i always joke so i dont take much serious, my convos about everything can be taken the wrong way at any given time, so fuck it.
That's a great attitude to have.
its cool i dont care about being judged, i say its strange myself, but i do have a fetish, seeing ur pic thought i ask.... i still do think like, amazing how 6'5 can have a 5inch penis, and a 5'7 can have a 10 inch penis, just so strange, its the same with wrists and women, just cuz i look at that and some girls just have big wrist for their size, others small wrist for their size.
i can go into detail about wrist to hand ratio, the thickness width from side to side , all that, but i already look crazy, so i will keep all that inside right now
LOL! Men do seem to love to quantify.
Compared to all the odd things I've learned about in the past 8 months, it's not strange at all. :smile:
My explanation is that most size queens are gay. That's just my hypothesis.
True, but only a small percentage of the population is both male and gay/bisexual.
As for the dearth of women: I think there is still a certain stigma to only wanting big dicks and then some just never find it because they don't need the internet for that.
There is a stigma, but the internet provides anonymity and that gives people freedom to express unpopular ideas and viewpoints. That stigma shouldn't keep women away from the large cocks on the internet if that's what they want.
On CollarMe and FetLife, people explore much less acceptable kinks than a taste for large cocks, and there are a LOT of women. In fact, out of curiosity, I just now went to the only two "large penis" groups on FetLife, and the memberships are shockingly small, less than 400 members in one and less than 900 in the other one (most of the members of one are most likely members of the other one). Almost no women in those either, and people on FetLife accept watersports and scat play as acceptable and not to be judged as long as it's either Safe, Sane, and Consenual or RISK Aware. Even in that incredibly accepting atmosphere, for the most part the female size queens are missing.
That being said I do think only a certain percentage of women are true (huge dicks only) size queens. What that percentage is I have no idea. Perhaps somewhere between 10-17%.
I agree with you. Obviously some women prefer large cocks. If I were going to put a number to that percentage, though, my guess would be much smaller than yours, but it would only be a guess.
I do think that most women would prefer larger...at least larger than me. But they don't make it the end-all of their sexual requirements. I guess there are still some women that prefer a hot guy with an average dick.
As for not hot guys with smaller dicks? Well......I guess that's why I'm in therapy. :smile:
I know that! I hope that therapy helps you. You need to focus more of your attention on figuring out what women DO want in bed and worrying less about your equipment. Pick up Cosmo some time. And listen to what women say they enjoy. Go and read those reviews I told you to read before. My intention was for you to learn what is pleasurable for a woman, so you can use that knowledge. I know that you're intelligent. Put that brain to use!
To be honest that lady.....if she hadn't just been using me to get to my better looking friend I would have told her to take a hike. She was dumb and we had zero in common.....except a mutual hatred of American Idol. That was our only common ground.
Good! I'm glad to hear that. It seems like you tend to take it to heart when someone else treats you badly instead of blaming them for being a jerk. I'm glad to hear that you were going to reject her because she wasn't good enough for you. :smile: