isn't for me and has nothing to do with the person I'm with or his ''skills''.
     
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    Why not?
     
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    wow.....incredible...not many women are as great as you....i'm speechless and monstrously turned on.
     
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    No doubt sweetie, you got that right. I know this is a thread for women but I had to say something. Sucking cock is an art form. Sexy smiles, dirty talk, enthusiaam and skills are a must. I get so turned sucking cock that I will cum in my pants (never touching my cock or pulling it out). Sometimes I'll set up the 52" flat screen with my super laid back chair and put in a straight vid for him, turn the lights down and suck his cock real good, needless to say they only last about five to ten minutes.:biggrin1:
     
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    Originally posted by greatdickismydrug:

    .....enjoying it as much, if not more, than the man I am giving it to does.

    Sweetheart, having read everything you have to say about sucking cock (several times), I truly doubt that it is possible for the recipient of a BJ from you to enjoy it less than you. If you have ever had your cock sucked properly (and, fortunately, I have) you will know that it can be an ecstatic experience. I don't know how to effectively describe it: Amazing? Mind-blowing? Those words fall short.

    For me, it is the most intimate and loving sexual thing a woman can do for a man. Fucking is great. BJs are better - the best.

    You clearly have fantastic oral skills. On behalf of the roughly 3 billion currently-living men who did, do, or would enjoy experiencing a great BJ, thank you for your enthusiasm.
     
  19. dolfette

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    i can confidently say that 0% of my self value relies on me sucking a penis.
     
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    As it should. Sucking cock well is about pleasure, nothing more.
     
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