It's not the first time on here that we've heard about size ruining a relationship. However, one thing that always happens in the end, is that if they're not willing to at least TRY to put some effort into making it work, the relationships eventually fail. The tension gets too great, and spills into other areas, and a breakup finally follows. Besides, if one of you wants a relationship, and the other just wants sex, the "relationship" is just one-sided, and again, will fail. You can't "make" someone want to be with you. You've gotta cut your losses and move on, and hopefully to someone who actually enjoys your size.
Words of wisdom.
There are plenty of women out there who can take a big cock and who really, really want to. Also, if you find a woman who's a bit too snug for your cock but who's really into
you, she will most likely, as Novice says, want to make it work.
However, making it work involves a
lot more than stretching with dildos -- in fact, in my personal experience, stretching is extremely temporary, and doesn't do anything to change the real capacity of a woman's vagina (unless done to extreme excess? -- I don't know).
I think the real key is arousal (her vagina being
fully wet and "tented" to accept you)...if you're having to use tons of artificial lube to squeeze it in, chances are the woman may not be turned on enough to take you in the first place. Some women have trouble getting wet, but most women, by the time they're really turned on, will also be really wet, and that's when you should enter her -- not before.
However, in my relationship, even though I can get extremely wet, there are still some limitations imposed by my fiancee's size. The reality is, my pussy can only take about one hard fucking from him per day without getting excessively sore. So, we do a lot of oral, S&M activity, etc. and not just fucking.
If he
has fucked me several times on a particular day, he often decides to give my pussy the next one to two days off. We are very fortunate not to have any problems with my jaw, etc. so I can do lots of oral. I understand that can also be an issue for some couples -- if the man has a very thick cock and the woman has jaw problems, there can be limitations there, too.
Anyway, Artful and I may not be able to fuck as much as we could if he were smaller or my vagina were more accommodating, but we still wouldn't want each other to be any other way. I love the way his thick cock feels inside me, and I'm glad to get that feeling as often as I can, even if it's not for unlimited periods of time.