Girls that dont like giving head...

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  1. D_kutecuyug

    D_kutecuyug New Member

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    What can you do to get them too :-s Ive tried everything, being nice, teasing her, giving her everything! Even bribary!!! ARGH! She doesnt even realise how much of a big deal it is to me
     
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    Providing hygiene isn't an issue, get another girl or find a guy.

    She has no clue what she's missing. Pity.
     
  3. D_kutecuyug

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    But like she used to do it all the time and then she just stopped. And I love her to bits but it really effects me. I mean its soo frustrating because its problees the best feeling in the world and she knows how much I love it but she just wont do it because she says she doesnt like it. I mean Ive tried not to make a big deal out of it but last night I kicked off at her when I was drunk. It really really annoys me!!! Am I wrong? I know its not the end of the world but why should I be deprived of it :-s
     
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    If getting head from your "love" is the only major concern you have and it is going to affect your relationship, say bye bye.

    Yeah, anger and drunkenness are incompatable, especially if you lash out at someone.

    And wrong.

    If just receiving head is all you're interested in, you're in a shallow relationship. If she doesn't like it, you can't force her to like it.

    I love it, but I can't force it on my wife. It's a bit of work for some women, and if she doesn't want to gobble, its her right.
     
  5. D_kutecuyug

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    I wouldnt mind if she never did it EVER. But to do it for months upon months and then stop is just a bitch. I mean you have a good sexual life and enjoy everything and then its like somethings missing and its soo frustrating! ARGH! I really dont wana split up with her over it but it just makes me wana look elsewhere... GRRRRR Im a cunt I know.
     
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    Well do you ever go down on her? Does she want that from you? It never will hurt to ask if something in your relationship is irreversibly altered. And then again do not pressure her.
     
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    use a fruit flavor water based lubricant so she can suck a kiwi flavored dick :)
     
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    To be honest I would do absolutely anything to or with her!!! She just needs to ask :)
    So its only fair she does this for me! ARGH! Maybe I need to be more patient and understanding :-s
    Its just depressing
     
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    what kind of food can you eat to make your ejaculate taste better? For some women it's a turn off, especially if you smoke.

    Pineapple seems to get some write up. Are there other foods?
     
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    if its a new relationship,ladies often do "whatever"to please you.but in time their interest fades.find another gal.:wink:
     
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    Did you try this...

    Ask her why she no longer likes to it?

    Then let us know.

    My guess is that she just tolerated it to snag you, but she never really liked sucking dick...too bad...I love sucking dick...go find a real cocksucker, if that is what you need in life.
     
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    This is the age old problem..."Guys getting head, then nothing..."

    Everything you've said has happened to me and many others. When dating, many years ago, my now wife would go down on my pole whenever she got the chance...watching TV, in the car, at the drive in, sitting on her porch swing, etc. And she would stay attached well after I ejaculated, just to make sure she got every drop, often until I went limp.

    Then we got married.....

    Now I get a BJ for my birthday, that's it. She knows how much I love them, and she knows she doesn't have to finish me off, but ZERO !

    As far as reciprocating....I'm between her legs ALL THE TIME. In fact just recently I was there for over 30 minutes, just exploring, licking, bringing her to 2 orgasms ! My neck was killing me by the time I was done.

    And yes, like previously mentioned, I would do anything at anytime for her, all she has to do is ask ! But for me...ZERO.

    There is NO good advice, just communication !!! Maybe her knowing that she doesn't have to swallow, or perhaps a nice 69 position, that works for me sometimes.

    I think women take our penises for granted after a few years of exploring them. I don't think there are that many women that are as in love with our penises as we are. Too bad....
     
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    It could be that she feels that you prefer getting head to fucking her which is bound to piss her right off!
    There have been times when I've felt like that and it's a real 'rejection' feeling. Not good. I suggest you back off asking for a while, concentrate on pleasing her for a bit and see if she starts doing it again of her own accord. If she doesn't, well, time to trade in methinks!
     
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    At the end she will never do it, because she is grossed out by it ;) happens.
     
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    my wife is reluctant to give head, and in fact never did until she watched some porno flick with a girl friend and came home and started sucking my cock while i was sleeping and then jumped on. i was liking it, we had been married about 10 yrs, and had a more than good sex life with out oral stimulation. so I reciprocated and started licking her when she asked. so we carried on this way for the next 7-8 yrs.

    then a few years ago, she didn't want me to lick her, and shortly after she would not suck me. I think she sees it as being sub-servient to a man, and also sees licking and sucking as something gay people do, it's what they do because they can't have normal sex like a man & woman. I'm not sure what is really going on with her. she is past the change in life, menopause, and we still have good sex, sometimes 3 times a week, then 2 weeks without. it varies greatly and so does her attitude. sometimes I'll ask her to bed, she say I don't feel like it, but I'll jerk you off. I'll say how about a nice blow job, sometimes i get a curt no, and sometimes she'll say okay, I'm supposed to do everything you want to keep you happy. she stops sucking me as soon as the pre cum fluid appears. sometimes she will stop sucking me and just admire my cock, usually how did fat cock get on a skinny guy. she's also comments that don't make it any fatter. she knows I jelq and it has gotten fatter over the years. I think her hormones or the lack of them really fuck up her attitude. when she was younger, I fucked her every day at least once, and it wasn't just me being horny, she loved my cock. this went on for 2 yrs before we were married and about 3 years after we were married. I can remember Saturdays in the winter were we fucked all day long. 10-12 orgasms for me, 20 or more for her. each erection lasted longer than the one before. when done, my cock would be hanging so low, the head swollen and my balls were drained, the size of peas. I am sure my cock grew after I was married, because we did this quit often. she would be sore, and walking slightly bow legged. ah the good old days, I've got quite a swelling thinking about, wonder if i can wake her and get me some?
     
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    Ouch!

    One of the biggest relationship killers out there is communication. It's hard to believe that what she used to do regularly, if not enthusiastically, suddenly stopped because she simply doesn't like it. Without any drink, talk to her about it. Ask her what it is she doesn't like and don't settle for a simple, "I don't like it." Find out what about it she doesn't like. Is it an odor? Flavor? Fear of coming in her mouth? Does she feel humiliated? Something you do or say?

    Raise the subject as kindly and gently as possible, explaining how much it means to you, that you feel frustrated, a bit rejected, etc. Be honest and ask that she do the same with you. Unless there's some underlying issue, you should be able to resolve this before it gets any worse.
     
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    just suck yourself if it's a big problem for you.
    If she don't want to do it, you are just being a prick by pressuring her.
     
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    Ahh, but she used to do it. Something has changed. I think discovering the cause is of great importance. Someone witholding a sex act their partner enjoyed means that something is wrong with the relationship. What they need to do as a couple is discover the source of the issue and work it out. If she truly hates it so much then why did she do it before? While I agree he should not pressure her, it is fair to make clear how important fellatio is to him. If it's a deal breaker then both will have to find other partners who are more sexually compatible. Before it comes to that, the best thing is to talk about it frankly and without accusations.
     
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    Maybe she's not doing it because she feels pressured. Being pushed in one direction constantly does nothing except make someone want to pull back the opposite way.

    Don't mention it for a while, she'll come around.
     
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