Girls self value of giving a good BJ

[hud01]

I, personally, enjoy very much giving oral. It's a major turn on to me. I don't give head to just anyone, though. You actually have to mean something to me in order for me to preform, and also...whether it feels good to you or not. If I didn't give a shit about a person emotionally, then I'm not going to give a shit about whether you like what I'm doing or not. Why would I care if I'm just there to get off? That's just the type of person I am. Hence why it's hard for me to be physical with people I don't genuinely have feelings for.

I think some women genuinely don't like giving oral to their partners, but I think there's a majority of women who just don't like admitting they like giving oral.

Had a gf who used to really get into oral. On occassion she was even able to DT me.

After breaking up we continued to have sex over the next 3 or 4 years. The sex was good, but the oral got worse over time and she never DT'd me again.

 

[3664shaken]

What does giving good head mean to you?

When I was younger it meant a lot more than it does now. I used to get a big ego boost every time I made a guy climax.

I would feel like Oh yeah - I'm good :arms: look at me.

I was young and very naive back then but I was proud of the reputation that I had of giving really great head. Making a guy cum who 'claims' to have never had a orgasm from a BJ made my ego grow.

Girls how much do u put into sucking dick?

Back then I use to think of it as an art form, it was like I was almost worshiping the cock that I was sucking on and I would put everything into it to make their orgasm mind blowing. A little older and hopefully wiser, I still think I give a rather good BJ but it is done mostly as foreplay or in between sex while changing positions.

It also depends upon how much the guy is liking it - the more he enjoys it the more I feed off of him and put more into it. One of my boy-toy's has a very hard time climaxing during intercourse, but he's pretty easy to get off orally. We tend to screw first, I get my satisfaction and then I get to worship his cock, in that instance I put my all into it and he really enjoys the effort.

What are the signs that your doing a good job?

Every guy is different, cock swelling, curving more, head getting bigger, legs straightening and leg muscles tightening, moaning, grabbing my head, hips beginning to thrust, pre-cum, "oh god" being said (technically it should be oh goddess), cum hitting the back of my throat, etc.:069:

 

[latinluva]

i can confidently say that 0% of my self value relies on me sucking a penis.

Not me, everytime I get on my knees, it's like Christmas...and I can't wait to open my present. I get so excited. As long as its hard and clean, we aint gonna have no problems.:tongue: I'd say 99.9% value in my life.

 

[EllieP]

I think I am an expert in oral sex. At least I have a very satisfied customer with plenty of repeat business to show for my expertise. However, it does take quite a bit of skill, I have to say. I've had to work very hard to be able to completely please the hubby. It's almost like scaling a mountain! For the first few months I just had no stamina to see any results, so to speak. But I'm finally able to be very comfortable accommodating him.

My only problem is with 69. I just can't get in a position where I don't hurt him with my teeth, so I try to be extra careful, but I end up giving myself a jaw ache.

But I do pride myself on being able to pleasure my husband in very special ways.

 

[Daisy]

I LOVE it. I know I'm doing a good job when his legs start shaking and his toes curl. He says a lot of curse words "shit..fuck..damn.." at times he can barely breathe (I'm scared he's going to hyperventilate!) I don't have to question if I do a good job. He loves it and I love doing it.

and I agree with the girls..I have to care about the guy (which I do) so it's ALL GOOD!! :wink:

 

[Daisy]

My only problem is with 69. I just can't get in a position where I don't hurt him with my teeth, so I try to be extra careful, but I end up giving myself a jaw ache.
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This also takes practice, have you tried being on the bottom? I didn't realize that when he got on top the thing would slide ALL the way down my throat, oops! Accidental deep throating. You gotta love it!

 

[latinluva]

The funny thing is, when I'm giving head, I feel like I have total control over him....weird.

 

[voidout]

Had a gf who used to really get into oral. On occassion she was even able to DT me.

After breaking up we continued to have sex over the next 3 or 4 years. The sex was good, but the oral got worse over time and she never DT'd me again.

romantical emotions make us here women folk care about yer there manhood more, by golly!

 

[Empathizer]

Dude I love giving head... but I wish like hell I had your skills!!!

I was actually shy about talking about this till I saw your answer, but I take a great deal of pride in my ability to put my fist in my mouth (up to the little knob on the wrist if I have a glass of wine in me) and deep-throat 7.5 inches for about 15 seconds at a time (more according to some, but no watch handy, so I'll go with the recorded personal record).

And I love to. It tastes and smells like... Like MAN.

It's so intimate. You can really tell a lot about a guy by how much he'll trust you to control the blowjob. And how appreciative he is when you show him how much deeper you can take him when you're relaxed because he's given you that control.

I like a guy who'll lie back and moan and massage my ears and neck. No shoving. Just affection and praise for what's right, suggestions for improvement, and a taste of at least the precum.

 

[AlphaMale]

... I didn't realize that when he got on top the thing would slide ALL the way down my throat, oops! Accidental deep throating. You gotta love it!

Me next please!! :wave2: :wink:

 

[cdog204]

I LOVE it. I know I'm doing a good job when his legs start shaking and his toes curl.

That sounds good- care to share a tip? I've never had it make my toes curl.

I've known a few women who liked to boast about their skills in this department. They're usually not that good. One girl who took great pride in her BJ was horrid - she literally was blowing on me and dabbing her tongue like a cat cleaning.

 

[Daisy]

I don't know what I do exactly, perhaps he could tell you better.

 

[TheRob]

This also takes practice, have you tried being on the bottom? I didn't realize that when he got on top the thing would slide ALL the way down my throat, oops! Accidental deep throating. You gotta love it!

hot post

I was actually shy about talking about this till I saw your answer, but I take a great deal of pride in my ability to put my fist in my mouth (up to the little knob on the wrist if I have a glass of wine in me) and deep-throat 7.5 inches for about 15 seconds at a time (more according to some, but no watch handy, so I'll go with the recorded personal record).

And I love to. It tastes and smells like... Like MAN.

It's so intimate. You can really tell a lot about a guy by how much he'll trust you to control the blowjob. And how appreciative he is when you show him how much deeper you can take him when you're relaxed because he's given you that control.

I like a guy who'll lie back and moan and massage my ears and neck. No shoving. Just affection and praise for what's right, suggestions for improvement, and a taste of at least the precum.

1.) Wanna get married?
2.) Thanks for the tip on rubbing her ears I never thought of that.

 

[TheRob]

When I was younger it meant a lot more than it does now. I used to get a big ego boost every time I made a guy climax.

I would feel like Oh yeah - I'm good :arms: look at me.

I was young and very naive back then but I was proud of the reputation that I had of giving really great head. Making a guy cum who 'claims' to have never had a orgasm from a BJ made my ego grow.



Back then I use to think of it as an art form, it was like I was almost worshiping the cock that I was sucking on and I would put everything into it to make their orgasm mind blowing. A little older and hopefully wiser, I still think I give a rather good BJ but it is done mostly as foreplay or in between sex while changing positions.

It also depends upon how much the guy is liking it - the more he enjoys it the more I feed off of him and put more into it. One of my boy-toy's has a very hard time climaxing during intercourse, but he's pretty easy to get off orally. We tend to screw first, I get my satisfaction and then I get to worship his cock, in that instance I put my all into it and he really enjoys the effort.



Every guy is different, cock swelling, curving more, head getting bigger, legs straightening and leg muscles tightening, moaning, grabbing my head, hips beginning to thrust, pre-cum, "oh god" being said (technically it should be oh goddess), cum hitting the back of my throat, etc.:069:

I love how you describe it as worshipping the cock, you could teach a class
in fact I wish you would

 

[TheRob]

this is completely off topic, but i just looked at your pictures...

and your body is fucking RIDICULOUS. bangin' hott, and if you really are 43, i pray i look that look. god damn, girl. hahaha.

very true
that body is fantastic

 

[voidout]

very true
that body is fantastic

RIGHT?! i'm sayin'...

 

[thehighheelsgirl]

I wish I could give good blowjobs

 

[bld_64]

I wish I could give good blowjobs

Practice makes perfect...

 

[hud01]

I was actually shy about talking about this till I saw your answer, but I take a great deal of pride in my ability to put my fist in my mouth (up to the little knob on the wrist if I have a glass of wine in me) and deep-throat 7.5 inches for about 15 seconds at a time (more according to some, but no watch handy, so I'll go with the recorded personal record).

And I love to. It tastes and smells like... Like MAN.

It's so intimate. You can really tell a lot about a guy by how much he'll trust you to control the blowjob. And how appreciative he is when you show him how much deeper you can take him when you're relaxed because he's given you that control.

I like a guy who'll lie back and moan and massage my ears and neck. No shoving. Just affection and praise for what's right, suggestions for improvement, and a taste of at least the precum.

Very hot. the best thng is a woman who takes control. I love running my hands through the hair of the girl giving me head and to massage her scalp. If she likes, I play with her ears and neck.

 

[KTF40]

1)Totally losing myself in the experience and enjoying it as much, if not more, than the man I am giving it to does. I find it soothing and invigorating all at the same time 2) being willing, enthusiastic, and attentive/open to a man's individual BJ preferences

Making a man cum way sooner than either of us expected. Making a man cum multiple times in one sexual encounter with just my mouth alone.

The sign that a woman truly loves sucking dick is that she will initiate if not beg for it. As much as I love penetration, there are days that I just want to suck cock with no penetration or (as anyone who has read my previous posts knows) oral reciprocation whatever.
Sucking a dick dry can be a totally gratifying experience all on it's own.

Wait??? A girl who is as enthusiastic about giving oral sex as I am? I didn't realize these kind of people exist