I "show" about 5"s around flacid, and "grow" to about 5.5"s around when I'm hard... I think of myself as neither a "shower" nor a "grower"...but I've had girls see me as either (or neither, I suppose), depending on their previous experience, I guess... From what I've noticed in porn, girth is more easily predicted - the "girthiest" of guys are big when soft... Comments? Observations? Also, I've noticed that girls can take more girth than they can length - a long guy is more likely to hurt than a thick guy... Comments? Observations?