This is an interesting topic. For one thing it has been my experience that a good lover can make their other half better. Meaning this if she is not "riding correctly" lean up kiss her on the neck softly grab her in the lower back and "help" her find what u are looking for. Keep in mind though what works for u might not do anything for her. Also lots of dirty talk. This does not mean "ride my fucking cock" all the time. Sometimes it is "Mmmm ya baby just like that. Oh ya that's it. Etc." Let her know when she does something right or wrong. I guarntee things I like u might hate. No 2 people are the same so u need to assist your lover to what u want and also listen to her on what she wants.